Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love is like a magnetic field. It will bring two people together because of a strong attraction.
This attraction comes from each other's appearance, figure, talent, knowledge, and so on.
Men, if you want to capture a woman's heart and make her follow you with all her heart, you have to make yourself attractive.
Money is the necessary material basis in life, but it is not the whole ingredient that captures love.
Men, do you know, conquer a woman's sincerity, not by money, but by these two words: ability.
02. The ability to love can express love just right
A reader left a message in my background saying that she was getting married.
The man is a very ordinary boy, who does not have much dazzling original family and does not have much savings. However, he is very good at expressing love and heals her heart.
She is a very insecure and sensitive woman.
However, the man was able to go home early after her work and help with the housework; On the weekend, I will arrange some activities to accompany her and see the wonders of this world.
When she is in a bad mood, he will hug her in time and give her comfort; When he encounters fun and delicious food, he will also share it with her as soon as possible.
His love made her unswervingly decide to marry him.
Let a woman pay sincerely, not by the sense of security given by money, but by the way men express their love.
When a woman is tired, he can be her support; When she was lonely, he was willing to be patient; After she was sick and had setbacks, she knew she could rely on him.
A man can see what she needs, make her rely on her when she is most difficult and helpless, and accompany her through difficulties.
Only then will a woman be willing to give her true heart and follow a man to the rest of her life.
03. The ability to make money, let her see your potential
When you are in love, a woman may be tempted by your handsome looks. However, if you want her to deliver her sincerity and marry you, it is still your comprehensive strength.
For example, she will examine whether you have a stable job and whether you have the ability to support a family.
After two people get married, can you give your wife enough security?
Money is the foundation for the stable development of a family.
It is naturally a good thing to have good family conditions. However, in a woman's mind, a man's original family is rich and his parents are rich, which does not mean that he is rich.
Only when a man has the ability and the ability to make money can he really let a woman see his potential and gain a sense of security.
Women want their men to be self-motivated, have dreams, and have goals in life. For her, I am willing to work hard.
Hayao Miyazaki wrote in "Listening Closely": "Because of you, I want to become a better person, I don't want to be a burden to you, so I work hard, just to prove that I am worthy of you." ”
The more potential a man has and the stronger his comprehensive ability, the easier it is for a woman to appreciate him and worship him.
04. The ability to deal with problems makes her feel at ease
Xue Fangfei in "Ink Rain and Clouds" incarnated as Jiang Li and returned to Jiang's mansion.
She wanted to win the championship in the annual exam, but she had a wound on her hand, and her heart was more than enough but her strength was insufficient.
Xiao Heng helped her find a top doctor and treated her hand injuries twice. And, when she voted for the annual exam, she unswervingly supported her.
She has been in danger many times, but Xiao Heng came to the rescue and protected her.
The two of them were chess pieces that used each other at first, but later Xue Fangfei's feelings for Xiao Heng became deeper and deeper, and they became lovers who really loved each other.
In our lives, everyone will encounter a variety of problems.
If so, the man's ability to solve problems is very strong, no matter what problems he encounters, he will actively face them, and women will feel at ease.
Leslie Cheung said: "If there is a good feeling, it is like, and if this kind of like can stand the test, it is love." ”
When encountering problems, frustrations, and failures, he will do everything he can to solve the problems and make you rely on him. Such a man is easy to make a woman give sincerely.
Because, as long as he is there, a woman's heart will be steady.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Ability is the means to truly conquer a woman's true heart.
Men, if you want women to take the initiative to deliver their sincerity, you can do one thing well, which is to improve yourself and improve your ability.
The more powerful and powerful you are, the stronger your ability to love her. Moreover, your attractiveness and personal charm will also be enhanced.
In this way, women will also appreciate you more and love you more.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.