Hong Kong and Taiwan stars have lost their sense of proportion to this extent? This time, he was shocked by Ouyang Nana's father

"I have to say that the "intimate interaction" of these celebrity parents is beyond the ordinary"

Nowadays, the Internet is developing rapidly, and every move of celebrities will be hotly discussed in an instant. Recently, the "intimate interaction" between parents and children of some celebrities has aroused public opinion. Is this kind of behavior considered loving the child, or has it crossed the line? As a new media creator, I try to analyze this phenomenon with an objective and rational attitude, hoping to give readers a comprehensive and in-depth understanding.

First of all, we need to make it clear that it is human nature for parents to love their children, and there is nothing wrong with that. But in the current social environment, the "intimate interaction" of celebrity families seems to have gone beyond the normal boundaries of father-son relationships. For example, Wu Zongxian, a famous host of Hong Kong and Taiwan, kissed his daughter who was nearly 30 years old in public on a variety show, and made a confused sound, which made her daughter feel obviously uncomfortable. For another example, Hong Kong actor Li Jiaxin was photographed bathing with his son, and his son's hand even touched his private parts in the picture, which makes people wonder if Li Jiaxin has problems with his son's education.

This kind of overly intimate interaction between celebrity parents and children may be beyond the scope of ordinary people's understanding. Although they are all out of love for their children, this way can't help but make people feel a little inconsistent and uncomfortable. It is not difficult for us to find that these celebrity parents generally have one thing in common, that is, they lack the correct guidance for their children's gender awareness. For example, Zhang Liang once mentioned in the show that he can't kiss his daughter, but only her forehead, which is a good way to educate children and let children establish a correct sense of gender boundaries from an early age.

In contrast, the behavior of some celebrity parents seems to be a bit "out of bounds". Take the incident of Ouyang Long kissing his daughter Ouyang Nana as an example, this has seriously violated the idea of "children avoid their mothers, and daughters avoid their fathers" in traditional Chinese culture. As the saying goes, the more intimate people are, the more important it is to maintain proper boundaries and proportions. But Ouyang Long's behavior towards his daughter may make people feel a little too intimate. What's more, this also happens when the daughter is already an adult, which will inevitably cause discomfort to onlookers.

It is not difficult for us to find that the "intimate interaction" between the parents and children of these celebrities is indeed beyond the scope of ordinary people's cognition. But we also have to look at this issue objectively, after all, everyone's homeschooling style and values are different. Perhaps in their eyes, this behavior is just out of deep love for their children, but in the eyes of outsiders, it does have a slight feeling of "crossing the line".

Of course, this does not mean that we can morally condemn it. Everyone's family situation is different, and we don't have the right to make overly arbitrary judgments about other people's family styles. But as a new media creator, I still hope to provoke people to think deeply. What is a healthy and correct parent-child relationship? How should we guide our children to develop the right gender awareness? These are all questions that deserve serious consideration by each of us.

After all, we all want the next generation to grow up healthy and become human resources that are beneficial to society. As parents, we should take on the responsibility of guiding our children's growth, rather than being satisfied with our own selfish desires. Only in this way can we truly give our children a better future.

Of course, we can't arbitrarily judge the behavior of celebrity parents, everyone's family situation and education style is different. But as public figures, their every move will inevitably arouse people's attention and discussion. Let's think about this question from a different perspective - what exactly is a healthy and correct parent-child relationship?

It is not difficult for us to find that some celebrity parents have some inappropriate behaviors when interacting with their children. For example, someone will help her daughter sort out her underwear, or even kiss her daughter's lips and so on. These behaviors may seem to some people to be just out of love for their children, but in the eyes of others, they are indeed "out of bounds".

In fact, each of us should understand that there is indeed a need to maintain certain boundaries and proportions between parents and children. Even the most intimate relationship should not be to the point of being "too intimate". Because this may not only have a negative impact on the child's mental health, but also easily make inappropriate associations with outsiders.

So, I think parents should be careful to maintain good boundaries when interacting with their children. For example, it is okay to kiss your child's forehead or cheek appropriately, but not on the lips; It can help your child organize their clothes, but they should not touch their private parts too closely, etc. This will not only allow children to develop a correct sense of gender, but also avoid unnecessary controversy.

Of course, we should also understand that every family's education style and values are different. We should not judge this too arbitrarily. However, as a member of the public, we should still strive to create a healthier and more correct atmosphere for parent-child relationships. Only in this way can we pave the way for a better future for the next generation.