Whether the daughter-in-law is good or not, as long as you observe whether there are these three characteristics on the body, which "3" characteristics are there?
Many parents hope that their sons can find a good daughter-in-law who is considerate of their parents and sensible and diligent after they get married, after all, as parents, everyone wants their children to live well. Instead of living a life of jumping chickens and dogs and fighting every day, if you often live such a life, it will overwhelm people. But in real life, good daughters-in-law are not common, and there will be discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in many families, and this situation is getting worse, why does this happen?
In fact, the reason is very simple, it is because the mother-in-law did not see her daughter-in-law's conduct clearly. If you want to judge whether your daughter-in-law is good or not, you only need to observe whether she has these three characteristics, if you have, then congratulations on finding a good daughter-in-law, as long as you treat her sincerely in the future, she will definitely treat you as her biological parents.
See what she calls you.
If you want to see if your daughter-in-law is filial to herself, the easiest way is to understand through her name for you, if you are a daughter-in-law who is truly filial to her mother-in-law, she will take the initiative to call her mother-in-law "Mom" when she meets her mother-in-law. Instead of using "she" or other titles to replace, some unfilial daughters-in-law will even call their mother-in-law "old or something", "old thing", etc., just from these vicious titles, you can judge how much hatred the daughter-in-law has for her mother-in-law.
See how she teaches her children.
If we want to see whether a daughter-in-law is filial or not, we can also understand it from the way she teaches her children. Because filial piety itself can be continued by relying on the transmission from generation to generation, the daughter-in-law's attitude is also directly reflected in the way she educates her children. Many good daughters-in-law will often tell them when educating their children: be filial to your grandparents and grandmothers in life, because they are elders, so you must remember to listen to what they say.
When you meet your grandparents, you have to take the initiative to say hello to them, and you can't let your grandparents talk to you first, which in itself is a kind of respect for your elders. If a daughter-in-law never guides her children correctly and does not teach her children to respect their elders, then such a daughter-in-law will ruin the fire of filial piety in the entire family. Therefore, the act of filial piety has never been able to understand by oneself, but has been infected by education and environment since childhood.
See if she's considerate.
If the daughter-in-law is more filial, then she will observe the attitude and life of her mother-in-law all the time. If you find that your mother-in-law has problems in your life, you will also think about taking the initiative to help them solve them, for example: when you see your mother-in-law lifting heavy objects, you will take the initiative to help her carry them together, and when you see that the medicine that your mother-in-law often takes has bottomed out, you will take the initiative to buy it back for her. For example, when the weather is hot, I will think about buying a dress or some fruit for my mother-in-law.
Such situations are considered acts of filial piety, and no matter how big or small the matter is, she will take the first step to think it through for her mother-in-law. If there is such a daughter-in-law in the family, let's have fun! If the daughter-in-law of the family doesn't think about anything, and she is also a cold observer and deaf to her mother-in-law's daily life, even if her mother-in-law takes the initiative to ask her, she should not know what to do, then such a daughter-in-law can't be counted on in the future.