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On July 2, a beautiful mother from Nanyang, Henan Province generously posted a video on social media networks that she had worked hard for a week to do a nail art but was directly stepped on by her child. Here's why, the mother is skateboarding with her child.
Because he was afraid that the child might fall down while stepping on the skateboard, he subconsciously put his hand on the ground, but he never thought that the child stepped directly on his mother's manicure. The mother said that the child did not see that her hands were already on the ground.
So I was taken aback when I stepped on it. Judging from the content of the short video, the manicure done by the mother on her ring finger and little finger was all broken, and her fingers and nails were also damaged to varying degrees. It makes people look very painful.
It is worth noting that the child was also frightened by the broken manicure. Through this incident, the mother felt that although the nail art is beautiful, it is very inconvenient for daily life. Fortunately, there were no major accidents this time, and if it did, it would not be scared to death.
In other words, it's a trivial matter for a child to be scared. If the child falls, there is a big problem. That's not a matter of two nail art injuries that can be compared to each other. Perhaps the couple could also have a very heated argument with each other.
Thankfully, however, there was no major problem. I hope that this mother can learn a lesson in the future and think more about how practical it is before pursuing beauty and fashion. It is best to compare taking care of children with the pursuit of beauty, and make the best choice after weighing the pros and cons.
From the reverse point of view
From the reverse point of view, this "accident" is equivalent to a wake-up call. If it weren't for this accident, the mother probably wouldn't have realized how a long manicure would be detrimental to taking care of her child's daily life.
This is actually a blessing in disguise. Although the pain of broken nails is borne by the mother, it is undoubtedly acceptable compared to the child's problems. After all, an adult can bear it a little more, much better than a fragile child.
On the other hand, this incident also allows the mother to reflect on whether the "doctrine that women should be beautiful to the end" (the meaning of continuing to maintain beauty and pursuing fashion after getting married and having children) that has been advocated on the Internet is beneficial or only disadvantageous.
Judging from the "heart-washing" of never doing nail art again, this mother's reflection has had some effect. In the future, you should be more focused on taking care of your children. It is important to note that taking care of children and pursuing fashion and beauty are not in conflict with each other.
It's just that at a certain stage, there is a difference between priority and priority. When children are very young, especially when their individual abilities are relatively weak, children are actually inseparable from the help of adults. Therefore, at this time, the mother needs to make a certain sacrifice and stop pursuing beauty.
Phases are prioritized
Focus more on taking good care of your children. When the child grows up or has strong individual abilities, it means that the child himself does not need much help from adults. It's not too late to pursue fashion and beauty at this time.
Just like work and life, some people may regard work as the main theme of a certain stage and work overtime desperately; Some people regard work as a means to maintain their lives, and they never work overtime when they get off work. Enjoy your personal life when you're on vacation.
This is clearly a work-life priority. However, there are some surprises. For example, some people may be born in Rome and will not need to work for the rest of their lives. There is no need to run for life, and there is no priority or priority.
Of course, there are also some lying flat people in large numbers at the moment. This is the case with Shenzhen's "Sanhe God". They put life in the first place and work in the back burner. If it weren't for starvation, none of them would have chosen to work.
For this mother, there must be some sacrifices to be made at a young age. Just like the child's father works hard all day to earn money to support the family, when the child is older, he may not fight like this. It's not that children don't have the ability to stand on their own now.
Beauty also needs moderation
It is worth mentioning that even if the child has the ability to stand on his own. Then the psychology of the child's mother in pursuit of beauty should also grasp the principle of moderation. Over-immersion in the pursuit of beauty can lead to a serious detachment from reality, like a celebrity who has been playing the Internet.
Immersed in the pursuit and fawning of others in the virtual network, you can't extricate yourself. Although the network is good, don't immerse yourself in it; I can't help but love beauty, but I also have to grasp the measurement. Such a long manicure can have a big impact on an individual's daily routine in real life.
Not to mention taking care of children, just doing some housework, where would you need such a long manicure. So we all need to start from the practicality based on the reality of the situation, so that we can also avoid injury.
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