In the mid-to-late 1990s, the cross-talk industry was gradually entering a trough, and many people began to seek new ways out. Yu Qian, who graduated from film school, also faced a difficult choice.
Yu Qian liked cross-talk since he was a child, and he was quite talented and always wanted to support himself by talking about cross-talk, but the general environment at that time was sluggish, the status of cross-talk actors almost fell to the bottom, the market share was pitiful, and there were almost no performances in the troupe, even if there were few audiences in the countryside.
Disheartened, Yu Qian can only rely on walking around the cave and earn a little chewing grain by making cameos in some small roles in the crew.
Nowadays, one or two shots of Yu Qian found in various TV dramas seem to have become a topic of people's talk, but in that era, those blurry image pictures all tell Yu Qian's unwillingness and helplessness.
In film and television dramas, Yu Qian cannot get real roles, and sometimes he will try his luck on the drama stage.
In the damp and cold basement, the director directed everyone to walk on the stage, Yu Qian had the honor to be one of them, and there were all kinds of people in the background, including girls with heavy makeup and colorful dresses. They got together talking and laughing, talking about gossip in the circle, looking forward to future plans, and it seemed that everyone was confident in their lives.
For Qian, this seems not difficult to understand, girls, young and beautiful is capital, they are born optimistic, there is no reason not to be optimistic, after all, for these girls, young and beautiful is the biggest capital, not to mention that they may also have a solid family background, at home to be pampered, the future to marry out is also someone else's baby, where is the survival pressure.
And this year's Yu Qian, 29 years old, immediately stepped into the year of establishment, he achieved nothing, although there are some conditions in the family, but the seven-foot boy, can he reach out to the family for money? Say you can't live a long time? Absurd, where do the faces of the big masters rest?
Yu Qian, who had always been talkative, suddenly became deeper, and he sat in a corner of the backstage and swallowed the clouds and sighed.
A young girl sat down next to him, and Yu Qian quickly pulled the cigarette out of her mouth and crushed it in the ashtray. The smoke faded, and he saw the silhouette of the girl, a face of green and childishness.
Today's Yu Qian can't remember what kind of topic they talked about together at that time, in short, Yu Qian was very happy that day, and when life was not satisfactory, it was always good to have a little girl chatting with herself.
Before the theater closed, Yu Qian left his pager number and the landline number at home to this 19-year-old girl, who was later Yu Qian's wife, Bai Huiming.
Probably Yu Qian did not have too many extravagant expectations for her, she was nearly 10 years older, not her uncles were also big brothers, people in their 30s, and a group of students running dragon sets together, playing those insignificant small roles, not up and down, who can look at us.
But that year, 19-year-old Bai Huiming was simple and cute, and he really regarded this thick and steady man as a big brother.
Bai Huiming did not have many friends, and when she decided to go to the suburbs to climb the mountain the next day, it seemed that there was no idle person around. At this time, he called Yu Qian's home, no one answered, called Yu Qian's BP machine, and did not wait for a response.
Bai Huiming was angry, and said that this was a liar, left two contact information and no one could find anyone, how can people in society be like this, there is no good thing.
Until 6 o'clock in the evening, the box lunch was delivered to the backstage, Yu Qian came down from the stage, turned out the BP machine from the backstage clothes, he did not even have time to eat, directly ran out to quickly call Bai Huiming back.
In order to apologize, he made an appointment with Bai Huiming to have dinner together in the evening, and before going there, he also engaged in a little romance and bought two bouquets of flowers at the subway entrance. The 19-year-old little girl, good coaxing, plus Yu Qian, this person, he has the skill of speaking crosstalk, the mouth is good, and after a while, Bai Huiming will be amused, and the two will eat a KFC and go home.
Since then, Bai Huiming and Yu Qian have become a pair of brothers and sisters, often contacting each other.
Yu Qian feels that there is a drama, if I don't hit the iron while it is hot, I can only be her big brother in this life, what do I want, I have to let her be my daughter-in-law, I have to marry her home, do you really think I have to work so hard to recognize a sister.
Soon, Yu Qian made his attitude clear, and he said to Bai Huiming: "Even if I recognize my brother, I must make it clear to you, I want to further develop my relationship with you."
