When two people can't meet, simply messaging and chatting has become the most basic way to maintain the relationship between the two parties.
Once a message is sent, you will definitely look forward to a timely reply from the other party. Even if you can't reply in time, I hope that the other party can respond vividly and interestingly after seeing it.
But the more you look forward to something, the more likely it is to be disappointed.
When you are full of expectations for the other party to respond, she uses her indifference to extinguish your enthusiasm again and again.
In a relationship, a woman doesn't care about you, so she will reply to your message like this, don't insist on it anymore.
1. The tone is perfunctory, and the number of words in the reply is very small
A blogger on the Internet recalled that in his last relationship, he used to like a girl very much, so he sent messages to chat with her every day with great anticipation.
But when he sent a lot of messages to share his feelings with her, the other party's reply every time was almost only perfunctory tone words and scribbled numbers that seemed to make people's hearts cold.
At first, the blogger will comfort himself inwardly that the other party is just too busy to reply to the message.
But once when he saw the other party chatting with other people enthusiastically and lively, he realized that he could no longer deceive himself.
Chatting is like building a spiritual bridge between two people, although it can't be seen or touched, it can bring each other's hearts closer.
But if she doesn't care about you emotionally, she won't devote her energy to building this spiritual bridge with you.
Most of the people who perfunctory you don't care about you.
Because I don't care, that's why I treat you casually.
2. Hang on to you, and you won't reply in seconds when you see the message
There is such a hot comment on NetEase Cloud:
"I've finally gotten through the half-asleep waiting for him to reply, and now I have no expectations or disappointment for him, so I can sleep well!"
In a relationship, "replying to messages in a timely manner" is like giving the other person a sense of security. On the contrary, when you can't wait for a message, it will make people feel empty.
In the same way, emotionally, if she is unwilling to give you a sense of security in replying to messages, but often hangs you and does not reply to you until she remembers, then she probably doesn't care about you that much.
Before replying to your message, she goes to finish the things that she thinks are more important, and you, come after those things. It can be seen that your position in her heart is not high.
People who often hang you out just don't care about you that much.
Someone who really cares about you will be happy to get closer to your heart in the chat.
3. Don't reply to your messages, but have a good chat with others
A simple online chat can often tell what kind of position you are in the other person's heart.
When you are enthusiastic about sharing your daily situation with her, confiding in her about her thoughts, and even finding some jokes to tell her, and she is indifferent to them, and often does not reply to your messages, but chats with others and has a good time, then you should know that she just doesn't care about you, so she will treat you like this.
She doesn't reply to messages, she just doesn't want to continue your conversation. Maybe she is not easy to refuse on the surface, so she uses this way of snubbing you to let you know her thoughts euphemistically.
There is a saying, "If you don't reply, it's already a reply." ”
Since she treats you like this, then leave a little decent impression on each other, and it is enough to stop and stop insisting on it.
The twisted melon is not sweet, when she is indifferent to you and perfunctory to you, no matter how strong the love is, it should stop.
Her indifference is reflected in the chat history, and it is also left blank in the reply to your message.
That's it, since we can't go forward together, it's enough to stay here with her.