Old drama Gu Yue Hong: I was abandoned 5 months after giving birth, experienced fighting cancer and was robbed, and now I live like this

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2024-07-09 17:59Posted in Jiangxi Emotional Field Creator

Author: Mandarin Tail Blue (Rich Book Author)

The hit movie "Stop and Go" has gained a good reputation, and the Douban score is as high as 7.9 points.

In the play, actor Yue Hong, who plays her mother Jiang Meiling, has received super high praise. It is also because of this role that Yue Hong won the Best Actress Award at this year's Beijing Film Festival.

In the play, she is wise, forbearing, and open-minded, and the classic golden sentences of life come as soon as she opens her mouth:

"Success doesn't have to be gold, and failure doesn't have to be" "No one's life is perfect, and it's normal to have regrets......

Others said that she was too transparent, but Yue Hong said: "The so-called golden sentence is actually a summary of life experience." ”

Yes, there is no sobriety in the world, but I have experienced too much suffering and understood the true meaning of life.

has been in the film and television industry for half her life, Yue Hong has played many roles: the blind good mother in "Home Cooking", the spicy and refreshing rural daughter-in-law in "Wild Mountain", and the "evil mother-in-law" in "Dear Child......

With her unique acting temperament and online acting skills, she has won the recognition of the audience, and has also won the "Little Hundred Flowers Award" and "Golden Rooster Award" and other awards.

But behind the career scenery, there is a hidden endless bitterness of this woman. Life will always inadvertently throw a punch at her.

In 1962, Yue Hong was born in Chengdu, Sichuan, and she was the only daughter in the family, and she did not enjoy a carefree childhood.

In that era of complicated political situations, Yue Hong's grandparents and her father were all objects of control.

So the little Yue Hong, when others were still coquettish, had already learned to help her mother do housework. Because she knows that in this dilapidated home, her mother's mental pressure is the greatest.

The difficult family situation also made Yue Hong cherish the days when she could go to school and study. She was always at the top of her class, and at the age of 11 she entered junior high school.

One day in 1978, a beam of light suddenly shone into Yue Hong's dark life.

That year, the Central Academy of Drama resumed enrollment. The music teacher called Yue Hong to her side and encouraged her to apply for the Chinese opera exam.

Because Yue Hong is the backbone of literature and art in the class, she can sing and dance, and the teacher thinks she is very talented in this regard.

But 16-year-old Yue Hong asked: "What is the Chinese opera?" What happens if you are in a Chinese opera? ”

The teacher patiently explained, and Yue Hong heard it in a fog, but she thought: If she is in a Chinese opera, she may be able to act in a drama, and then she can make money to subsidize her family.

With full expectations, Yue Hong participated in the interview. In the talent show, she couldn't speak Mandarin, so she had to memorize a Tang poem in the Sichuan dialect.

The interviewer was amused by this innocent girl, and praised "not bad" again and again.

But in the end, Yue Hong received a notice that she was not admitted.

The dawn of hope turned into a twilight of disappointment, but the optimistic Yue Hong continued to laugh at life.

Later, due to family pressure, she chose to work as a temporary worker in a nearby factory.

For Yue Hong at that time, compared with the unattainable dream, it was still more urgent to solve the urgent needs of life by sand and moving bricks, even if she could only get a salary of five a day.

But my mother looked at the gray-haired Yue Hong, but her eyes were full of distress.

Later, when she heard that the military art school in Beijing was recruiting students, the kind mother borrowed all over her relatives and neighbors, and finally scraped together enough money to go to Beijing and let Yue Hong take it to the exam.

It's a pity that he worked hard, but what Yue Hong got from that trip to Beijing was still bad news that he was off the list.

This time, Yue Hong felt very uncomfortable, her family was so difficult, but her mother wanted to raise money for her to study and take the exam, and she failed three times and twice, she was so sorry for her mother.

The two failures in the exam inspired Yue Hong's determination to fight to the end. She said: A soldier who surrenders without a fight is not a hero.

In the days that followed, she devoted herself to learning Mandarin, imitating the performance of actors on stage, getting up in the morning to practice and reading at night.

In 1980, Yue Hong, who was determined to win, once again walked into the interview scene of Chinese opera.

Perhaps it was the process of her hard work that injected soul into her performance.

In the three battle art exams, Yue Hong finally won the exam with her strength, stood out among more than 4,000 people, and became the only one who was admitted.

Traveling thousands of miles to Beijing, in the Chinese opera campus with beautiful women, Yue Hong is like a small grass, although ordinary but with strong perseverance. She is low-key and down-to-earth, working hard to improve herself.

During her time at school, Yue Hong made a name for herself in the movie "Little Island". The role she played as Han Lin is vivid and very life-oriented, making the audience remember this big-eyed Sichuan girl.

The following year, she and her classmates rehearsed the sketch "The Girl Who Sold Peanut Kernels", and in order to accurately grasp the external image and psychological state of the character, Yue Hong went to the farmers' market to observe.

On the day of the performance, Yue Hong on the stage was vivid, and later this sketch caused a sensation on the campus of Chinese opera.

