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Yao Gang has been obsessed with music since he was a child, dreaming of one day being able to stand on the stage and infect everyone with music. Although he came from a wealthy family, he did not develop an arrogant personality because of this, but was diligent and studious, and tireless in music.
He has always dreamed of showing his talent on the path of music as a way to realize his self-worth.
As if playing tricks on people, Yao Gang's love of music contrasts sharply with his lack of knowledge of music. Despite his hard work and visits to famous teachers, music is still an unattainable dream for him.
Watching Yao Gang tirelessly pursue his musical dreams, the teachers felt deeply worried. After all, what a beautiful and satisfying thing it is. However, Yao Gang was stubborn, and the advice of his teachers seemed to be just a deaf ear to him.
One day, however, a senior teacher said to him solemnly: "Although you are lacking in musical talent, I have found that you have amazing bones, good looks, and full potential to be a good actor." "
These words woke Yao Gang from his obsession like spring thunder that broke the ice, and he began to realize that since he didn't have music, he should find another way out. As long as he has the opportunity to stand on the stage, no matter what kind of profession he is engaged in, he can realize his inner dream.
And, with his own outstanding physiognomy, success may be easier to achieve.
From that moment on, Yao Gang let go of his dedication to his musical dreams and devoted himself to the path of performing arts. He seems to have been reborn, full of fighting spirit and enthusiasm for a new path in life.
Yao Gang was not afraid of challenges, and without hesitation, he devoted himself to a well-known college in Dalian and devoted himself to the exploration of performing arts. He used practical actions to interpret a firm belief: since he has chosen a new path in life, he must go all out.
When the other students were in groups and laughing, Yao Gang was always alone in the dormitory, pondering the teacher's classroom teaching. After class, he practiced his lines and movements tirelessly, and the classroom was silent, only his whispers echoed.
Some girls plucked up the courage to express their hearts to Yao Gang, hoping to get a good marriage. Sadly, however, they only get a polite but ruthless rejection every time.
It's not that Yao Gang doesn't know how to appreciate the kindness of others, but his heart has already devoted all his energy to the pursuit of his acting career, and he has no time to take care of love.
Graduation is imminent, and Yao Gang has become a well-known campus star. However, he was too handsome to get a chance to make his debut after graduation. The crew thought he would distract the audience.
These difficulties undoubtedly gave Yao Gang a shot in the arm and strengthened his determination to study in a down-to-earth manner.
After graduating, Yao first felt confused, his dream was to become an excellent actor, but his overly handsome appearance often led the crew to reject him.
His dreams were almost shattered by setbacks one after another.
However, Yao Gang is a person who is reluctant to give up, and he insists on working hard for his dream every day. In daily life, he always pays attention to the dynamics of the film and television industry, humbly seeks advice from his predecessors in the industry, and absorbs the professionalism that actors should have.
After a long and difficult waiting period, Yao Gang's persistence finally paid off. Some small production companies gradually developed a good impression of this young actor with outstanding temperament and gave him some opportunities to perform in secondary roles.
Although Yao Gang is only a small role, he is not perfunctory, but devotes himself to the shaping of each role, and strives to make his lines and actions perfect.
In this way, he became more and more famous because of his excellent works, and finally had the opportunity to show his face in the big production.
In an opportunity to cooperate, Yao Gang met a woman who would change the trajectory of his life - Wen Zhengrong. The atmosphere of the first meeting between the two was very tense, and Yao Gang thought that Wen Zhengrong was arrogant and irritable; Wen Zhengrong felt that Yao Gang's machismo style was difficult to get along with.
However, the initial suspicions between the two were quickly resolved by their professionalism. Wen Zhengrong found that Yao Gang was very serious and attentive to his work, and showed humility and culture.
Yao Gang also saw the kindness and frankness in Wen Zhengrong's heart.
This kind of communication and understanding allows them to gradually eliminate their prejudice against each other, but they are deeply attracted by the quality of the other party's dedication to their careers.
The cooperation between them has deepened, giving them more opportunities to be together. The seeds of love take root and sprout imperceptibly. When they finally realized their feelings for each other, they couldn't help themselves, so they came together.
After Yao Gang and Wen Zhengrong were together, life finally had sunshine. Even though they have very busy schedules and busy schedules, as long as they can work side by side with each other, all the fatigue seems to disappear.
That time was the happiest and most fulfilling period of Yao Gang's life. When I wake up every morning, I can see Wen Zhengrong's peaceful sleeping face. Outside of work, the two of them will stroll the streets arm in arm, or find a small café to drink coffee and play chess.
Occasionally, I would go to the cinema to watch a movie or play a game at home.
Because of each other's company, ordinary life has become more warm.
