## Description
Every marriage comes with ups and downs and challenges, but some actions can inadvertently cause a serious breakdown in the relationship. This article will demystify the six behaviors that are most likely to lead to emotional breakdown in marriage and help readers avoid marriage pitfalls.
## Body
### Behavior 1: Lack of communication and listening
In marriage, a lack of communication and listening is one of the most common disruptive factors. My friends Tom and Lily got into a fight over it. They are so busy with their work and personal affairs that they barely have time to sit down and chat. Unable to share each other's joys and sorrows, they become more and more distant as time goes on. I saw them fall into a spiral of silence that eventually led to the breakdown of their marriage.
### Behavior 2: Lack of support and understanding
In a healthy marriage, support and understanding are crucial. When my friend Amy lost her job, she was devastated by it. However, instead of giving her enough support and understanding, her husband Mike blamed her for not making an effort to find a new job. This lack of support and understanding left Amy feeling isolated and disappointed, which eventually led to a breakdown in their relationship.
### Act 3: Disrespect and contempt
Respect and respect are essential to maintaining the balance of the marriage. When I observed my neighbor Jeff and Lisa's marriage, I noticed that they often belittled and argued with each other. They often sarcastically and belittle each other in public, and this lack of respect eventually leads to their drift apart.
### Behavior 4: Lack of common goals and interests
A successful marriage requires both spouses to have common goals and interests. My friends David and Sarah had a lot in common at first, but over time their interests began to diverge. David embraced a full-time job and ignored Sarah's needs, while Sarah devoted more time and energy to pursuing her passions. This lack of common goals and interests ultimately leads to emotional estrangement between them.
### Behavior 5: Infidelity and deception
Infidelity and deception are among the most destructive behaviors in marriage. My friend Kate found out that her husband Chris was cheating and she was devastated. Not only physical betrayal, but also emotional betrayal. Kate was unable to forgive and build trust, and eventually chose to divorce.
### Behavior 6: Lack of compromise and inclusion
Marriage requires constant compromise and tolerance on both sides. My friends Brian and Kelly were always arguing over little things. They were unable to find a balance and always stubbornly insisted on their position, which eventually led to the breakdown of their marriage.
## Ending
All of these behaviors can lead to the breakdown of a marriage, but if we face them positively and change them, we have a chance to save the marriage. Marriage requires the efforts and dedication of both parties to run together. If you find yourself in the middle of it, be open and honest with your partner, communicate deeply, and seek professional help. A healthy and stable marriage is worth working for.