** Tutoring homework crashes? The witty parents sent the baby to grandpa's house, and grandpa's expression lit up! **
Description: What do you do when tutoring your child's homework becomes the trigger for a "family war"? The experiences of the young couple, Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li, may give you some inspiration.
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In this fast-paced society, the pressure of family education is getting heavier and heavier. Especially for young parents like Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li, it can be stressful to juggle the busy schedule and shoulder the burden of tutoring their children's homework.
Mr. Zhang, 32, is a project manager at an IT company with a busy schedule and often works overtime. Ms. Li is a primary school Chinese teacher, and in addition to teaching and educating people, she also has to take care of her family and children. Their daughter, Xiaojie, is 5 years old and has just stepped into primary school.
Xiaojie is a smart and clever child, but he can also be mischievous at times, especially when doing homework. He was always looking around, absent-minded, which gave Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li a headache. Whenever tutoring homework, there is always a tense atmosphere at home, and sometimes it can even turn into a "family war".
One night, Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li broke down again because they were tutoring Xiaojie with his homework. Xiaojie's math problems are always wrong, and the words in Chinese are also written in a mess. Mr. Zhang patiently explained to him, but Xiaojie always seemed to understand or not, and looked indifferent. Ms. Li kept urging him to finish his homework quickly. But the more he urged, the more Xiaojie grinded, and the family fell into a stalemate.
At this moment, Mr. Zhang suddenly had an idea and thought of a solution. He said to Ms. Li, "Let's send Xiaojie to grandpa's house and let grandpa help with homework." Grandpa was a math teacher before he retired, and he will definitely be able to solve Xiaojie's math problems. When Ms. Li heard this, she thought it was a good idea, so the two immediately packed up their things and took Xiaojie to her grandfather's house.
When they arrived at their grandfather's house, Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li explained their intentions to their grandfather. Grandpa laughed when he heard this, and said, "You two young people, you are really driven crazy by children. But that's okay, I'll help you with tutoring. With that, Grandpa pulled Xiao Jie to the desk and began to patiently explain the math problems to him.
Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li sat on the sidelines, watching the interaction between Grandpa and Xiaojie. I saw my grandfather with a kind smile on his face, touching Xiaojie's head from time to time, and praising him for being smart and clever. And Xiaojie, with the encouragement of his grandfather, gradually became serious and began to listen carefully to his grandfather's explanation of the topic.
After a while, Xiaojie's math problems were all done. Grandpa also took out some math games and toys and played with Xiaojie. Xiaojie had a good time, completely forgetting the unpleasantness just now.
Seeing this scene, Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li felt very relieved. They realized that perhaps they had been a little too harsh and impatient with Xiaojie's counseling methods before. They decided to ask their grandfather for more ways to educate their children in the future to make the family atmosphere more harmonious.
At this moment, Grandpa suddenly took out a bottle of medicine and said to Xiaojie: "Xiaojie, what do you think this is?" Xiaojie curiously leaned over to take a look, only to see that his grandfather was holding a bottle of medicine for heart disease in his hand. He immediately showed a surprised expression and asked, "Grandpa, why did you take this medicine?" Grandpa smiled and said, "This is not the medicine I take, it is for your parents." As he spoke, he pointed to Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li.
When Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li heard this, they were stunned. They asked their grandfather in confusion, "Why did you prepare this medicine for us?" Grandpa smiled and said, "You two young people, you are always so nervous and anxious when tutoring your children's homework, how can your heart stand it like this?" I am preparing this bottle of medicine for you in the hope that you can relax your mind and not be too nervous and anxious. After all, educating children is a long-term process that requires patience and care. ”
Hearing this, Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li felt very guilty and moved, they realized that they did have many problems in the process of educating their children, and their overly strict and impatient attitude not only made the children feel pressure, but also made them feel tired. They decided to learn more from their grandfather in the future, and to educate their children in a more gentle and rational way, so as to make the family atmosphere more harmonious and harmonious.
On such a night, Mr. Zhang and Ms. Li, with the help of their grandfather, regained their confidence and motivation to educate their children. They believe that as long as they feel and experience every moment with their hearts, care for and accompany their children to grow up with love, they will be able to get through this stage full of challenges and opportunities and usher in a better future!