In 1984, Tian Hua, a famous actor from Bayi Factory, came to Chinese opera to watch the graduation performance. Yue Hong's wonderful performance on stage made the teachers and classmates laugh.

Her performance also left a deep impression on Tian Hua, and after the performance, she asked Yue Hong to work in Bayi Film Studio.

In June of the same year, Yue Hong officially became an employee of the actor troupe of Bayi Film Studio. Since then, a new chapter has opened in her life.

In 1986, Yue Hong won the role of the heroine Guilan in the movie "Mountain and Wild".

The filmmakers had high expectations for this film, and in order to better restore the state of farm life, all the participants were sent to the filming location to experience life.

It was a village in Zhen'an County, Shaanxi Province, with drought and water shortage, and backward economic conditions. Not being able to wash your hair, not being able to take a bath, and even washing your feet is a luxury.

Yue Hong and her colleagues work in the fields with their fellow villagers during the day, and live with them in a house where rats are running around at night.

After a month, the actors with fine skin and tender meat are much more down-to-earth.

Especially Yue Hong, she wears the coarse cloth clothes of her fellow villagers and walks and works on the dirt slopes all day long, like a native woman in the mountains.

When the film was released, Yue Hong's image and acting skills shocked the director and conquered the audience. Her interpretation of Guilan is spicy but not barbaric, honest but very smart.

With this film, Yue Hong won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress.

At that time, Yue Hong had only graduated from Chinese opera for two years and was just 24 years old. Looking at the entire film and television industry, this kind of honor is also unique.

Then, Yue Hong starred in a series of movies such as "Eight Women Cast into the River", "Female Assassin", "Heaven and Earth Benevolence" while the iron was hot, and won unanimous praise from peers and audiences.

If it continues to develop at this pace, Yue Hong will definitely be able to become the brightest star in the film and television industry.

Then, at the peak of her career, she chose to get married and have children. And this decision has also changed the trajectory of her life dramatically.

The man who made Yue Hong not hesitate to give up her future and marry willingly was a young director, and the two met at work and soon developed a good impression.

The colleagues around her advised Yue Hong not to rush into the siege of marriage, after all, her career had just improved at that time; Parents also feel that Yue Hong and her boyfriend don't know each other well enough, and hope that she will be more cautious.

Perhaps, this girl, who has experienced a difficult childhood, has been pretending to be strong all the way, eager to find a shoulder that she can rely on. Therefore, despite the dissuasion of others, she resolutely married.

When they first got married, they also loved me and me, and they gave birth to a daughter, named Koala (later called Yue Yien).

But when his daughter was 5 months old, the man who kept saying "I will never fail you" suddenly indifferently threw down the sentence "I want to divorce you" and moved out of their small home.

Yue Hong asked the reason hysterically, but the other party just replied lightly: "There is no love between us." ”

In April 1990, Yue Hong and her husband divorced. There is no property entanglement between them, and the man also took the initiative to give Yue Hong custody of his daughter, after all, he didn't want to start a new life with a "drag oil bottle".

Yue Hong hugged her daughter tightly, but looking at this little life waiting to be fed, she felt at a loss.

In order to live, she had to entrust her daughter to her mother, who was far away from her hometown in Chengdu, and she was covered with scars and forced to get out of the mountain again.

Life is always not the best of both worlds, Yue Hong is running around filming, and she will definitely be absent from her daughter's growth. And Koala's impression of "mother" is also very vague.

Once, Yue Hong returned home happily with snacks and toys, but Koala timidly hid beside her grandmother and squeezed out a "Thank you, Auntie" from the corner of her mouth.

Grandma hurriedly hugged the koala, stroked her head and said, "This is Mommy, go and let Mom hug her." But the koala muttered "don't, don't."

When Yue Hong heard this, she burst into tears instantly......

Later, she also tried to make up for the lack of companionship for her daughter, flying back to her hometown whenever she was free, taking her children to the playground to play, and buying her new clothes and favorite snacks.

But I just established a little relationship, and I have to rush back to filming. As a result, her daughter is still reluctant to be close to Yue Hong.

The child was brought by his grandmother when he was a child, and later went to boarding school. Over time, adolescent koalas became particularly rebellious and even hostile to their mothers.

Every time I came home, my grandmother always talked about my mother's difficulties and tried to make Koala understand my mother.

But whenever Koala saw on TV, Yue Hong was holding the child in the play with a loving face, and was chased by others to call her mother, she felt full of sadness and forgot her grandmother's words.

In fact, Yue Hong works hard to create better living conditions for her daughter; But Koala feels that nothing is more important than the company of her mother, and no matter how rich the material is, it can't make up for the lack of maternal love.

The two communicated many times, but neither of them could convince anyone, so for a long time, there was always an insurmountable gap between the mother and daughter.

Yue Hong felt that her daughter's incomprehension made her spiritual strength about to run out.

But life will never favor you because you have gone through several twists and turns.

In 2002, Yue Hong suddenly fainted on the set while filming "Oolong Love".

It turned out that she often had irregular work and rest, and she was hungry and full when she ate, and her stomach pain was already an old problem.

