When a woman contacts you like this, most likely she doesn't like you and doesn't have to pursue it anymore

The chat record is like a love letter to two people in a relationship, every word expresses the respective emotions and emotions of both parties.

Chat history can reflect a person's heart and also show how much she cares about you.

If she doesn't have much affection for you, then the chat history between you is likely to be respectful. It's rare to feel her enthusiasm in your dialogs.

Her feelings for you are expressed in the reply to your messages.

When a woman contacts you like this, most likely she doesn't like you and doesn't have to pursue it anymore.

1. Your enthusiasm in exchange for her indifference

There is a blogger online who once shared his story with his ex-girlfriend. When the two first started dating together, he cheered in his heart, and every day he couldn't hide his joy and sent messages to chat with each other.

At that time, the other party would occasionally reply with a sentence or two, and sometimes simply reply with a meme. But he has always been happy to do it, feeling that the other party is too busy, and he has to spend more energy to maintain this relationship.

Later, when he was in a very low mood, he sent more than a dozen messages in a row, trying to get comfort from the other party. But in the end, he only received three words: "um", "good", "oh".

Seeing this short and indifferent reply, his long-term persistence and enthusiasm collapsed in an instant at that moment.

"The moment I parted, my whole heart lightened," he said. ”

Insisting on pursuing someone who doesn't like you is like pressing a huge stone in your heart. I have been delusional that others can remove the stone in my heart, but I didn't expect that as long as I am willing to let go, the stone will disappear.

2. I'd rather play with your phone than reply to your messages

In a relationship, a person's likes and dislikes can't be hidden most of the time.

When she can't see you, she may be able to run her life in a relaxed and comfortable way. But once she sees you, she can't help but want to run away from you.

She may not have figured out what was going on in her own heart, but the moment she saw you, she instantly lost the desire to communicate. She prefers to be alone with you rather than chatting endlessly with you.

So, even if she usually sees your message, she is not in a hurry to reply. Often when she has had enough of playing with her phone, or is busy with other things, she will remember to reply to your messages.

A person who would rather play with his phone than reply to your messages is essentially less like you.

Because she doesn't depend on you in her heart, and she doesn't even have curiosity about you. In other words, you are not attractive to her.

So, recognize her feelings for you as soon as possible, and don't have to pursue someone who doesn't like you.

3. It takes a long time to receive a reply from her

If a person doesn't like you, the simplest manifestation is to show it in the online chat with you.

She doesn't have a good impression of you in her heart, and if she just treats you like a normal friend, she won't be very positive in replying to your messages.

Usually there are other things around that can distract her, so she may find time to spend time with friends, family members, or hobbies...... But after doing these things, she may think about you.

In such a situation, it also causes her to not expect you to take the initiative to chat with her, and she will not expect you to send her anything.

In her heart, there are many things that are more important than you for her to do.

She doesn't like you, so she can't reply to your messages in the first place.

Because she's not waiting for you.

When a person doesn't like you, they will always hurt you unconsciously.

Your enthusiasm is always exchanged for her perfunctory and indifferent; She usually prefers to play with her phone by herself rather than chat with you; Even the messages you usually send out will take a long time to receive a reply from her...... These actions actually show that she doesn't like you.

You pour out your love, and it's hard to impress someone who doesn't have feelings for you.

Sober up early, stop the loss in time, don't chase someone who doesn't like you, but leave love to someone who is worth paying.