In the bustling world, everyone is like a ship sailing alone, sometimes calm as water, sometimes choppy. Mo Yan once said: "Swallow yourself when you have pain, endure yourself when you hurt, bear your mistakes by yourself, and wipe your tears away by yourself!" This sentence is like a key, gently opening the door to our search for the true meaning of life.
Life is never smooth sailing. We will encounter various challenges and face endless problems on the road to growth. Maybe you feel helpless because of the pressures of life, maybe you will be discouraged by the frustration of work, and even sometimes, you will feel tired because of the complexity of your relationships. But remember, no matter how difficult it is, don't expect someone else to save you. Because, in this long journey of life, the only one who can really save you is yourself.
First of all, let's talk about "swallowing the bitterness yourself". The bitterness in life is sometimes like a cup of strong tea, which is bitter and difficult to swallow, but after tasting it, you can feel the sweetness contained in it. These bitter experiences are the catalyst for our growth and the grinding stone for us to become more resilient. When we learn to see suffering as part of growing up and are brave enough to swallow it, we become stronger before we know it.
Let's talk about "endure the pain yourself". Physical pain, perhaps, is short-lived; But the pain in the soul can last for a long time. Faced with the pain of a broken love, the death of a loved one, or the betrayal of a friend, we may feel like a knife in our hearts. But keep in mind that these pains are temporary, and they will slowly fade over time. And what we have to do is to learn to persevere in pain and wait for the day of healing in perseverance.
Next is "Bear the Wrong Burden". On the road of life, we will inevitably make mistakes. Sometimes it's because it's young and vigorous, sometimes it's because it's inexperienced. But whatever the reason, we should all be brave enough to accept our mistakes. Because only in this way can we learn from it and avoid repeating the mistakes of the past. At the same time, taking responsibility for mistakes is also a kind of courage, a manifestation of self-responsibility.
Finally, let's talk about "wiping yourself clean with tears". Tears are the catharsis of emotions and the comfort of the soul. But remember, tears don't solve the problem. When we weep, learn to dry our tears and pick ourselves up again. Because only in this way can we maintain a strong heart and face the challenges of life.
In this world of competition and challenges, each of us is a lone warrior. We need to learn to overcome difficulties and learn to grow through setbacks. As Mo Yan said: "There is no savior in the world, only yourself can really save you." "When we learn to cross ourselves, we will be able to go further and further on the road of life, getting closer and closer to that ideal self.
So, how can we achieve self-crossing on the road of life? I think there are a few suggestions:
1. Maintain a positive attitude. No matter how difficult it may be, believe that you have what it takes to overcome them. A positive mindset will allow us to see more opportunities and hope.
2. Keep learning and growing. Learning is the ladder of progress and the driving force for us to keep moving forward on the road of life. Only by continuous learning can we keep up with the pace of the times and constantly surpass ourselves.
3. Keep exercising. The body is the capital of the revolution, and only with a healthy body can we have enough energy to cope with various challenges in life.
4. Cherish the people and things around you. There are many people and things in life that we should cherish, and they are the source of motivation for us to move forward. To cherish them is to cherish our own lives.
Finally, I would like to summarize this article in one sentence: "Life is hard, and the only way to cross it is to cross it." "May we all be brave on the road of life and realize our dreams and goals!