Recently, everyone has taken the college entrance examination, the high school entrance examination, and the final examination of the final examination.
After taking a test, I passed a hurdle, and gradually moved from school to society, as a long-term old social animal, Xingzai doesn't want to say that your suffering has just begun to rely on the old and sell the old, but I still want to tell you a few words as a person who has come over.
(To borrow the cover image of the social chapter)
Adults can drink, minors are not allowed to drink, and Xingzi will use Calpis to replace the wine
Everyone is saying that the teacher has worked hard, but I want to say to everyone that you have also worked hard!
There was a very good teacher who said to us, of course you work harder than us, because I have a choice, and you have no choice now.
I:
It was the first time a teacher said such a thing to me, and before that I was taught that the teacher stood and I sit, and the teacher worked hard for me to enjoy, how much we were soaked in a honey pot, but how could I not feel this way?
Indeed, at that time, we seemed to be not qualified to do anything other than study, playing is also a scared play, I will listen to what adults say, not to say that adults say wrong, but before there was only one way to learn, in the future, we are faced with more and more choices, I hope that everyone's choices are made by themselves, become what they want to be, not what others let you become.
You don't have to be so "well-behaved" anymore, "good" itself is a false proposition, just like "early love", but the people who manage you are deprived of the right to diversity because there are too few manpower, too little energy, and a large number of people who are managed.
"Not obedient" is not your fault, "obedience" should no longer be the largest part of your life, in the future life, you have to make decisions for yourself, take yourself as a priority, don't be ashamed to please yourself and make yourself happy.
I hope that in your future life, those who sacrifice themselves for others, those things that "are actually okay to do, but not better, so I don't want you to do them", if you want to do it yourself, you do it, don't be too wronged yourself, don't always put other people's priorities before yourself.
It took me many years to come out of the shadows of that time, and my goal was not to achieve fame, but just to be a person who "likes myself", and I worked hard for many years. When we have no choice but to be "obedient", I don't understand why adults don't necessarily want to do it themselves, and they still ask us to do that.
Is it really reasonable to put upon you every day, to test the limits of your abilities, to the brink of collapse?
Is your obedience for yourself or for them?
If they don't like you, you don't deserve to be liked, an unlikable person, a loser?
I am a person who is particularly prone to crazy internal friction in this regard, and mentally it is particularly easy to be stained by a little stain and then can't be washed off, I feel like a useless dirty rag, I trust the adult so much, not to mention betrayal, at least I feel very much sorry for my trust, at that time I was also somatized to the point of affecting normal life, if the phrase "the world is a huge grass platform" appeared ten years earlier, I would not have thought about those unreasonable things to affect my health.
Maybe today's children have many more channels to receive information than I did, and they also know how to be self-consistent and self-loving, and they know that there are many things that are more important than learning, and my old experience at that time is no longer applicable to you, which is very good.
I hope that you will give priority to your own will when you encounter things, you are young, energetic, quick to accept new things, you have the opportunity to try, to trial and error, to cross the river with ponies, as long as you don't break the law, don't violate the moral bottom line, don't endanger your health, then enjoy yourself and bloom indulgently!
Your desire to achieve a certain goal is also very precious, I hope you would rather do it, but it is not satisfactory and regret, and don't lose the urge to do it because you didn't do it, and finally regret it after wasting your time.
Xingzai's babies are the most worthy, the most qualified to get the best baby, I hope everyone loves themselves more and more, to embrace a new new life~