But she never paid attention to it, and every time she got pain, she took two stomach pills casually, and after it was relieved, she left it behind again.

This time, under the stiff pull of a friend, Yue Hong went to the hospital for an examination.

But when the test sheet came out, the dazzling word "stomach cancer" was like a bolt from the blue, causing her world to collapse in an instant and fall into endless despair.

Yue Hong sat softly on the hospital bed and cried loudly.

At this moment, this woman who is strong on the surface seems to vent all the bitterness and tears that have accumulated over the years.

After crying, she asked a friend to buy a pot of sauerkraut fish for herself, and ate two-thirds of it with tears.

After the results of the examination came out, Yue Hong was wheeled into the operating room, and her stomach was removed by four-fifths.

But she didn't tell her family about it, thinking of her gray-haired old mother and her daughter who was not yet an adult, Yue Hong's heart became more and more sour.

But fortunately, on the 10th day after surgery, the doctor told Yue Hong that the cancer cells in her body had not spread, had not metastasized, and did not need radiotherapy and chemotherapy.

At that moment, she was relieved.

Koala eventually learns of her mother's illness, and when she rushes to the hospital and looks at her skinny, sickly face, her heart hurts like a needle.

This rebellious girl deeply realized the importance of her mother to her, and for the first time she hugged her mother tightly and cried breathlessly.

Yue Hong also cried, it was the tears of rebirth after the catastrophe, and it was also the tears of the mother and daughter who turned their rivalry into jade silk.

Later, when Yue Hong mentioned stomach cancer again, she said: "When people reach the time of life and death, if they can get the love of their relatives, they will burst out with great energy, and this power can defeat the disease." ”

She bluntly said that she had already laughed at her past suffering and would not dwell on it too much.

After being discharged from the hospital, Yue Hong recuperated at home for more than half a year.

During those days, the mother was kind and filial, and lived a very comfortable life. Yue Hong told Koala about her filming, and Koala gradually understood her mother's hardships and difficulties.

After the long vacation for herself, Yue Hong devoted herself to work again, starring in film and television dramas such as "Educated Youth", "Chasing You to the Edge of the Sky", "Mother's Story", "Look Up and See Joy".

But she never thought that her life was like breaking through, and it was difficult to pass the hurdles.

One afternoon in August 2004, Yue Hong received a mysterious phone call, and the other party said that he wanted to talk to her about a drama date. Yue Hong didn't suspect too much, so she went to the appointment on time.

But when she arrived at the agreed place, a man suddenly rushed out, took out a knife and put it against her neck, hijacked her into the car outside, and threatened her to take out 50,000 yuan.

Yue Hong thought to herself: This is a dead death. But at this moment, her mobile phone suddenly rang, and the gangster was stunned for a moment, and hurriedly groped for Yue Hong's mobile phone with one hand.

Under the instinct of survival, Yue Hong took the opportunity to fight with the gangsters, but she did not have much strength and was cut on the arm by a knife.

Seeing that Yue Hong was not "honest", the gangster said angrily: "Don't move, I have a gun!" ”

But Yue Hong also said to him sharply: "I am already a person who has died once, and I am not afraid of dying again!" ”

Her tiger energy scared the gangsters, the other party didn't expect Yue Hong to be a deadly master, just when he was stunned, Yue Hong bit the gangster's thigh hard.

The gangster instantly pressed his thigh in pain, and Yue Hong took the opportunity to use all his strength to kick the car door and escape.

After running away, she called the police, and soon the police arrived.

According to Yue Hong's description, the Sijiqing Police Station in Beijing's Haidian District set up a special task force, and it didn't take long for the gangsters to be brought to justice.

Yue Hong turned the danger into a disaster, standing on the busy street, her mood could not be calmed for a long time. That's when she felt afraid: she had once again brushed shoulders with death.

has experienced hardships in life again and again, and now 61-year-old Yue Hong is still active on the screen.

She is Miao Jinxiu, a housewife in "Divorce Lawyer", the kind and down-to-earth Aunt Yao in "The Road of Life", the "peerless good mother" with great emotional intelligence in "Little Days", and Jiang Meiling in "Stop-and-Go", which was recently released only 5 days and broke 60 million at the box office......

In the past ten years, Yue Hong has starred in 60 film and television works, and each role is very well handled. The secret is her sentence "Joyful characters are happy, and worried characters are worried".

The tempering of life has enriched Yue Hong's acting skills, and also made her much calmer after being weathered.

She will rest well before returning to work; will also cook a light meal for the elderly parents, accompany the second elder Lala to cook at home, and visit the park; She will never be absent from every important moment in her daughter's life, and the mother and daughter will also open their hearts and chat about some intimate words...

In the past, Yue Hong's life was very hard. But with a strong heart and indomitable tenacity, she overcame many obstacles and touched the warm light.

As the saying goes, "After surviving all the hardships, the rest of your life will be a smooth road." ”

I hope that all people who are treated well by life can be like Yue Hong, laugh at the thousand waves of life, survive the wind and rain and haze, and one day the sun will shine in.

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