preface
When Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen talked about divorce, she said calmly: "I don't want money, I just want my daughter." ”
As a full-time mother, Huang Yimei does not have any income, and has no chance of winning in the matter of fighting for the custody of her daughter.
Fortunately, Fang Xiewen's mother took the initiative to give up, otherwise it would have been a tough battle.
However, Huang Yimei gave up her property for the sake of her daughter and chose to leave the house, which is really a loss.
After all, Fang Xiewen's company has begun to make a profit, and he can get a lot of money.
In fact, for Huang Yimei, money is an external object, and it is enough to earn it if it is gone.
If she was really a woman who loved vanity, she would not have chosen Fang Xiewen, nor would she have accompanied her to endure hardships for so many years.
And Huang Yimei must fight for the custody of her daughter, and there is a special reason.
Reason 1: Love your daughter as your life
When Huang Yimei was pregnant, her parents flew from Beijing to Shanghai to visit her and stayed in the hotel.
Huang Yimei took the bus to find her parents, and on the bus, she obviously felt the fetal movement, which made her excited.
She immediately called Su Gengsheng: "This feeling is so wonderful, I think everything is worth it." ”
Before this, Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen had a quarrel.
However, after feeling the little life in her belly, Huang Yimei decided to let go of all her worries and take the initiative to reconcile with Fang Xiewen.
Because, she doesn't want the child to be in the womb, so she has to hear the parents arguing.
After the birth of her daughter, Huang Yimei did it herself and never pretended to others.
Even if her mother-in-law lives with them, taking care of the children is still Huang Yimei's business, and she has never complained.
It wasn't until her daughter was three years old and about to go to kindergarten that Huang Yimei thought about going out to work.
In other words, from pregnancy to taking care of the baby, Huang Yimei has been concentrating on accompanying her daughter for almost 4 years.
If it weren't for the love for her daughter, she wouldn't have been able to do this.
Since the daughter was born by Huang Yimei, the relationship between the mother and daughter is not to mention, the point is that they have not left each other's side.
If her daughter is handed over to Fang Xiewen, it means that Huang Yimei will be separated from her daughter for a long time, which is what she can't tolerate the most.
Huang Yimei regards her daughter as more important than her career, how can she not take her daughter away!
Reason 2: The difference between poor and rich
Huang Yimei grew up rich, so she is optimistic, happy, and not materialistic.
She hopes that her daughter can be like her, and have a good growth environment since she was a child.
Huang Yimei's environment here is very good, her parents are teachers, and she herself has studied child psychology.
In terms of education, she is definitely better than Fang Xiewen.
Although Fang Xiewen is the number one leader in managing the company, he is a complete layman in educating his daughter.
If Fang Xiewen followed his mother's rural routine, beating and scolding and intimidating, maybe his daughter would be raised by him.
Although Fang Xiewen has made a lot of money over the years, he has never been truly happy.
Then, under Fang Xiewen's cultivation, his daughter will also subtly become the second him.
This is also what Huang Yimei is most worried about.
I remember that the first time Huang Yimei mentioned the topic of divorce to Fang Xiewen, Fang Xiewen disagreed.
He said: "Even if it is for the good of our daughter, you should not mention this divorce. ”
Unexpectedly, Huang Yimei said: "I just want to divorce for the good of my daughter." ”
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Therefore, she had to do everything possible to bring her daughter and stay away from Fang Xiewen!