(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, the names of people and places in the article have nothing to do with reality, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please read rationally, the pictures in the article are from the Internet)
Because of a dinner, I met Mia, a young lady from Australia, at a party, and I fell into it.
After two months of pursuit, we met and fell in love, but at the beginning of the next year, Mia was found to be pregnant.
I hurriedly took her to get married, and there were no three media, six hires, and no bride price and three gold.
After giving birth to mixed-race twins, Mia told me that she regretted it, and I couldn't help but wonder, could it be that she pretended to be in love for so many years?
"The Vast Road of Life"
My name is Li Xianzhe, I was born in a small county town, my parents worked in the community, and I had to work on a small field at home after work.
After a year's hard work, I didn't save much money, and after my sister was born, my family was very poor.
But my parents didn't manage us loosely since we were young, especially when it came to studying, and they were unusually strict with my sister and me.
Since elementary school, my grades have been very good, and although the teaching resources in the county are average, my award certificate is still plastered all over my bedroom.
It wasn't until I took the high school entrance examination that I was admitted to a key high school with excellent results, and here I was exposed to a new world.
I was originally at the top, but for the first time, I felt the gap between anyone, and my results gradually slipped to the middle level.
In my sophomore year of high school, I met a girl I liked, their family was in the urban area, and her family conditions were a few streets away from my family.
However, most of the love when I was young ended in failure, and my grades suffered a serious decline because of falling in love.
Until the year of the college entrance examination, my grades were also very poor, and I could only barely go to a junior college in the province.
My first love and I were also forced to separate, and the long-distance relationship could not withstand the weathering of time after all, and my first love and I also began to part ways.
I gradually began to think about my future and how to have a better future, which made me gradually confused.
In my junior year, I began to concentrate on my studies and was finally admitted to a civil engineering and architecture school.
After another two years of study, I successfully obtained my bachelor's degree and started my social career.
Because the local civil engineering company was not well treated, I had to go to the first-tier cities to look for opportunities, and after saying goodbye to my parents, I stepped on the plane.
The work in Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou is very stressful, and in order to solve the problem of survival, I will go to the stall at night after working during the day.
Although I had two incomes, the pressure of life gradually overwhelmed me, so I simply quit my job and went to another city.
My college roommate invited me to work at his company, and I gladly accepted.
In the company, I took on a sales position, and while I practiced my eloquence, I was able to meet a variety of people.
Then one weekend, I received an invitation from an American friend who was coming to China and was going to have a meal with me.
As the host, of course, I couldn't refuse, but during the meal, there was an extra beautiful woman next to him.
And this beauty is my future wife Mia, no one thought that fate would be so wonderful.
Mia is about my age, but she was born in Australia to a local businessman father and a mother who takes care of the children at home.
According to her conditions, she is a rich daughter, even if she doesn't work, she can eat and dress for the rest of her life.
Mia went to an aristocratic school since she was a child, and was already able to communicate in Chinese in high school, and studied Chinese in college.
After graduating from university, Mia chose to come to China to study for graduate school, and then stayed in the local work and life.
In China, Mia has a hard time making friends because of her appearance, so she has been looking forward to having a good Chinese friend.
It was also the first time I had such close contact with a foreign girl, and Mia's fair skin and long legs made me unable to walk.
We talked a lot about the meeting and at the end of the party, I added her contact information.
I also knew that I fell in love with this Mia from a foreign country, and then I began to pursue her.
Girls are usually emotional, and in the face of love, they will follow their hearts and rarely enter a rational environment.
So Mia and I often discuss our views on love and affection, so as to test each other's views on love to see if they match our own.
Before the relationship is confirmed, I will always give Mia gifts under the pretense of Chinese festivals, or solar terms.
After all, this is an effective way to bring two people into a relationship faster, and people who are far away from home want care and warmth more than anything else.
After the relationship gradually became acquainted, I came to Mia's unit on a rainy day and had a meal with her under the pretext of sheltering from the rain.
In the evening, Mia was sent home again, and the relationship between us slowly pulled in from the little by little of life.
