Preface
Life is like a long-distance race, everyone is at a different starting point, experiencing their own scenery and challenges. And when we enter middle age, it may be a time to re-examine ourselves and adjust our mentality. At this stage, we may have experienced ups and downs in the workplace, or our family has gradually stabilized, or we may have begun to feel some decline in our body and energy. And how to correct one's position in this period and learn to "stand aside" in a timely manner may be a life subject that needs to be savored.
1. In the workplace, learn to take the initiative to be virtuous
1. You don't have to compete with young people
As we grow older, our energy and physical strength will decline, and we don't need to work as hard as young people, and we don't have to compete with young people in all aspects, after all, everyone's life stage is different, and they have their own strengths and weaknesses.
2. Pay attention to "passing, helping, and leading"
In the workplace, we should learn to take the initiative to give young people more opportunities and space in a timely manner, which is not to retreat and give up, but a higher level of realm. Through the way of "passing, helping and leading", you can pass on your experience and wisdom to young people and help them grow, which is not only conducive to the development of the team and unit, but also allows you to face work and life more calmly and peacefully.
2. In the emotional world, learn to let go of entanglements
1. Don't torture yourself with superfluous feelings
After middle age, perhaps we have experienced a period of unforgettable feelings, and there are more or less inseparable entanglements and regrets. And at this stage, we should learn to let go of those superfluous feelings, and stop letting them become a burden and shackles to the soul, because this will only continue to torment ourselves and affect the happiness of the present and the future.
2. Cherish the people in front of you
Instead of immersing yourself in the memories and regrets of the past, it is better to look up at the people around you, cherish the people in front of you, manage the current feelings, give more care and companionship to family and friends, and give yourself a plain and reliable life, maybe this is where the real happiness lies.
3. In the wine field, learn to stay on the side to maintain health
1. Refuse to drink excessively
As we age, our physical fitness and resistance will decline, and we need to pay more attention to protecting our physical health. In the wine field, we should learn to stop in moderation, even refuse to drink excessively, not hurt our body because of the momentary excitement, we must learn to maintain our health and give ourselves a healthy lifestyle.
Fourth, in the money field, learn to be content and happy
1. Stay away from the temptation of money
After middle age, perhaps we already have a certain economic foundation, and we also have some pursuit and desire for money to a greater or lesser extent. However, we should learn to stay away from the temptation of money and live a life of pure heart and few desires, because money does not bring true happiness and satisfaction, only inner peace and contentment are the truest pursuit of life.
2. A simple and fulfilling life
To be content and happy is not to give up the pursuit of life, but to learn to feel the beauty of life from the heart, enjoy a simple and fulfilling life, and face the gains and losses, fast and slow in life with a peaceful mind, so that you can truly appreciate the meaning of life.
epilogue
Life is like a book, each stage has its own unique scenery and connotation, and when we enter middle age, it may be a time to re-examine ourselves and adjust our mentality. At this stage, perhaps we need to learn to take the initiative to give young people more opportunities and space in the workplace; Perhaps we need to learn to let go of entanglements and cherish the people in front of us in the emotional world; Perhaps we need to learn to stay on the sidelines and refuse excessive pleasure in the wine field; Perhaps we need to learn to be content and stay away from the temptation of impetuousness in the money field. Standing aside is not to retreat and give up, but to a higher level of realm, a kind of inner peace and calm, let us use a quiet heart, to taste the ups and downs of life, to feel the beauty of the quiet years, so that life is more exciting because of us.