There is a saying that appearance is justice, in the eyes of many people, with the natural resource of beauty, whether it is emotion or life, beautiful women go more smoothly and marry better than ordinary women.
However, relevant marriage surveys show that the more beautiful a woman is, the more bumpy her love path is. Because the more beautiful a woman is, the more she can't see the dark side of a man.
Actor Gong Li said:
Only beauty, nothing is used.
This deafening admonition is worth remembering for every beautiful woman.
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A beautiful woman who is easy to become a trophy for a scumbag
Friend Lao Qian, a generation of people, a small middle-class with assets, his career and life are very smooth, the only thing that bothers him is his only child.
Lao Qian's son is only 28 years old, but the girlfriends he has talked about can no longer be counted on both hands, although these girls have their own characteristics, they all have a common characteristic: beautiful.
Lao Qian can understand his son's liking for beautiful girls, men, it's normal to be interested in seeing color, and beautiful women can always make people more pleasing to the eye.
But after falling in love so many times, you must always choose a beautiful and capable girl and develop it seriously.
But the son's statement about giving the old money is:
Finding a beautiful woman to fall in love is just to find a beautiful vase that matches your taste. Why are you so serious? I never wanted to get married to them.
Hearing this argument, Lao Qian could only sigh.
He himself has had some beautiful women who play on the spot, and he just treats these women as vases, but he has never been serious, let alone thought of destroying the family, but the same concept is placed on his son, and he can't accept it a little.
Lao Qian admitted that he had a double standard, but also sighed that his son was young, and he was already on the road of a scumbag, going farther and farther.
The more beautiful a woman is, the easier it is to be remembered by scumbags who only value their appearance, and regard them as targets that can be conquered. And once they succeed, as soon as the novelty wears off, or they meet a younger and more beautiful woman, they will immediately change their course and chase the next beautiful woman again.
Two
A beautiful woman will stimulate the controlling desire of ordinary men
The man Lao Zhang has a beautiful and docile wife, and his relatives and friends praise him for his blessings, especially his brothers, who always joke that a flower is inserted in cow dung.
The envy and jealousy brought by the beautiful wife naturally made Lao Zhang complacent. However, in addition to being happy, he will also be full of crisis consciousness, and always feel that such a beautiful wife is easy to be coveted by other men.
Therefore, whether it is when he is in love or after marriage, Lao Zhang takes strict care of his wife.
When falling in love, Lao Zhang's wife still enjoyed this jealous desire to control, thinking that Lao Zhang cared about his performance, but after getting married, Lao Zhang guarded her like a thief every day, and after a long time, Lao Zhang's wife couldn't bear it, and the couple always quarreled from time to time because of this matter.
Lao Zhang's wife felt that Lao Zhang didn't trust her, but Lao Zhang didn't admit it on the surface, but in her heart she firmly believed that a woman's beautiful appearance was the biggest temptation for men, and beautiful women were more difficult to grasp because they could accept more temptations.
For a man who is relatively ordinary in all aspects, if he is lucky enough to marry a beautiful wife, he will be complacent and feel that his charm is big enough to win such a beautiful flower.
At the same time, he will also have a strong sense of insecurity, and will also doubt his beautiful wife because of low self-esteem and sensitivity.
There is a saying that says:
In the world of crows, swans are guilty.
For scumbags who are accustomed to objectifying women, conquering a beautiful woman is a medal of their own love pride.
And for ordinary men with low self-esteem and sensitivity, beautiful women are both trophies and dangerous goods, and they must be watched firmly to ensure their exclusivity.
No matter what kind of idea you have, in many men's worlds, beautiful women only have superficial appearances, inner abilities and qualities, and they must always be suspicious.
Therefore, those women who are beautiful and live beautifully are ruthless characters in life, and they deserve everyone's praise.