Not all feelings can go to the end, and there are many people who choose to return halfway, leaving you alone with regrets.
When you are broken up, your heart will naturally be unsettled, and you will even hate each other, want to take revenge on each other, and don't understand why he did this to you?
But in fact, the more you turn against him like this, the more impossible it is between the two of you, even if you can't be a couple, you don't have to be enemies, and a decent breakup is the best end.
Even if you want to take revenge on him, you don't have to spend every day with hatred, you are punishing yourself, and others will not pay for your attitude!
You have to remember that the best way to retaliate against the other party is not to turn the other face, but to do "12 words"!
1. Choose to ignore
Maybe you think that it will be embarrassing to meet each other again after a breakup, and you don't know whether to say hello or not.
In fact, at this time, you don't have to be too entangled, if you can't pass the level in your heart, just choose to ignore it, your greetings may not attract his attention, but will make your heart unable to calm down, then it is better to ignore him.
Just like in "The First Half of My Life", after Luo Zijun's successful counterattack, even her ex-husband Chen Junsheng was impressed by her and wanted to reconcile with her.
As for Luo Zijun, he just treats him as a stranger, ignores his existence, and continues to live his life, do his job well, and take care of his children.
This is undoubtedly the best revenge for Chen Junsheng, when he left her behind, he didn't say a word at all, and when she could be completely self-reliant, he was going to turn back, how could there be such a cheap thing, I had to give Luo Zijun a thumbs up.
You have to know that the more you face up to his existence, the more it means that you haven't let go of him in your heart, so you can only wait for him to pinch you, so it's better to choose to ignore him and ignore him!
2. No more hatred
Just finished chasing "The Story of Rose", to be honest, the relationship between Rose and Zhuang Guodong is not worth it!
This is Rose's first love, and it is also the relationship she invested in the most, if it weren't for the young age at the time and many different understandings, then they could still be together.
When they first separated, Rose even had some "hatred" for Zhuang Guodong, and thought about not getting along with each other for a long time, so she would delete all his contact information.
But when Rose has a new life and a new relationship, she can come out of the past relationship and no longer hate each other, but reconcile with each other in a way.
Even if she saw Zhuang Guodong later, she didn't think about reconciliation, in Rose's heart, the relationship between them has become a thing of the past, even if Zhuang Guodong shows favor again, she can't go back to the past.
In fact, the best way to retaliate against the other party is to stop hating, when you don't even hate, it means that you really don't care about him.
3. The heart is like stopping water
When a woman faces the person who leaves her, she will always be unwilling, and even make a lot of noise, asking the other party why, but after calming down, she no longer wants to know the answer.
Lin Jia in the movie "Predecessor 3" is like this, at the beginning, she still had expectations, hoping that Meng Yun could say a few words to save them, and the two of them could go back to the past.
But after waiting and waiting, Meng Yun still didn't want to bow his head, he didn't understand why he had to show weakness every time, even if he separated this time, he didn't want to take the initiative to admit his mistake again.
And Lin Jia made a movement, but after seeing that the other party had no reaction, she was gradually disappointed, at this time, her heart was like water, she didn't want to toss anymore, and she didn't want to reconcile again.
Some feelings, once there are cracks, you can never go back to the past, even if you pretend that it doesn't matter, you can't escape the facts in front of you.
If you want to give him the most painful blow, you don't need to turn your face with him, you just need to be like a water, he has no way to take you, and even regrets the original choice.
There is a saying:
"The highest punishment is silence, and the most reserved revenge is to ignore, to dwell less on bad things, and less to be angry with unworthy people."
A relationship has reached the point of irretrievability, then don't entangle with the other party anymore, the more you entangle, the more the other party will be proud, he will only go further and will not return to you.
Therefore, don't waste your efforts, don't fight for the unworthy person, let alone hate him, but choose to ignore and be silent, this is the highest level of revenge.
One day, when he thinks of you, he is the one who wants to regret it the most, and you have already turned around in style and no longer care about everything about him.