However, the little sweetness soon faded. Due to the difference in values and career pursuits between the two, as well as the trouble of work pressure, it is difficult for them to even squeeze out the time to quarrel.
The once sweetness is soon worn out by endless quarrels, and the distance between them grows farther and farther apart.
Once, Wen Zhengrong threw down the sentence "You are really a workaholic!" and left the house angrily. Yao Gang stared at her back, and suddenly realized that the gap between them was difficult to cross.
In fact, Wen Zhengrong used work as an excuse to escape from reality, and the contradictions between the two had actually begun to accumulate a long time ago.
After a long time, Wen Zhengrong returned home with slightly red and swollen eyes. Yao Gang had been waiting quietly in the living room for a long time, he didn't ask Wen Zhengrong why he was crying, he just silently hugged her into his arms.
The two hugged for a long, long time in silence.
In the end, after both sides made great concessions, Yao Gang and Wen Zhengrong broke up peacefully. At the moment of breaking up, Yao Gang's heart was very complicated. He had loved Wen Zhengrong deeply, but he also had a strong hatred for her.
But it's more of an indescribable melancholy and relief.
He recognized that he and she had come to this point not only because of their incompatible personalities and differences in values, but more importantly, because of their fundamental differences in the definition of marriage.
Yao Gang regards his career as the whole of his life, while Wen Zhengrong hopes that marriage and family can become the ultimate destination for the two of them.
Yao Gang and Wen Zhengrong's breakup gave him huge psychological trauma. He often reflects on whether he made this decision too hastily or whether he should put in a little more effort and try for the relationship.
In the end, his sanity eventually prevailed over his emotions, and he understood that continuing to dwell on it would only add to his annoyance.
Therefore, Yao Gang devoted himself to his career and continued to accept all kinds of film and television jobs. He was so busy with his days and nights that he had little time for his personal life.
In the entertainment industry, he has become a famous figure with one wonderful work after another, and finally reached the peak of his career that he once dreamed of.
Seeing that he was too focused on work, his family and friends were worried about his emotional life, and they introduced him to new partners, hoping that he would open up and find his true destiny.
Everyone was puzzled by the reason why Yao Gang was obsessed with celibacy. In fact, Yao Gang himself couldn't tell the reason, but subconsciously, a voice was calling him, telling him not to easily enter a new relationship for the time being.
In this way, Yao Gang put all his energy into his work. Year after year, day after day, work became the whole of his life. Until one day, my father's condition began to worsen because of his advanced age.
In order to take care of his father, Yao Gang had to temporarily put down his career and devote himself to taking care of the family.
In the blink of an eye, Yao Gang is over half a hundred years old, but he is still alone, not to mention having his own bloodline. Seeing that his son was alone, Yao's father was worried but helpless.
As a son, Yao Gang also felt his father's anxiety, but he was never able to explain his thoughts to his family.
Faced with his father's worries, Yao Gang finally opened his mouth to explain the reason why he had been celibate. He said sincerely: "Father, I did not mean to live up to your expectations, but so far, I have not been able to meet the person who has caught my heart. ”
If you rush into the marriage hall too early, it will only bring endless pain and misfortune to the parties involved.
Yao Gang saw that there are many people in society who are in a hurry to get married at the urging of their families, but in the end they have to choose to compromise and marry or marry someone they don't really love. Such marriages often end in disintegration, and the ending is no better than living alone.
"Don't worry, it's fun to live alone." Yao Gang continued, "Since breaking up with Wen Zhengrong, I have deeply realized that marriage is no longer a necessary part of my life.
Looking back on the days with Wen Zhengrong, Yao Gang still feels heartache. He deeply felt that if he and her had been more considerate and tolerant at the beginning, his life would be different now.
However, changes in the real world are often difficult to predict, and no one can truly foresee what will happen in the future.
Because of the baptism of this relationship, Yao Gang gradually realized that everyone's definition of marriage is different, and their pursuits are also different. Some people think that this is the highest pursuit of life, but for him, he can live alone and be just as free and happy.
"Father, do you remember when I gave up the family business for my musical dreams, and you objected? Now that I think about it, the reason why I was able to stick to my dream was because I firmly believed that even a person can live a wonderful life.
While marriage is important, it's not all there is to life.
Yao Gang looked at his father deeply and said earnestly: "To be a man, you should break free from the shackles of traditional concepts and bravely pursue your inner calling. Only by being independent and free can we truly live our own lives.
Since you are living well and happily now, why do you have to force yourself into marriage? I think it's very happy to be alone.
When Yao's father heard his son's words, he was finally convinced. He looked around the room at the honor and finally smiled with relief. Although he does not have children and grandchildren, his son has made great achievements in his career and realized his dreams, which is also a good life.
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