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Sometimes, it is not easy to ask relatives for help. tells the story of the trouble of spending more money and owing favors to relatives for help. Relatives help fix the car, which may not only charge but also complicate things. Let's take a look at this real-life topic and see if you feel the same way?
Some things are hard to say, but they are real.
For example, there are some things that you can only ask relatives for help, but sometimes you spend more money and owe favors when you ask relatives for help.
It's very sad to say this.
01: Asking relatives for help, but spending more money
For example, if your car breaks down, you can only ask relatives for help.
Because he understands cars, you think he can help you solve problems for free.
But in reality, a relative may help you solve the problem, but he won't help in vain.
So you will find that it is obviously just a simple question, but it costs a lot of money.
Because relatives have to charge for help, but it's easy to owe favors if you charge for it.
02: Find relatives for help and owe favors
For example, a relative helped fix the car and asked for a sum of money.
Because it's a relative, it's hard for you to bargain, so you give it to him.
In fact, there is nothing about giving money, but sometimes it is difficult to repay the favors owed.
Let's say one day he asks you for help, and you don't want to help, but you're too embarrassed to refuse.
So you have to help him, and in this way, the debt will be repaid.
But soon, he'll come back to you for trouble.
Although it is a trivial matter to say that he is going to trouble you, it would be a bit too much to say that he wants to trouble you for a big and small matter.
But you can't refuse him, after all, there was trouble with him before.
So you've been in debt back and forth.
Sometimes, you shouldn't ask your relatives for help if you can fix something with a sum of money.
03: Get help from relatives to complicate simple things
Because relatives always owe favors for help.
So many people don't like to ask relatives for help.
If you think that you can solve things with money, you shouldn't ask your relatives for help.
Because he asked his relatives for help, he always felt that he had suffered a loss.
So simple things are complicated.
It's like a car breakdown, obviously it's just a minor problem.
But because it was his relatives who helped, he would feel that he had suffered.
So when you change parts, you will change a few more parts.
This is done to make more money to make up for the losses that have been suffered before.
But in fact, there is no need to change so many parts for the car, just replace one.
But I couldn't say anything, because it was a relative who helped, so I had to admit it.
In fact, the older generation likes to ask relatives for help, but the younger generation does not like to understand why.
Young people think that asking relatives for help will only owe a favor, and the debt will never be clear.
epilogue
In reality, it is sometimes really a hassle to ask relatives for help. The debt of human affection often makes people feel torn. Have you had a similar experience? Come and share your story!