In the face of the challenge of "three sisters", many original girls feel at a loss, and always feel that these "three sisters" are superior and difficult to deal with.
But I'm going to tell you the truth: there is no such thing as a "smart third sister" in this world!
Because a truly smart woman will never waste her precious time on a man who is unfaithful to her marriage and feelings. They will not lose the overall situation of their lives for the sake of that little gain.
In the world of marriage, the most loss-making business is to pry other people's husbands.
This kind of behavior is not only morally untenable, but also a joke on one's own happiness.
Women who want to fall in love with a married man are either "stupid" or "greedy", they can't see the truth clearly, and they can't keep the bottom line.
Then, "stupidity" and "greed" are the weakness and death of all "San'er".
They may be able to confuse some people for a while, but they can't hide their true nature.
In the face of such "three children", we do not need to be afraid, because their core is fragile.
Next, I will analyze in detail how to deal with these two types of "three sons", and how to control the man's time through a protracted battle, so that the original partner can win in the marriage.
How to deal with the "greedy" mistress
Those women who become juniors because of "greed" often attach too much importance to immediate interests, and even do not hesitate to sacrifice greater benefits to pursue small gains.
In fact, this type of junior is the easiest to deal with.
A man is not stupid, he can clearly tell whether a woman has real feelings for him or if she is simply trying to make his fortune.
However, why didn't he just debunk it?
This is because he feels that this greedy woman is easy to manipulate and can easily get rid of at any time.
A man will give the mistress money, resources, and connections, and the mistress only needs to be like a doll or a pet cat, able to entertain him, well-behaved, sensible, obedient, not so clingy, accompany him crazy, and continue to provide emotional value to satisfy the feelings that he can't get in marriage, and that's enough.
Of course, men's infidelity often stems from a greedy mentality, and the boundaries in their hearts are clear, and they guard the core interests of reputation, property, and status tightly.
As long as the wife at home does not make waves, and the third party does not touch his bottom line, he can enjoy this deformed "threesome" in marriage with peace of mind.
Therefore, the most effective way to face those greedy third parties is to cut off her financial resources and let her get nothing, so that she can really pose a threat to her.
Once money and resources are hopeless, the third party will naturally choose to leave the man voluntarily because it is unprofitable.
How to deal with the "stupid" junior
Last month, a student revealed to me that her husband told her that a third party outside claimed to love him so much that he even jumped off a building for him, and even sacrificed him to the point of having an abortion.
The man said that the "third sister" was willing to pay the price of his life, which made him deeply moved.
The student frantically asked me if her marriage had fallen into an irreparable situation since the woman outside was so crazy.
I said: Because of the lack of love for these "three children" when they were children, once they fall in love with someone, they will be like moths to a fire, desperate to invest.
As long as you feel a trace of love in a relationship, it is easy to imagine the other person as perfect, feel that you can give everything for the other person, just like a gambler, constantly and frantically raising. She even enjoyed the triangular relationship, as if snatching love from another woman.
But there is an immutable law in relationships, and that is the "law of conservation of energy" - all efforts are ultimately demanded in return.
Your husband may think that he can enjoy this woman's love for nothing, but there is no such thing as a free lunch, and "stolen" things will always make him pay.
And Xiao San's crazy actions can't be maintained for a long time.
Because scheming is also a huge drain on herself, and the greater the consumption, the more difficult it is for her to persevere.
That's why I often say that time is the most powerful ally of the original match.
No matter how crazy the man is to force you to divorce, no matter how the mistress makes your husband smitten, you have to grit your teeth and hold back.
The purpose of Shinobi is to wait for their madness to pass, and that is the best time for you to "attack".
But this kind of "forbearance" does not mean sitting back and letting them develop.
You can tell men unequivocally: if you really want to be with women outside, I can fulfill you at the moment. But cheating is your fault, and it's an ongoing hurt for me.
Therefore, you have to take care of my feelings and that of my children, and make sure that you have to spend a basic amount of time at home, such as having to be at home for two days on weekends and going home on time for at least three days a week.
During this time, you need to think deeply about your future coping strategies.
For example, after a man's "cerebral insane period", how to make him increase his investment in you; What bargaining chips do you have in your hands that you can negotiate with men; How to devise a strategy to gradually separate the relationship between the man and the mistress......
Therefore, the wife ostensibly "accepts" the "threesome" and stabilizes the situation, which is actually a strategy of retreating.
The purpose is to compete for men's time and make women outside always feel "dissatisfied".
The more Xiao San felt that he had an advantage, the more he couldn't wait to get on the top quickly.
You have to know that if Xiao San doesn't want to "get on top", we won't have a chance.
And the more Xiao San wants to "get on top", the more requirements and dissatisfaction she will have for men, and this is the moment of our counterattack.
When a man's "cerebral insane period" passes, he will begin to feel that Xiao San just wants to control him.
At this time, the wife's side is full of attraction, and as long as there is a conflict between them, we can have the opportunity to add sand to their relationship and sow discord.
If you want to learn specific words and coping strategies, you can send me a private message.
I will teach you how to deal with it step by step, depending on your specific situation.
Remember, we don't need to be afraid of the challenges of the juniors.
As long as we master the right strategies and methods, we will be able to protect our marriage and happiness.