At the moment when love is close, we are all excited and nervous, and we will try to seize the rare fate.
However, girls who are not calm and smart enough may use too much force, not only will they not be able to get love, but they will lose their value and charm to their advantages.
Feelings of love will arise at certain times, but to manage a relationship, you can't be too spontaneous, but have wisdom.
The more powerful a woman is, after falling in love with someone, she will not be too active, but will do these two things seriously, and the core is firm and sincere.
01: Learn to release the charm, and the love you attract can last for a long time
Teacher Mo Yan said: "What can be slowly cultivated is not love, but habits; What you can get over time is not emotion but emotion. ”
People who win love in these two ways will most likely not be able to go long with each other, as long as the other party meets someone who really attracts him in life, his heart will be occupied and he will leave you ruthlessly.
A truly sober woman, when she falls in love with someone, will not be too active, but knows how to release her own charm, knowing that only the love that attracts can last for a long time.
The more attractive a girl is, the higher her sense of worthiness tends to be. The weak have a habit of wronging themselves and catering to the needs of others.
No matter how strong your ability is and how beautiful you are, if your personality is very inferior and weak, you will not be loved.
Most of the people who can really be pampered by men are women with a high sense of value.
Yi Nengjing said: "When we face what we want and feel unworthy in our hearts, we will be invaded by a sense of vulnerability." ”
And girls with a high sense of worthiness, because they believe in themselves enough, can have a more sound love and happy life.
This ability needs to be cultivated, constantly reminding yourself with positive thoughts that you deserve enough good things and love.
A sense of worthiness is not a metaphysics, but a firm belief that is the beginning of what makes you more attractive.
To fall in love with a man, you don't need to be too proactive, but to do it well is to believe in yourself and deserve all the sincere love and excellent people.
02: Understand the person you like and give him the care and support he really needs
Although boys will be more rational in dealing with feelings, they are just ordinary people and have emotional needs.
Especially in intimate relationships, they care a lot about what their partner thinks of them, and when he gets a sense of recognition from you, he will feel happy and relaxed.
When you fall in love with a man, you don't need to be too active, if you want him to have a good impression of you, what you have to do is never to please and cater to you, but to see the emotional state of the other party.
Some boys in life are actually very sensitive, lack love, are not confident enough in themselves, and need to be cared for and seen.
A woman with real high emotional intelligence will be in a good state when she gets along with a man and will be able to consider problems from the other person's point of view.
The stronger your heart is, the more you have the ability to love and give the guy you like the encouragement and recognition you need.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "One person can be happy, and the happiness of two people is sweeter; One person can also live well, and two people can live well is twice as good. ”
No one will refuse to experience double happiness, and the same goes for boys.
They don't choose the other half who makes them feel depressed, but they hope to be nourished in love.
The more you can understand the needs of a man's heart, the more you will win love.
Understanding is a pattern and ability, and not all girls can do it. Most of them are more mature in their minds, and they also know how to love themselves, and their hearts are determined and free.
If a girl can't even accept herself, it will be difficult to be tolerant and patient with a boy.
Then, the process of love will continue with more pain, and no matter how much you give, you will not be able to experience deep and sound love.
To fall in love with a man, you don't have to be too proactive, but you have to do these 2 things well.
When you feel that your sense of worthiness is still low, it is better not to love anyone.
You have to spend more time to nourish your soul, otherwise every encounter and heartbeat will not bring happy results.