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The word "acquaintance" may make us feel familiar, but we must be careful when dealing with acquaintances.
If you don't calmly deal with strangers when you have a relationship with strangers, you don't neglect the details when you have a stranger, and if you don't know how to deal with it when you have a relationship with an acquaintance, then it is easy to have problems between acquaintances.
So what do we need to pay attention to when we have a relationship with an acquaintance?
1. Have a relationship with an acquaintance.
Having a relationship with an acquaintance is not something to be proud of, but a sad thing, because many times it is these people who trust us and are carried away by interests.
In 2001, Li Wei, a female college student in Guangdong, traveled to Shenzhen to work as a waitress during the summer vacation, which was not very difficult for Li Wei.
But what she didn't expect in the end was that this work turned her life upside down.
Li Wei was approached by a "black Ping'an" company called Ping An Finance, which was actually a deck company.
At that time, everyone was very familiar with the name "Ping'an", so they used this to attract people.
Not only that, but at the same time, in order to keep their reputation, the company also gave their company a beautiful name called "Ping An Finance", but what I didn't expect was that Li Wei actually returned to this company.
But in the case of no choice, I can only bite the bullet, but what I didn't expect is that the actual content of their work is very different from the content of the work advertised on the surface.
Originally, the company advertised card swiping, but later found that this industry was not very profitable, so the company later changed its profession and changed it to a pyramid marketing organization.
Li Wei didn't know anything about this industry at the time, and later when she went to work, she found out that things were not simple, and when she reached a certain peak in this profession, the company asked her to participate in the MLM organization, but she did not agree.
This also made her a thorn in the side of the company, and the company was also a shameless hand, and even put a bottle of water next to her hospital bed to kill her, so that she almost died.
But after she woke up, she never returned to the company, and she also sued the company in court, and this kind of thing happened once, but such things are still common.
2. Debt collection is forcing people to die.
Another incident happened in Anhui, when a man named Liu Yong went to work, this part-time job was a year, but in this year's time, Liu Yong's salary and bonus did not get it, and then the boss did not pay off the debt, and spoke ill of each other.
All this made Liu Yong angry, but he didn't want to call the police, so he wanted the boss to pay back the money first.
But a high-end villa in the boss's house is what he saw, and everything in the boss's house seems to be very rich, but Liu Yong did not get a salary.
Liu Yong was also puzzled, so he was ready to find the relevant departments to solve it, but the boss was still scolding his mother at home, and Liu Yong was also very angry, so he broke out some of the boss's secret things.
One of the facts is that the boss's house was built secretly, and at this moment, the residents knew that the boss was a liar and chased after the money owed by the boss, making things at the boss's house a mess.
And Liu Yong himself also has something, but Liu Yong didn't know that one day Liu Yong went out to play games, and at this time the boss's wife was also waiting for him outside, so he seduced him, and Liu Yong knew that the boss's wife was the team leader when he went to work in the factory with him.
The boss's wife is 6 years older than himself, and the two are not from the same unit, so Liu Yong took this matter and asked the boss for money.
What I didn't expect was that the boss was slapped in the face, and said that the things between them were none of their business, Liu Yong was also very helpless, but what he didn't expect was that the dark side also made something.
In order to make a living, Liu Yong went to Wuhan, but he still encountered the old problem, Liu Yong could not get his salary, but in order to repay the money from his part-time job, he went to collect debts.
But the result of his debt collection is not good, there is a person who is very similar to Liu Yong's character, but it is also the result of debt collection, and as soon as the front foot left, Liu Yong's boss asked him to solve him, causing the matter of seeking money and killing him.
Liu Yong's boss also fled to Inner Mongolia, but in the end he did not escape the punishment of the law, which also sealed the conscience of one of his employees.
3. Things to pay attention to when having a relationship with an acquaintance.
There are many things we need to pay attention to when we have relationships with acquaintances, and we also need to maintain a cautious heart when dealing with strangers, we can't make mistakes with such carelessness.
Not only to maintain a cautious mood, but also to pay attention to these problems, these problems are more common around us, but many people do not know when we do not encounter them, and they will be very flustered when the treatment arrives.
1. Don't quarrel with acquaintances, but in many cases it is difficult for us to maintain a state of non-development, and many times we think that when there is a conflict with an acquaintance, we tend to be more excited.
Therefore, when we need to get along with people in ordinary times, we must develop a good character in ordinary times, and we can deal with conflicts calmly.
2. Don't trust when you interact with acquaintances, no matter who you establish a relationship with, you can't be cautious, and many people take it lightly in the understanding of acquaintances.
When we interact with acquaintances, we must maintain a high degree of vigilance to prevent deception between acquaintances.
3. To know how to refuse, many times we will play a "backer" role among acquaintances.
When acquaintances encounter some difficulties, the first thing that comes to mind is us, so we must be clear about our bottom line, and we can decisively refuse those things that are inappropriate.
4. Don't talk about private affairs between acquaintances, and private affairs between acquaintances may also cause conflicts, so we not only don't talk about our own private affairs with strangers, but also don't talk about them with acquaintances.
epilogue
Therefore, in life, we must not only be vigilant with strangers, but also when we have relationships with acquaintances.