Hello everyone~ I'm Hachi
What is the difference between a mother-in-law and a mother?
may be in the eyes of many women, mother-in-law is naturally inferior to mother-in-law, after all, mother-in-law is related by blood, and she is born and raised by herself, so she is naturally close to her mother.
However, once a woman gets married, the difference between her mother-in-law and her mother is really big, and some mothers say that it is not unreasonable that "mother-in-law is better than her own mother".
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been very delicate, some families have contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the relationship is also "hateful", and some families have a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is better than a mother.
A 92-year-old mother from Guangdong said that after getting married, the comparison between her mother-in-law and her mother made her unable to calm down, and it also made netizens sigh.
@娜娜麻麻：
When I got married, I was also scolded by my girlfriends and those angry mother-in-law on the Internet, which made me not have a good impression of my mother-in-law. After getting married, I was very disgusted with my mother-in-law.
However, after getting married, my mother-in-law's behavior really touched me, and there was a moment when I felt very sorry for my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law treats herself like a daughter, and when she gets married, she will teach me the basic etiquette of my mother's family, and it can be seen that she still respects our mother's family very much.
When I was pregnant, my mother-in-law always managed my pregnancy life, especially my daily travel and diet.
For a moment, I felt that my mother-in-law was interfering a little too much.
However, I thought about it differently, and my mother-in-law's starting point was all for my good, which saved me from a lot of detours.
On the other hand, after pregnancy, I felt estranged from my mother, I didn't have any greetings, and I didn't care as much as my mother-in-law gave me.
After giving birth to a baby, my mother-in-law made me feel the warmth of my mother. Take the initiative to help me take care of the baby, share the family, and be a strong backing for the family.
When the baby was two months old, he also took the baby back to his parents' house. But after I went back, my mother's attitude towards me was not as good as before marriage, I felt very strange, and my mother's family didn't leave me a room, and the room I lived in before was also placed with sundries.
After marriage, if you really regard you as a daughter, you will definitely miss it in your heart.
On the contrary, it is also very common for mothers who always feel that their daughters owe their mothers to their mothers, and only know how to exploit their daughters without caring about their daughter's happiness.
A smart mother should also be responsible, no matter what the mother does to herself, she still has to fulfill her filial piety obligations.
Whether it is a mother-in-law or a mother, they should be treated equally and should fulfill their duties. Mothers should still know about this.
Finally, I would like to ask everyone, has my mother's attitude towards me changed after getting married?
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