Although the outside world often praises my wife as a beautiful woman, with outstanding height and size, her personality is completely different from her appearance, more like an out-and-out female man. She is of good character and never has an affair with the opposite sex, which I am convinced of. In the workplace, she is always so serious and serious, like an insurmountable mountain, especially restrained in the interaction with male colleagues, and even to the point of being shy and difficult to communicate, so she seems a little out of place in the interpersonal communication in the workplace.
Back home, she's not the kind of wife who is good at creating a romantic atmosphere. There was no coquettishness, no snort, and even after the dispute, he chose to remain silent and responded with a cold war. Her daily care is meticulous, cooking, laundry, sleeping together, everything seems to be in order, but deep down I always feel that this life is missing some color, like an unfinished painting, missing the most crucial finishing touch.
I began to reflect on whether my expectations of the ideal partner in my heart were different from reality. What I long for may be a charming and charming woman like Chen Hao, or a gentle and lovable character like Zhou Shiyu's mother. However, everyone's personality is unique, and my wife also has her unique charm and value, which I may not have fully discovered or appreciated.
Perhaps, this is not because I have some kind of "Mende syndrome", but because there is a gap between my expectations of life and the current situation. I need to adjust my mindset