We often hear words like, "I've done so much for you, how you should repay me." In fact, there is no such thing as owe each other in life, and all the efforts come from the joy and willingness of the heart.
Everyone has the right to choose to give or keep, and every giving is a manifestation of freedom. Others give to you because they are willing, and they find happiness or a way to realize their self-worth. In the same way, your dedication to others should also stem from your willingness, because that kind of giving brings you a sense of satisfaction and happiness.
When you accept help from others, you say thank you, but remember that people help you because they are kind, not because they have to.
Once we take giving too seriously and giving back, the relationship can easily become complicated and strained. And when we treat each other's acts of kindness with a "no-owe" mentality, we can be more free to love and help others, and at the same time, we will be grateful to accept the help of others, knowing that it is all voluntary.
Society is made up of inextricable relationships, and if everyone can live with a "nothing to owe each other" mentality, then the world will become more tolerant and beautiful. People are no longer disappointed that they have not been rewarded for their efforts, nor do they feel guilty for not being able to repay the kindness of others. In such an environment, everyone is more comfortable expressing themselves and more freely choosing to give or receive.
The beauty of life is that we are free to express our emotions and choose how we relate to others. Let us let go of the shackles of "owing" and face every giving and receiving with a grateful heart. In this world, every effort should be made because we are willing; Every acceptance should be because we cherish and be grateful.
Therefore, let's take a healthy attitude towards giving and receiving in life, and remember that there is no such thing as owe in life, everything comes from willingness. In this way, our relationships will be more harmonious, and our world will be a better place as a result.