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In 1987, a remote deer farm in the northeast welcomed a special group of guests. The crew of "Dream of Red Mansions" is filming the last scene here - the death of Wang Xifeng.
The weather was freezing cold, the temperature plummeted to minus 32 degrees, and even director Wang Fulin proposed to replace the actor with a dummy. However, the young Deng Jie insisted on going into battle in person.
Wrapped in a rudimentary straw mat and barefoot exposed to the biting cold wind, she was dragged over and over again on the ice-covered ground. In order to present the realism of the corpse, Deng Jie endured the pain and remained motionless.
As time passed, her consciousness gradually blurred, as if she had really entered Wang Xifeng's world. When the director shouted "stop", Deng Jie had fallen into a coma and was rushed to the hospital.
This scene that almost took her life not only established Deng Jie's status in the entertainment industry, but also became an important turning point in her life, leading her to a challenging and inconceivable happy marriage.
Deng Jie became famous with the role of Wang Xifeng in "Dream of Red Mansions", and her superb acting skills and professionalism won her the double honor of Feitian Award and Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actress.
However, the glory of her career did not carry over into her love life. In 1980, the young Deng Jie and a private entrepreneur surnamed Zhang entered the marriage hall, but it ended in failure just a few years later.
The breakdown of this marriage left Deng Jie with deep scars and made her doubt about love.
The gears of fate quietly turned, and in 1990, during the filming of the TV series "The Password Was Not Leaked", Deng Jie met Zhang Guoli, who also experienced a failed marriage.
When they first met, both of them had a bad impression of each other. Deng Jie felt that Zhang Guoli was too conceited, while Zhang Guoli thought that Deng Jie was difficult to get along with. The exchange between them was full of gunpowder, and neither of them was willing to back down.
However, as the cooperation deepened, especially when they worked together again three years later to shoot "Dead Water Breeze", they gradually discovered the shining points in each other. Deng Jie began to appreciate Zhang Guoli's talent, and whenever he stepped on the set, he seemed to be able to exude infinite charm.
She was surprised to find that Zhang Guoli in front of the camera seemed to be a different person, full of confidence and courage.
Zhang Guoli was attracted by Deng Jie's professionalism and unique temperament. He recalled Deng Jie's performance in "Dream of Red Mansions" and couldn't help but be in awe of her. The two gradually cultivated a tacit understanding at work, and their private communication became more and more relaxed and pleasant.
In between filming, Zhang Guoli looked at Deng Jie who was distracted in the distance, and suddenly realized that his heart was beating faster. They have both experienced the failure of their marriages and are wary of love, but at this moment, they both feel the emotions surging in their hearts.
Zhang Guoli plucked up his courage and asked softly, "Deng Jie, do you believe in a second marriage?" Deng Jie turned her head, her eyes flashing with a complicated light. She was silent for a moment before replying, "Perhaps, it's worth trying again."
In this way, two people who have experienced the failure of their marriages decide to move hand in hand to the next chapter of their lives. Their stories are far more ups and downs than any script on the screen.
They both know that this relationship needs more cherishing and hard work, because neither of them wants to go through another failed marriage.
The encounter between Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli not only changed the trajectory of their respective lives, but also injected new vitality into their acting careers. They support each other, grow together, and prove with practical actions that the power of love can overcome the haze of the past and open a new chapter in life.
In order to be with Deng Jie, Zhang Guoli resolutely decided to go north to develop. However, the reality is far more cruel than they imagined. When they first arrived in Beijing, the newlyweds could only rent a small and simple house, and their family was surrounded by four walls, and their lives were poor.
Every morning, Zhang Guoli stood in front of the window, looking at the bustling city of Beijing, full of confusion and self-blame. He turned to look at Deng Jie, who was preparing a simple breakfast, and said in a low voice, "I'm sorry for letting you suffer with me."
Deng Jie put down the work in her hand, walked to her husband's side, and gently held his hand: "Don't say that, let's work together, we will definitely get better."
However, the reality is not as simple as they think. As an unknown newcomer, Zhang Guoli is difficult to move an inch in Beijing's entertainment industry. Every interview is a failure, and every audition is a failure.
Deng Jie saw it in her eyes and was anxious in her heart. She decided to use the connections she had accumulated after "Dream of Red Mansions" to fight for her husband's chances.
When Deng Jie told Zhang Guoli hopefully that he had won the opportunity to audition for "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", unexpectedly, Zhang Guoli politely declined.
"I know you're doing it for my good, but I want to stand on my own." Zhang Guoli's eyes flashed with stubbornness. Deng Jie looked at her husband's back, feeling distressed and relieved.
The pressure of life made Zhang Guoli often hide in his room and smoke alone, and sometimes even had the idea of quitting smoking because of the lack of cigarette money. Deng Jie noticed her husband's troubles and silently took on the responsibility of buying cigarettes for him.
In order to protect Zhang Guoli's self-esteem, she always said that it was given by someone else. Every time Zhang Guoli took the cigarette, Deng Jie could see a trace of guilt and gratitude flashing in his eyes.
Despite the difficult life, the relationship between the two was sublimated during this period. They support each other and face difficulties together. Whenever Zhang Guoli felt frustrated because of failure, Deng Jie could always give him strength with gentle words and firm eyes.
And Zhang Guoli also secretly swore in his heart: One day, I want Deng Jie to live in a big house, drive a good car, and live a happy life.
Finally, the opportunity came. Zhang Guoli gradually emerged with his outstanding performance in "Prime Minister Liu Luoguo". Immediately afterwards, the hit broadcast of "Kangxi Weifu Private Interview" made him famous in one fell swoop.
