#头条首发大赛#
preface
Sometimes a child's growth does not exactly follow the expectations of the parents.
In a resident's home in Jiangsu, a heart-wrenching parent-child farce was staged.
This mother never thought that her daughter, who had been raised with hard work, would become so rebellious in the fourth and fifth grades, which made her exhausted.
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The mother went to the parent-teacher meeting of her daughter's school with full of expectations and love, but she accidentally forgot to bring her daughter's longing mobile phone, which caused an uproar.
When the daughter learned that her mother didn't have her mobile phone, her anger erupted like a volcano in an instant, and she even fled from school willfully.
When the mother returned home from the parent-teacher conference, she was greeted by her daughter's still burning anger.
The daughter actually removed the window with her bare hands and threw it aside, and the arrogant momentum surprised the mother.
Immediately afterwards, her daughter's actions became more and more excessive, and all kinds of unbearable words blurted out of her mouth, and her mother's heart seemed to fall into an ice cellar in an instant.
She tried to ease the relationship with each other with food,
entered the room, but the daughter didn't appreciate it, threw the thing out, and then cursed endlessly.
Once, for some reason, my daughter lost her temper again, insulted her mother in front of many people, beat herself with an electric car helmet, threw it at her mother, and even pushed the battery car down.
The mother felt extremely desperate, and the beating and scolding had no effect on her daughter, and the daughter had no remorse at all.
After the mother remarried with her daughter, the new family was also good to her daughter and tried to meet her needs.
The daughter seems to be possessed by a rebellious demon and has completely lost her former well-behavedness.
My mother was so angry that she was hospitalized, and she was lying on the hospital bed with a lot of thoughts.
Some people speculate that it is the stepfather's problem, perhaps the father does not respect the mother at home, causing the child to despise the mother as well.
The mother explained that her daughter's biological father had a bad temper and bad character, and perhaps this also had an impact.
In the face of such a tricky situation, everyone has different opinions.
Some people say that if you can manage it, you can manage it, and if you can't manage it, you can let it go;
There are also those who believe that it is better to educate as much as possible.
The mother was already physically and mentally exhausted, and she decided not to interfere excessively on the premise of ensuring her daughter's basic life and learning, and let her daughter experience and grow up by herself.
epilogue
The child's rebellion was like a storm that swept over the tranquility of the family.
The mother's helplessness and heartache, and the daughter's willfulness and indulgence, constitute a thought-provoking picture.
This makes us wonder, what exactly is education?
Is it strict discipline or endless tolerance?
It's about finding a balance between love and rules. On the road of children's growth, parents are like beacons of navigation, and the slightest deviation may cause children to lose their way.
We also need to understand that children are not copies of their parents, they have their own minds and souls.
Maybe this rebellion is just a twist and turn on the road of her daughter's growth.
I hope she can wake up as soon as possible, understand her mother's hard work, and know how to cherish that deep maternal love.
May every family find warm sunshine on the journey of education, and let love and understanding illuminate the way for children to move forward.