The more a person experiences, the more affectionate he becomes.
Because, good and evil, bad and good, they have all seen and admired. For human nature and the human heart, they are more transparent and more clear.
People, if you see clearly, you will look down on it. This may be the reason why most people with deep experience are not affectionate.
Because, compared to persistence and dedication, desire and waiting, they are more willing to protect themselves, and the best way to protect themselves is to be affectionate towards everything.
is affectionate, because the injury is too deep
Life, in fact, is a process of constantly being injured, constantly healing, and then being injured and healing again.
What is experience, experience is, the road walked, the scenery seen, the mountains climbed, the rivers flowing, the evil of human nature seen, the sorrow and suffering experienced, the tears and sweat flowed.
Just because there are so many things sandwiched, experience will completely change a person.
People with deep experience are actually not their original selves.
In other words, experience will subvert a person's character, temper, thinking, mentality, means and scheming. Let a person become more adaptable to the reality of society and the warmth and coldness of human feelings.
Becoming affectionate is actually that in the process of going through, the injury is too deep and painful. The true feelings were let down, treated coldly, and the true feelings were trampled on and hurt.
So, after understanding, understanding, and seeing clearly, learn to be affectionate and become affectionate.
is affectionate, because I have seen too much
Experience is actually a mirror that illuminates the past clearly.
So, when you encounter the same thing again, memory will remind you that you have suffered losses and injuries, so you have learned to avoid it and learn to use more mature means to deal with it.
People with deep experience have clearer eyes and more transparent hearts, and they can see through it at a glance if it is true or false.
Just because I have seen through everything and seen it clearly, I know that people's hearts are too empty and fake, and human nature is too evil and ruthless.
So, in order to avoid and protect yourself, learn to be affectionate.
Affection is because I have learned to be sophisticated and know how to protect myself
People, the older they get, the more sophisticated they are.
Because, the essence of life is to turn an innocent person into a worldly and sophisticated person.
Life is actually a process of changing the world, if you are not sophisticated, it will be difficult for you to survive, because the essence of life is the rivers and lakes, and the true nature of the rivers and lakes is the world.
Therefore, walking in the rivers and lakes, sophistication is a protective color.
To know how to be sophisticated means to be mature, and to be mature is to know how to protect yourself, and to protect yourself, you must learn to look at everything with affection, not to expect, not to desire, not to invest.
Thinning the love is actually a helpless move, and it is even more forced by reality.
Thin love VS true love
Before a person becomes affectionate, he is mostly true and has a good heart.
Just because the true love has been paid too much, but in exchange for a lot of thin love and ugliness, so, the heart is slowly tired, dead, ruthless, and no longer willing to give true love.
It's not that there is no true affection in the heart, but that it will be given cautiously, with observation and doubt.
The road of life is actually a process of understanding, understanding, and understanding.
And this is also the reason why the more experienced people are, the more affectionate they are, because they know that in the face of reality, most true feelings cannot be exchanged for true feelings.
So, I slowly learned to be affectionate.
When facing everything with thin feelings, I found that it was better to use than true feelings, and I could protect myself better, so I stood up with thin feelings.
Conclusion
Experience is wealth, and at the same time, it is also a process of physical and mental cultivation, subversion, and remodeling.
Because, in this process, you will experience a lot of hurt and pain, sorrow and suffering, see a lot of things that you have not seen, and experience a lot of evil and suffering that you have not experienced.
Because of these experiences, a person slowly becomes affectionate and learns to be affectionate.