In a complex world, we can always meet all kinds of people.
Some people give us a sincere heart, but some people will teach us a lesson.
Not everyone deserves to be treated with sincerity, and some people really can't get used to it, and the more they get used to it, the more bastards they become.
The most sober way for a woman to live is to live for the rest of her life and not get used to anyone.
Not used to their own pillow people
I don't know if you admit it, most of a woman's misfortune in marriage is self-inflicted.
I have seen many women who act as resentful wives in marriage, complaining that their husbands are in charge of the house and do nothing.
On the one hand, he took care of everything at home.
There are hundreds of worries about their husbands, let them do something, and tell them everything, completely treat their husbands as children, and don't give them a chance to take care of things.
In the end, they were firmly tied to their marriage, and what should men do, marriage did not affect them in the slightest.
If the husband can be compassionate, the key is that the more you are like this, the less the man will cherish your efforts and will only take it for granted.
They may even feel that you interfere too much and complain to you in every way.
is like Gu Jia in the TV series "Thirty Only", she was heartbroken about the company and the family, but in the end, she was betrayed by her husband.
Men must not get used to it, and they are used to stinky problems.
You have to learn to use him, and the more you use him, the better he will become.
Not accustomed to insatiable relatives
A netizen told such an incident:
There is a relative in her hometown who is divorced and has a child, and the netizen family took pity on her and had no place to live, so they took her in.
That relative eats and lives in her house every day, but often speaks ill of her family behind her back, saying that they are too picky, make so much money, and are reluctant to help her.
also instigated his son to open his mouth and ask for all kinds of things with his family, and most netizens were satisfied if they could.
Until one time, she instigated her son and her family to ask for a piano worth tens of thousands, and the child said, "Your family is so rich, you have to buy it for me."
The child's body is the epitome of an adult, and obviously, the child can say such a thing, because it has been trained by an adult.
In the end, netizens directly threw out their relatives' luggage and no longer took them in.
Insatiable relatives, don't get used to it. will only ask for excessively, not in exchange for a trace of gratitude.
Children who are not accustomed to not being grateful
The ending of Uncle Yan and Aunt Yan in the TV series "An Family" is too tragic.
They have been diligent and diligent all their lives, working hard for their children.
took out all his savings to buy a house for his son, married a daughter-in-law, and looked forward to a family reunion.
When they arrived at the door with their luggage, they found that their mother-in-law had already taken the lead.
The daughter-in-law had a cold face and looked unwelcome, and the son listened to the daughter-in-law's words and had no intention of taking them in, but blamed them for coming without saying hello.
has been paying for his children all his life, but in the end he has been "homeless".
A sober woman, like the grandmother Bai Jinghui in the TV series "North and South", resolutely refuses to sell her house to fill her son, which seems ruthless, but in fact it is wise.
Grateful children will never make demands that make their parents embarrassed, and children who do not know how to be grateful and ask for excessiveness should not be accustomed to their unreasonable demands.
Not accustomed to insincere friends
It is said that "the more friends there are, the easier the road to walk".
But some friends are just friends of wine and meat, and some are just plastic affection.
There are not many friends in the essence, don't make friends because you are afraid of being lonely and lonely.
The bond between friends should be mutual.
Both of them are thinking about each other from the bottom of their hearts, thinking about each other, and sincerely hoping that each other will be well.
I don't read jokes, I don't fall into the trap, I don't joke about other people's shortcomings, I don't take advantage of them frequently.
True friends, three or two are enough, there is no need to be greedy.
Friends with false feelings, even if they are alone, do not have to meet them.
In the face of friends who only ask but do not give, in the face of insincere friends, don't get used to it, turn your face when you should turn your face.
For the rest of his life, he is not used to anyone, and he is mainly based on his own feelings.
Anyone who makes you unhappy and makes you feel embarrassed is not worth associating.
All relationships are heart-to-heart, and all those who don't care about your feelings don't have to be polite.