Zhang Guoli, who was once called "Deng Jie's husband" by the media, has now become a hot and powerful actor.
Seeing her husband finally come out, Deng Jie's eyes were full of tears of relief. She knew that their love had finally survived the most difficult years. Those days that once shared joys and sorrows have become the most precious wealth of their feelings.
This period of North Drift not only tested the love between Zhang Guoli and Deng Jie, but also honed their will. They have proved with practical actions that sincere feelings can overcome the hardships of life.
Since then, no matter what difficulties they face, they have the confidence to overcome them together.
With the stability of her career, Deng Jie gradually shifted her focus to her family. However, new challenges arose. Zhang Guoli and his ex-wife's son Zhang Mo have become an invisible barrier in their marriage.
Deng Jie tried to play the role of a good stepmother and tried to establish an intimate relationship with Zhang Mo. She carefully prepared Zhang Mo's favorite meals, cared about his study and life, and hoped to melt the heart of this teenager.
However, Zhang Mo was never able to accept her. In Zhang Mo's heart, the breakdown of his parents' marriage was blamed on Deng Jie's intervention. He never called Deng Jie "Mom", but just called her "Auntie" unfamiliarly.
Every time there is a family gathering, there is an indescribable embarrassment in the air.
Zhang Guoli saw it in his eyes, but chose to be silent. He didn't know how to balance the relationship between his son and his wife, so he could only let time dilute everything. Deng Jie often sat alone on the balcony, looking into the distance in a daze, her heart full of complex emotions.
She felt sorry for the child who had lost her mother's love, and she was frustrated that she could not be recognized.
Initially, Deng Jie didn't care if she had a child of her own. She poured all her love into Zhang Mo, hoping to make up for the shortcomings of this family. However, with the exposure of Zhang Mo's violent behavior and drug abuse scandal, her inner defense line completely collapsed.
At that moment, Deng Jie suddenly realized that maybe having a child of her own could really fill the emptiness in her heart.
Late one night, Deng Jie held Zhang Guoli's hand and said her heart tremblingly: "Perhaps, we should have a child of our own." Her eyes were full of anticipation and apprehension, hoping that her husband would understand her desire.
Zhang Guoli was silent for a long time, and finally said something that broke Deng Jie's heart: "If you feel lonely, it is better to raise a puppy to accompany you." This sentence was like a sharp blade, which deeply pierced Deng Jie's heart.
She couldn't believe that her feelings had been so lightly denied.
Since then, childbearing has become a taboo subject in their marriage. Deng Jie buried this desire deep in her heart, but she couldn't completely let go.
By chance, Deng Jie participated in a charity event and came into contact with some orphans. Looking at these innocent little faces, her heart was deeply touched. At that moment, it was as if she had found a new direction in her life.
After returning home, she plucked up the courage to propose the idea of adopting a child to Zhang Guoli.
Surprisingly, Zhang Guoli did not object this time. He looked at his wife's expectant eyes and nodded slightly: "If this can make you happy, I support you."
This sentence made Deng Jie feel her husband's understanding and love.
And just like that, a new life joined their family. While this decision put their marriage to a major test, it also deepened their relationship.
Deng Jie finally realized her dream of becoming a mother, and Zhang Guoli also learned more tolerance and understanding in the process.
This experience gave Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli a new understanding. They understand that marriage is not all smooth sailing and requires constant adjustment and compromise on both sides. Not having children does not mean that the marriage is unhappy, what matters is whether the husband and wife can understand and support each other.
By adopting a child, they not only enrich their own lives, but also provide a warm home for a child in need of care.
This test made Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli's marriage more mature and stable. They learned how to find solutions in difficulties and how to find consensus in disagreements.
This experience became the most valuable asset in their marriage.
As time passed, Deng Jie gradually faded out of the public eye, focusing on supporting her husband's career and taking care of the family. It wasn't an easy decision, but a deliberate one.
She understands that in the entertainment industry, it may bring unnecessary pressure to the marriage for the husband and wife to maintain high exposure at the same time.
Deng Jie's dedication has not been overlooked. Zhang Guoli's success in every step of his career is inseparable from the silent support of his wife. He often mentioned in interviews that Deng Jie is his strongest backing and a noble person in his life.
In 2017, Deng Jie ushered in her 60th birthday. Zhang Guoli carefully planned a moving birthday party as a way to express his gratitude to his wife for her years of dedication.
Under the gaze of many relatives and friends, Zhang Guoli took out a thousand-word love letter written by himself and read it in three minutes.
"Even if time flies and time flies, in my heart, you are still beautiful and moving!" Zhang Guoli said affectionately, his voice slightly choked, "All I can do is to accompany you through every day with my love."
These words expressed his deep and lasting love for Deng Jie.
Deng Jie listened to her husband's confession, her eyes filled with tears. She suddenly realized that although her married life was different from ordinary people's expectations, this deep and sincere relationship was the happiness she had been pursuing.
At that moment, all the persistence and compromise became worth it.
This birthday party is not only a summary of the past, but also an expectation for the future. Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli proved with practical actions that true happiness does not lie in the judgment of the outside world, but in how two people understand each other, support each other, and grow together.
The story of Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli challenges the world's preconceived notions of marriage. Their relationship proves that not having children does not mean that the marriage is unhappy. As the famous dancer Yang Liping said: "In life, each has its own pursuit.
Some people want to continue their bloodline, some people want to enjoy life, and some people want to experience life.
Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli use their stories to tell us that the essence of marriage is the union of two souls, mutual respect and support. Their love transcends the boundaries of tradition and reveals a deeper and more lasting happiness.
This kind of happiness may be the realm that many people pursue but are difficult to achieve.
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