In the distant Song Dynasty, there was a bustling city called Kaifeng. Commerce and trade here are prosperous, the cultural heritage is profound, and all kinds of talented and beautiful people emerge in an endless stream. In this city, there is a young woman named Chen Xiaoyu, who is smart and smart, and she is both talented and beautiful, so she has become famous.
One day, Chen Xiaoyu had nothing to do at home, so she invited a few friends to drink tea and chat together. One of the friends asked, "Xiaoyu, I heard that you recently participated in a blind date, is this true?" Chen Xiaoyu smiled slightly and replied, "Yes, there is indeed such a thing. However, I think there is a big difference between blind date and self-talk. ”
Another friend asked curiously, "Oh? What's the difference? Can you elaborate on that? Chen Xiaoyu pondered for a moment, and then vividly explained: "Okay, let me give you an example. A blind date is like buying vegetables at the market, while talking about yourself is like going to an orchard to pick fruits.
In the market, the vegetables have been washed, sorted, priced, and placed there for customers to choose. When going on a blind date, both parties have often been screened by family background, education, age, etc., just like vegetables that have been sorted out. After the two parties meet, they look at each other and try to find the right person. In this case, people pay more attention to external factors such as the material conditions and family background of the other party.
And in the orchard, you can pick your favorite fruit yourself. Two people talking to themselves are like looking for the ideal fruit in their hearts in an orchard together. In this process, both parties are free to get to know each other, including aspects such as personality, interests, values, etc. In this case, people pay more attention to the feelings and tacit understanding between each other.
Of course, whether it's a blind date or a self-talk, it's possible to find the ideal partner. The key is to be clear about our needs and understand our hearts. Only in this way can you find your true happiness on the road of love. ”
After listening to Chen Xiaoyu's explanation, several friends fell into deep thought. They all sighed that there was such a big difference between blind date and self-talk. Seeing this, Chen Xiaoyu smiled and said: "Actually, whether it is a blind date or a self-talk, the most important thing is to treat each other sincerely and understand and care for each other with your heart." Only in this way can we live a better life together. ”
Several friends nodded in agreement, and said that they should cherish the feelings in front of them and manage and maintain them with their hearts. And Chen Xiaoyu also found her own happiness during this time. She walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand with her beloved and lived a happy life.
This story about Chen Xiaoyu spread throughout Kaifeng City. People have followed her example and learned how to love and be loved. And Chen Xiaoyu's love story has also become a good story through the ages, inspiring countless people to work hard for true love.