In today's society, such a thing as derailment does not seem to be uncommon, as long as you are friends who pay attention to social hotspots, you will find that there will be all kinds of derailment incidents exposed every day, some are ordinary people, and some are even some "big shots", without exception, it is because of problems in their private lives that netizens will dig out the "fierce material" and suffer from everyone's verbal criticism!
Details of the event
Recently, it has been really fried on the Internet, and a man is very bold and publicly reported Cao, the deputy general manager of Sinopec Tahe Refining and Chemical Co., Ltd., with his ID card. He said that Cao had an improper relationship with his wife, and as soon as this matter was exposed, it immediately attracted widespread public attention.
Here's the thing: After Cao knew that his business was posted on the Internet, he called the man without blushing and without a heartbeat. On the phone, he also kept praising the man's wife for being a good wife and mother, and she was serious and responsible. You say, "Will this man be glad to hear this?" It's obviously a provocation! This made the man feel very insulted and angry.
The man decided that he couldn't bear it any longer, he chose to make the matter of Cao and his wife public, and also released a recording of his call with Cao on the Internet. It can be heard from the recording that Cao seems to have acquiesced in the fact that the matter between him and the man's wife is not ordinary.
Cao also said on the phone that he was divorced and was just chatting with the man's wife. He tried to explain that it was just small talk between two old friends, and the conversation was more speculative. But these words did not calm the man's anger at all, but made the man feel more insulted. In particular, Cao said on the phone, "I had a good chat" and "I don't want to get involved in the affairs between your husband and wife", these words are undoubtedly poking at the man's sore spots.
After exposing these things, the man was under great mental pressure and couldn't sleep well for several days in a row. Moreover, public attention to this matter is also soaring, and everyone has supported this brave whistleblower, hoping to get Cao to be punished through legal channels.
As soon as this derailment scandal broke out, Cao's Sinopec company was also involved in the turmoil. Media reporters hurriedly contacted Sinopec to confirm Cao's true identity. After some inquiry, a customer service from Sinopec finally confirmed that Cao was indeed the deputy general manager of their company. In this way, Cao's official position and status were completely exposed.
Sinopec's public relations department was not idle, and they began to get busy, trying to control this crisis of public opinion. They said they had reported the situation to the company's top management and would take the matter seriously in accordance with the company's rules and regulations.
However, everyone actually knows in their hearts that the truth of this kind of matter involving the internal affairs of officials and businessmen is often not easy to completely figure out. Although the company is ostensibly good and will deal with it seriously, many people are speculating whether the truth behind this will be covered up and not fully exposed. After all, once this kind of thing is completely spread out, it involves not only individuals, but also the reputation of the entire company, and even more complex interests. Therefore, although the scandal has now been made public, everyone is still waiting to see how far this scene can go.
Netizens are hotly discussed
When encountering derailment, no matter who encounters it, they have to have a pimple in their hearts, which is particularly uncomfortable. This kind of thing is not just a trivial matter for individuals, it involves marriage and family, and it is related to the happiness of several people. Moreover, once a third party is involved, the whole thing is more complicated and the emotional damage is deeper.
In this case, both the reporting party and the reported party feel uncomfortable. The whistleblower may be angry and sad because of the betrayal, while the whistleblower may feel ashamed and anxious because their actions have been exposed. This kind of psychological pressure is not ordinarily large, and it may be particularly painful and depressing.
Once this kind of extramarital affair is made public, it will not only affect the daily life of the person concerned, but may also affect their relatives and friends, and even their work. Once trust is broken in a marriage, it is extremely difficult to repair it. Therefore, when dealing with this kind of thing, everyone involved needs to be very careful and attentive to minimize the harm to each other as much as possible.
As soon as this derailment incident broke out, the heated discussion on the Internet did not stop. A large number of netizens have participated, leaving messages to complain and comment on this matter. Moreover, everyone also likes to speculate and speculate, such as "why do you always like to perform in public when you cheat now", "what is the reason for the problems in people's marriages", such topics are overwhelming.
The enthusiastic discussion of these netizens actually added fuel to the fire of this matter unknowingly! Everyone has their own opinions and interpretations, and the discussion on the web is becoming more and more lively. Some people try to analyze the psychological and social reasons behind the derailment, while others simply come to watch and eat melons.
While this kind of open discussion can sometimes provide a different perspective and help people understand the complexities of interpersonal relationships, it can also exacerbate the psychological stress of the person involved, after all, their private lives are magnified and become the talk of the town.
In general, once this kind of extramarital affair is made public, it will inevitably become the focus of the public, attracting countless eyes and comments. At such times, every sentence on the Internet may become a sword that deepens the pain of others, so everyone should be more empathetic and less mean when commenting.
The recent scandal has caused many netizens to talk about it, and many of them have begun to question the management of state-owned enterprises. Some netizens bluntly expressed their opinions, saying: "What do state-owned enterprises raise?" Such comments reflect widespread public concerns about the internal management and ethical standards of SOEs.
Of course, such remarks may be a bit radical, but they also reflect people's expectations of the social responsibility and moral standards that state-owned enterprises should undertake. In the eyes of many people, state-owned enterprises are not only the backbone of the economy, but also a model of social morality. As a result, every scandal like this raises questions the public's image and trust in SOEs.
In this case, people's reactions may be a little emotional, but the real concerns behind this are worth paying attention to. SOEs should indeed be more stringent in management and supervision to ensure that every employee, especially senior managers, can lead by example and be strict with themselves.
epilogue
Although the derailment incident was a private matter, it attracted widespread attention because it involved the top management of state-owned enterprises. This is not only because of the explosiveness of the incident itself, but also because people have higher ethical standards and expectations for state-owned enterprises and public officials. The public reaction shows that people are reluctant to see people who are supposed to be role models in this kind of scandal.
Through this incident, we can see that the behavior of individuals, whether they are public figures or ordinary employees, can have a profound impact on the image of themselves and the organization they work for. This impact can undermine public trust and respect for the institution as a whole.
Therefore, from individuals to organizations, we should always be vigilant and maintain high standards of ethical behavior, especially in today's era of information and networking, any small negligence may be magnified. State-owned enterprises and all institutions should strengthen internal management to ensure that every member can be strict with himself, honest and honest, and jointly create a healthy and positive working and social environment.