A few months later, Mia and I were married, and we came together in a strange city.
Because we both live in a rented house, in order to save money, we lived together not long after we fell in love.
"I'm starting to regret it"
After living together for a while, Mia's body experienced some discomfort, and later found out that Mia was pregnant with a baby.
I felt very guilty in my heart, and in order to take on my responsibilities, I carefully planned a marriage proposal, and Mia decisively agreed.
Before that, I had met Mia's parents, and on the video call, his parents were very kind and didn't have much of a problem with me.
Maybe it's because of the family, after all, Mia never worries about snacks and clothes, and of course she gets married according to her own wishes.
I took Mia back to my hometown, and after meeting my parents, I got a marriage certificate at the local civil affairs bureau.
By this time, Mia's belly was gradually bulging, so we didn't have a wedding, so we had to wait until the baby was born.
During the prenatal checkup, the doctor told me that Mia and Mia had twins in their wombs, which made Mia's heart very nervous.
As a mother for the first time, I was still a pair of twins, and it was inevitable that there would be some problems in my heart, but under my guidance, they were successfully solved.
Later, in order to make Mia's environment more comfortable, we returned to Australia together.
My parents-in-law had prepared a room and carefully prepared a Chinese living manual for me.
During my prenatal check-up in Australia, I noticed that hospitals in Australia are very different from those in China.
The cost of having a child here is reimbursed just like in China, and as a spouse, I can also apply for a minimum living allowance.
After the birth of the dragon and phoenix, Mia wanted to let the child live in Australia for a while, but I was confused.
I can't live here all my life by my father-in-law's family, I have a headache in my heart.
With the help of my father-in-law, I was able to find a construction job and take care of my wife at home at all times.
After giving birth, Mia took care of the baby at home, and applied for an online college degree, and started studying again.
Although life in Australia is comfortable, homesickness is also very fond of me.
Later, when the child was older, Mia received a call from a friend that there was an international school in China that was recruiting teachers, and the treatment was very good, and it was able to solve the child's problems.
So I immediately supported Mia to return to China to develop, and I was able to get closer to my parents.
After about a month of preparation, we first returned to our hometown and let the parents look at the children.
However, during this period, Mia and my mother had a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for the first time, which was caused by different living habits.
I remember one time when I went to the meal, but the children were not very hungry, my mother was ready to bring the prepared meal to the children's mouths.
This makes Mia very unhappy, because the children will eat themselves when they are hungry, and this kind of forcing the children to do things will affect the children's development.
The culture shock has indeed brought about a lot of conflicts, and I can only do as much as possible in the middle to ease the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
This also made Mia cry to me, there are too many rules in rural China, and I can't do anything about it, and it hurts my heart too much.
I comforted Mia that school was about to start, and it would be enough to hold on for a few more days.
After a week, Mia's school was about to start, and I left my hometown with my children and Mia.
Because Mia has to go to work and the children are not worried about being taken care of by my parents, I have to be the housewife.
I didn't expect that I would go from a man who earns money to support my family to a full-time dad.
However, if you swap identities, you can also feel the pain of the other half, pick up and drop off the children every day, and prepare breakfast and dinner at home.
When I just wanted to sit down and rest, I found that many things in the house had not been cleaned, and the busy and fulfilling days made me feel the hardships of my mother for the first time.
It was only when the kids got older that I took time out of my time to exercise and study some of the children's favorite recipes.
In the future, I hope to record my life through the self-media platform and share the daily life of myself and my wife and children.
By the way, learn about early childhood education and growth, so that children can better grow up perfectly.
However, there is still a headache for me, that is, how to mediate the relationship between Mia and her mother-in-law.
After all, if you marry into our family, you can't help but let Mia not go home during the New Year's holidays, how do you deal with the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
(Disclaimer: This article is purely a fictional story, not my own experience, the names of people and places in the article have nothing to do with reality, if there is any similarity, it is purely a coincidence, please read rationally, the pictures in the article are from the Internet)