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Editor|Zhouzhou Film and Television Entertainment Review
In 2008, the 99-year-old man was lying in a hospital bed, dying.
But as a granddaughter, she said coldly: pull out the ventilator.
We don't.
The person who can say such a big rebellious thing is a CCTV host.
is a household name and has hosted the CCTV Spring Festival Gala many times.
and is also the female host who hosts the most CCTV programs.
At the same time, she has also won the title of actress several times.
But why is she so cold-blooded, and what the hell is going on?
What's the secret behind this?
01
She is Ni Ping.
When someone asked her again, she didn't hesitate to say, "No!" ”
After saying this, Ni Ping couldn't cry.
But she endured the grief in her heart, but she had to do it for a reason.
She is the audience's favorite host of the Spring Festival Gala.
She has the ability to deal with things in the face of danger.
She is modest and low-key, with an elegant temperament.
But she also has a bumpy marriage of three marriages and two divorces.
It probably has something to do with her family.
Ni Ping, who was born in Rongcheng, Shandong, has had a bad relationship with her parents since she was a child.
She spent her time in the midst of her parents' quarrels.
And my mother especially likes my brother.
When grandma entered Ni Ping's house, she saw such a scene and scolded the two of them.
felt that if the child stayed at his daughter's house, something would happen, so he took the child to his side to raise him.
It is said that the next generation is close, and it is not false at all.
Although Ni Ping, who arrived at her grandmother's house, was not a princess who lived in a big house, her grandmother had never treated her badly.
There are delicious and nutritious things at home, let Ni Ping eat them first.
Even if she doesn't have anything to eat, grandma will sell her own things to subsidize it.
And the uncles have never complained, this is her most dearest home.
So why did she choose to change her surname to "Ni" at the age of 17?
02
"Anyway, he is your father and has nurturing grace for you, and the divorce is not his fault alone."
When she was in elementary school, Ni Ping had to return to her parents.
But by this time, the parents' relationship was already on the verge of breaking.
Although Ni Ping has the love of her grandmother, the lack of maternal love makes her feel a little lonely.
So when he was 17 years old, he took the certificate and went to the police station to change his surname to "Ni".
Is changing the surname to sever the father-daughter relationship?
Not.
She thinks that this will make her mother feel better, so that she can be by her side for a long time.
But her change of surname also broke her father's heart.
This 17-year-old is not only a big event, in this year Ni Ping entered Shandong Art Institute to study acting.
This is the happiest thing for Ni Ping, who has loved acting and enjoying the stage since she was a child.
But fate is always full of disasters.
But I never thought that not long after I went to school, my grandfather also passed away.
In this way, there is only grandma left in the family.
Afraid that grandma wouldn't be able to think about it, and Ni Ping, who was afraid that grandma would be lonely, took grandma to her side.
But grandma was unwilling.
Although grandma didn't say it, she already smiled at the fact that she could think of her granddaughter at this moment.
But Ni Ping's next experience broke her grandmother's heart.
03
"You don't want to fall yourself, and no one else's legs can push you down; If you want to fall down yourself, others can't help you. ”
Ni Ping, who has an elegant temperament and is beautiful and extraordinary, has been going smoothly in her career.
But in the marriage and emotional torment.
The first marriage was in the hometown with a daughter.
But due to work, the two ended in divorce.
has lived with Chen Kaige for 5 years, but he has no name.
At that time, she was working at CCTV and taking care of Chen Kaige at home.
Even Chen Kaige's father's affairs are handled by Ni Ping.
But the effort did not wait for a return.
5 years of cohabitation waited for Chen Kaige's marriage with her.
Eventually, the two separated.
After remarrying, he married Wang Lan, but gave birth to a son who was ill.
In order to treat their son who suffers from cataracts, the husband and wife run to the hospital every day.
And the relationship between husband and wife has also gone wrong in the rush.
After the operation, her son has sequelae, and Ni Ping wants to continue treatment, but her husband Wang Lan doesn't want to.
In the Spring Festival Gala in 1999, Zhao Benshang also joked in the sketch: "Ni Ping is my dream lover." ”
But Ni Ping couldn't laugh.
This is because my son was diagnosed with congenital cataracts by the hospital just a few days ago.
After quitting her job at CCTV and divorcing, Ni Ping took her son abroad for treatment.
Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.
This sentence is very suitable for Ni Ping.
"Relying on the mountains and mountains, relying on everyone to get old, relying on coming and going, you will find out, and finally relying on yourself."
Grandma's sentence was given to Ni Ping, and it was also given to herself.
When the white-haired man sent the black-haired man, the grandmother did not fall.
The sacrifice of a son for the sake of the country is the most glorious thing.
In the army, the face ambulance was afraid that something would happen to the family.
But grandma smiled and said:
"That's what you want to be a soldier."
So she gave her granddaughter the words that supported her insistence.
I hope she can be strong, and no matter how big the hurdle is, just cross it.
When Ni Ping personally carried the child to the 7th floor for the sake of her son's illness, Ni Ping insisted.
After listening to it, Dong Qing also said bluntly: In those ten years, it seemed to be a kind of experience from God for Ni Ping.
In the past ten years, Ni Ping has also put all her thoughts on her family.
But you would never have imagined that Ni Ping, who was once a pillar of the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, also had a shortage of money.
