"When I married Huang Zhenhua, I wanted to fight for breath."
In the original book, Yishu loves and hates Su Gengsheng.
loves her because the misfortune of her original family has been compensated for in the second half of her life.
hates her because Su Gengsheng has experienced all the unfortunate things that can happen to girls.
If Fang Xiewen's original family is suffocating, then Su Gengsheng's original family is desperate.
When she was a girl, she was violated by her stepfather, and after graduating from college, in order to obtain a Beijing hukou, she hurriedly got married for a while, and she got married in a flash.
These bumpy experiences made Su Gengsheng not believe in love, let alone marriage.
She even felt that she had no chance of a happy marriage in her life, but with a bad deck of cards in her hand, she finally became the most favored daughter-in-law of the Kochi family.
Su Gengsheng, who is riddled with bad things, why can he change his life against the sky?
In fact, it's just two words, give up.
1. Huang Zhenhua's love path
"Zhenhua is an eternal and calm person. Except for the career, everything is his appendage. There is no such thing as love in his heart. And the biggest flaw in my personality is the delusional pursuit of love. ”
In the original novel, Yishu described Huang Zhenhua as indifferent and selfish.
But in the TV series, Huang Zhenhua's feelings are more abundant.
Compared with his sister Huang Yimei, Huang Zhenhua's youth can not be regarded as bright, although the family background is good, but there are no girls to admire, just when Huang Yimei is immersed in the pursuit of various boys, Huang Zhenhua still doesn't know how to start a relationship.
Bai Xiaohe, from a wealthy businessman family, was his first girlfriend, and Huang Zhenhua, who had never been in love, became obsessed with just one photo.
Huang Zhenhua's liking for Bai Xiaohe is just the influence of adrenaline, what he likes is Bai Xiaohe's appearance.
When they met for the first time, Huang Zhenhua was positive and enthusiastic, but Bai Xiaohe was indifferent.
For a girl who has just met, it is actually quite superficial to say that it was love at first sight, and Huang Zhenhua is such a person.
Even though Bai Xiaohe was alienated from him and outside, Huang Zhenhua was still enthusiastic.
Bai Xiaohe and her ex-boyfriend were separated because of a long distance, and seeing Huang Zhenhua was purely forced by family pressure.
When she and Huang Zhenhua confessed all this, Huang Zhenhua also expected that the relationship between herself and Bai Xiaohe would end.
Bai Xiaohe, who was in the emotional window period, only regarded Huang Zhenhua as a transition.
The two became friends again.
This is how Su Gengsheng broke into Huang Zhenhua's life.
From the beginning of the disagreement, to the later sympathy.
Huang Zhenhua often thought that the relationship between himself and Su Gengsheng was a natural fate, but in fact, all this was Su Gengsheng's plan.
Huang Zhenhua's parents are Tsinghua professors, and Huang Zhenhua's siblings are natives of Beijing.
Such a man is actually very sought-after.
A family like Su Gengsheng is unacceptable to ordinary people.
Ordinary parents care too much about decency and reputation, only Kochi families, reasonable, and wide-ranging, and will not care about some small details.
Huang Zhenhua's reasonable parents are Su Gengsheng's best refuge.
Second, Su Gengsheng's plan
Su Gengsheng's biological father died very early.
The mother remarried in order to support her daughter.
Su Gengsheng's stepfather had a boy, but Su Gengsheng felt the slightest warmth and happiness from this reorganized family.
When she was a teenager, she was blocked in the bathtub by her stepfather and violated.
The younger brother saw this, and her biological mother also knew about it, but no one came forward to administer justice for her.
Many years later, after Su Gengsheng broke out of his career, he returned to his hometown and questioned his mother about it, but his mother felt that it was because Su Gengsheng was not conservative enough at home to seduce his stepfather.
A mother, when her daughter was hurt, actually regarded her daughter's clothing as a cause of victimization, which shows that this reorganized family made Su Gengsheng desperate.
She noted her mother's phone number as "prison".
For Su Gengsheng, home is a prison.
When she was able to escape from this prison, she never wanted to go back.
In her first marriage, she was in order to get a Beijing hukou.
After the divorce, Su Gengsheng didn't think that he would step into marriage with the person he really loved.
Until the appearance of Huang Zhenhua.
In the face of feelings, Huang Zhenhua is dull and simple.
Su Gengsheng infiltrated his life little by little, and every time a conflict broke out between the two, Su Gengsheng was always calm and restrained.
She always gave the initiative of this relationship to Huang Zhenhua.
It can be seen that she didn't really have to be Huang Zhenhua, but just tested Huang Zhenhua's feelings for her again and again.
What she wants is not a two-way relationship, but Huang Zhenhua has to be herself.
When Huang Zhenhua was fishing with Bai Xiaohe behind Su Gengsheng's back, after Su Gengsheng found out, he didn't make a noise or ask for an explanation, but waited for Huang Zhenhua's decision.
Huang Zhenhua looked at Su Gengsheng so magnificently, and refused Bai Xiaohe without hesitation.
Su Gengsheng saw that the relationship between himself and Huang Zhenhua was heating up, so he threw out one of his own thunder points and was hurt by his stepfather.
This kind of physical and mental torture made Su Gengsheng more cautious in front of Huang Zhenhua.
At this time, Huang Zhenhua had fallen into the sea of love created by Su Gengsheng, and he couldn't get out at all, and he had Huang Yimei's assist.
This scandal with his stepfather did not separate the relationship between Su Gengsheng and Huang Zhenhua.
Su Gengsheng entered the Huang family closer.
The last thunder she exploded was that she was married, and this fact was confessed before she was ready to get the certificate with Huang Zhenhua.
Huang Zhenhua felt deceived, but Su Gengsheng had integrated into all aspects of his life, and in the end, Huang Zhenhua compromised.
He completely accepted everything Su Gengsheng had.
Write at the end:
I have to say that Su Gengsheng is really smart.
In this marriage with Huang Zhenhua, it seems that she has always given the initiative to Huang Zhenhua, but in fact, she has always held the real initiative tightly in her hands.
She is sometimes fragile and sometimes strong in front of Huang Zhenhua, which often stimulates Huang Zhenhua's desire to protect.
In front of the Huang family's parents, she was even more cautious.
An executive of a large company, who is low-key in his work and personality, is the favorite daughter-in-law of the Kochi family.
The Huang family's parents are relatively open to Huang Zhenhua's love or marriage.
They don't care about the family, let alone the so-called past, if the child is happy, the two of them will be happy.