Breaking up and redeeming is equal to falling in love again! How to make your ex fall in love with you again is the point
The four-step rule makes it easy to get started
The right person at the right time, this is ideal, but the reality is that not everyone can meet the right person at the right time, or the right person does not meet at the right time.
Two people need to run in when they come together, and if one party feels unbalanced and does not adjust the state in time, then the relationship may face the result of a breakup.
If you've just broken up in front of the screen and are thinking about redemption but don't know how to do it, you can stay and continue watching. If you are already recovering but are getting more and more out of direction, you can also contact me directly to help you.
Among the many ways to save love, one of the most important is to "make your ex fall in love with you again".
Knock on the point! It's to make your ex fall in love with you again, not to make your ex inseparable from you, which are two different things. Let's talk about "making your ex fall in love with you again".
01
Redefine relationships
First of all, you have to remember that you and your partner are in a state of breakup, and it is very difficult for you to change the other person in this state.
After all, the two of you are no longer related, so your positioning of the relationship between the two of you is inaccurate. Because in this case, it is difficult for the other party to accept you.
What we need to do is to break the previous relationship and redefine a new one.
At this stage, what we have to do is to reflect deeply, and then you can put yourself in the role of your ex.
If you are a ta, what kind of reconciliation are you willing to accept, and then what kind of relationship do you want, or what the other person needs to do after separation to reconcile with him.
Why does the other party keep coming to you after separation, to entangle, won't you reconcile and repeat the mistakes of the past?
After separation, you must stand in the same perspective as your ex to see if your behavior is acceptable to the other person, and whether there is a better way to deal with these situations between two people.
When you think about these questions, the answers will be clearer.
02
Self-improvement
After reviewing some of the previous contents, what we need to do is to withdraw in time and improve our own value.
This is a very important thing, and it is important to knock on the key point, because in the whole process of getting along with the other person, why you can become a mutual partner with him must be that you have the point that can attract the other person.
It can even make him stay with you for a long time, which has emotional value. Now that it has reached the point of breaking up, it is natural that some behaviors in the process have caused the other party to have a very large pressure and burden.
So the focus now is to improve yourself and focus on your own growth and development.
1. Strive to be a better version of yourself, both outwardly and internally.
For example, we can go to the gym to get some exercise, improve our eating habits, and boost our self-confidence.
These efforts not only help us recover physically and mentally, but also make us more confident and attractive.
2. We can also broaden our area of interest by learning new skills or hobbies.
Learning a new language, playing a musical instrument, reading classic literature, etc., can make us more interesting and engaging.
3. In addition, participating in social activities can also make new friends, expand your social circle and expand your network resources.
Through these efforts, we can gradually come out of the shadow of the breakup and become more mature and confident. At the same time, we can also attract more people to pay attention to ourselves and inject new vitality and motivation into our lives.
In this process, we are not only able to re-examine our relationship with the past, but also discover our potential and value, and be more prepared for our future.
03
Reinvent your image
Many people chat with what they want to say in their hearts, without any skills and routines, they just say whatever comes to mind, which will cause the other party to be disgusted.
We need to have a sense of substitution in the chat, such as knowing the other party's preferences, and after having an entry point, we can continue the topic and enhance the interactivity, so that the two sides can resonate quickly.
It's nice to have a nice chat, and in this case, your ex will take a fresh look at you from a new perspective.
He may come into contact with new people, and the new people will be more of a contrast to you, so what do you need to do in this contrast?
It's to withdraw, before withdrawing from his life, you may occasionally talk to him for another day, but now you don't look for it.
What you need to do is to fall in love with yourself again with all your heart, and re-establish your circle of friends and social circles.
The purpose of every day is to keep yourself happy and keep a happy and positive state, because a positive person will exude an energy that will make the people around him feel that it is you and that you are a person who can be approached.
If a new suitor appears in your circle of friends, you might as well talk to them about your feelings.
04
Fall in love with yourself
When you don't look for your ex for a long time, and he sees a better you, he will want to start fighting back, and this is when you can say what you think.
You can tell him, but I don't know what it's like to walk out of a painful relationship until now, and I'm in really good shape.
But I still want to apologize to myself and you some time ago, because you taught me to grow up and become a better person, so the next two of us, one parting and two wide, each happy.
After you say such things, the other party will definitely not be able to stand it, because he asked you to change, but after you become a better person, you actually want to be with someone else.
This result is very unacceptable to the other party, and it further deepens the other party's possessiveness towards you.
He may be constantly testing you, chatting with you, and asking you out during this period, but you should not take this as a compound signal, you must pay attention to it.
In addition, you can give him a little test and a general test, what does it mean?
It is to ask the other party to do you a favor and let him do something within his ability, and in this process, you need to show your maturity and charm so that your ex will be interested and liking you.
Don't rush the whole process, let's take four steps, move forward steadily, keep a certain distance and get to know each other again with your ex, and slowly let your relationship gradually warm up, and finally achieve the goal of reuniting and living better together.