04
"Giving people a mountain of gold is also a help, and giving people a bowl of water is also a help."
In urgent need of money to see her son, she returned to the film industry.
even found Feng Xiaogang, who was in his prime, regardless of his dignity, and knelt down directly without saying anything.
Just to have a role to play.
She herself once said on the online platform: When there is no money, the mother eats her son's leftovers!
They even have to sell their houses to subsidize their families.
But it's not the first time she's run out of money.
When Ni Ping earned advertising money, she saw a shortage of water in the northwest region.
It was decided to spend 1 million yuan to build a thousand "mother water cellars" for the local area.
But when she really handed over such a large sum of money, she also needed support.
So I went to ask my grandmother: How is this?
Grandma certainly didn't disappoint her.
"Yes, boy! That's life-saving money wow! ”
Why did Ni Ping do such a good deed after becoming famous, it turned out that her grandmother had already taught her by word and deed.
After donating the money, Ni Ping didn't tell her grandmother how much money she had at home, but her grandmother still noticed it.
She began to save money, and she was reluctant to buy clothes.
Because grandma knew that she really had no money.
Grandma gives everything to her family, and her greatness goes without saying,
But more than 40 years have passed, but grandma has never seen her sacrificial little son.
05
"Regret is specially left, or there would be no these two words."
This is the real life of Ni Ping and Grandma.
It is also a sentence that grandma said before her death.
Yes, there is no such thing as perfection in life.
Ni Ping felt that her grandmother was full of energy and hope, but she had a lot of regrets.
The pain in my grandmother's heart is only known after becoming a mother.
The son was buried in the martyr's garden in the county seat.
It's only 3 km from home.
Ni Ping also asked her grandmother: Why don't you go to see your uncle?
Everyone thought that the pain of grandma losing her son would slowly dissipate with the passage of time.
But the pain of losing her youngest son is still indelible in her grandmother's heart.
She is proud of her son, but she also has the pain of being a mother.
Although grandma's life has regrets, she will also bring a lot of happiness.
Ni Ping also often jokes with her grandmother: Grandma is fortunate that you didn't go to school, if you go to the country, you won't be able to hold you! ”
But Grandma replied:
"Then I'll go to Vietnam!"
This made Ni Ping puzzled, why?
Grandma said:
"I'll leave now, I'll go to Vietnam."
Ni Ping laughed when he said this.
A few years before my grandmother died, I couldn't let go of it.
I always feel like I'm leaving.
Ni Ping said:
"Grandma, don't talk about this, everything is fine.
Seeing through everything, grandma said:
"It's all the living who say yes, how can the dead come back and say yes."
But since grandma left, there is one less person in the family who can preside over the overall situation.
When Ni Ping felt helpless, she didn't even have anyone to talk to.
Grandma also taught Ni Ping her wisdom, her kindness, tolerance and optimism.
Even Dong Qing said after seeing "Grandma's Quotations": Although he has no culture, he is like a philosopher.
06
"It's really dark when it's dark, and it's too difficult to stop it, so you have to accept your fate. Accepting fate is not to leave it down, but to grit its teeth and stand up until dawn. ”
No matter how difficult it is to see her son, Ni Ping is gritting her teeth and persevering.
And the mother, who was once cold to Ni Ping, took the initiative to go abroad to help take care of the children.
This is where happiness begins.
In the process of treating her son, Ni Ping met Yang Yaya.
Ni Ping was touched by his talent and gentlemanhood.
Yang Yaya was shocked by Ni Ping's persistence.
After the two fell in love and got married, Yang Yaya paid for his sick son to see a doctor.
Never cared about blood relations.
Now that the rain has passed, Ni Ping is enjoying the double love of her husband and son.
The sick son learned to be sensible as early as when he was being treated.
once gave his grandmother 100,000 yuan to earn money from playing games, and honored his grandmother.
Taking a closer look at Ni Ping's path when she came, it is not difficult to find that her life has been spent in difficulty.
The mother was patriarchal, and the father remarried.
5 relationships, 3 marriages.
My son also suffers from a congenital disease.
Her life is wonderful and can be made into a TV series.
Conclusion
"You have to walk on your own feet, who do you think can help you walk on your legs? Neither can your father and your mother. The avenue goes, the trail also has to go, you have to turn the road that can't go, it's not a bad thing to turn a corner, the bend goes a lot, and then it's fast to get on the straight. ”
And grandma's words are a portrayal of Ni Ping's life.
The relationship between her and her grandmother has also moved many people, so why not let her grandma go on a ventilator?
Ni Ping said: When I saw my grandmother on the ventilator so uncomfortable, I even had to drink water drop by drop.
This kind of torture makes grandma unbearable, and Ni Ping can't stand it either.
The host who interviewed Ni Ping couldn't help but shed tears when he heard the story of her and her grandmother.
They are celebrities, but they are also ordinary people.
It can be said that without grandma, there would be no Ni Ping today.
I believe that many people around the world have the same warm stories.
Some references:
Shenyang Evening News|She was the goddess of the Spring Festival Gala for all Chinese! After saying goodbye to glory, he went bankrupt and lived a heart-wrenching life
CCTV variety show reader|Ni Ping and Dong Qing are on the same stage in "Reader", and they can meet unavoidable gifts
CCTV Network|Ni Ping: Touching the words of "Golden Rooster" and doing "Chat" steadily
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