At this time, Bai Huiming understood no matter how stupid she was, she did not hesitate too much, and soon established a relationship with Yu Qian.
At that time, the family also saw Bai Huiming's strange appearance, and in the words of his brother, "Your eyes have been shining for a while."
In Bai Huiming's eyes, Yu Qian was a very interesting person, and it was really boring to be with him, and during that period, although Yu Qian's life was difficult and he could not see any hope, with Bai Huiming, he felt that his world was immediately full of sunshine.
Although the family has always been jealous of the huge age difference between the two, this has not prevented them from entering the marriage hall.
The days after the marriage of the two are sweet, but the material aspect is still tight, at that time Bai Huiming wants a child, what can Yu Qian say? Say we don't have any money, can't feed? With this bit of a shabby salary given by the regiment for a month, how could he explain it to his family?
As the pressure grew, Yu Qian and Bai Huiming had less and less time to meet, and he went out every day to find things to do, sketches, dramas, emcees, hosts, movies, television, radio, advertising, as long as he gave money, he could do it. It was not easy to rest for a day, he also had to run out to invite people to drink, eat and pull relationships everywhere, run away, and even if he earned the daily expenses of the family.
Bai Huiming is the eighth child who followed Yu Qian for several years and had a hard time without eating, and when Yu Qian helped Guo Degang revitalize the Deyun Society, the 36-year-old Yu Qian could finally put the matter of having children on the agenda. However, after conceiving the child, Yu Qian and Bai Huiming were told by doctors that the fetus was infected with rubella virus, and this condition has a certain probability of affecting the early intelligence of the fetus. Hearing these words, Bai Huiming cried on the spot.
Around whether this fetus can be kept, Yu Qian and Bai Huiming discussed, and finally they decided to give birth to this child regardless of the outcome. This is the crystallization of their love, this is a small life they have bred together, no matter how big the difficulties we have to overcome together.
In the face of such a great pressure, Bai Huiming hopes that Yu Qian can encourage herself by her side, and she is afraid that she will not be able to bear it. Originally, the child's due date was May 3, but because there was a performance on that day, the drama was bigger than the sky, and Yu Qian was unwilling to do this kind of provocative thing, so Bai Huiming, who was sensible, decided to have a caesarean section on April 29, staggering the time of his performance.
However, in the end, Yu Qian was unable to wait by his wife's side at the moment when she entered the delivery room.
On that day, he ran to Shanghai because of work, because Bai Huiming's caesarean section was carried out in the afternoon, so Yu Qian flew back to Beijing at noon after finishing his morning, hoping to catch his wife's surgery smoothly.
Originally planned well, but the traffic in Beijing played a role in hindering the harmony of Yu Qian's family, it was difficult to rush to the hospital, Yu Qian was still a step late, Yu Qian's third aunt told him that Xiao Bai had just been pushed into the delivery room, if he could arrive a few minutes early, he could see his wife in advance.
However, Bai Huiming, who faced all this alone, is worthy of being a heroine among women, he has withstood all the pressure, and he has long been ready to bear all the consequences.
At this time, Yu Qian's mood believes that everyone who has been a father and husband will understand that you can only be in a hurry, but you can't do anything for your wife who is suffering. He wished he could bear the pain and pressure instead of his wife, but it was Bai Huiming who was lying in front of the operating table, not himself.
The strong Bai Huiming faced all this alone, and she didn't even know if her husband Yu Qian was waiting outside the operating room, but she still did her duty well and gave birth to this cute big fat boy.
After returning to life, Bai Huiming stopped being an actress, and her stage moved from the spotlight to her cozy boudoir. The child is not much of a problem, that is, he will not be born to breastfeed, and every feeding is a difficult task for Bai Huiming. Because it was too hard to sit in confinement and did not rest well, Xiao Bai damaged his waist.
And this year Yu Qian and Deyun Society is at the peak, their performances one after another, as his fame becomes louder, he has more and more friends in all walks of life, coupled with Yu Qian's fun since childhood, the number of times he returned home began to be less and less.
Sometimes he came home at one or two o'clock in the night with a drink, and when he saw that his wife and children were asleep, he couldn't bear to disturb him but just looked at it from a distance, so he went back to his room and slept.
For such behavior, Guo Degang Yuqian's child once complained when he was 6 months old: "He is very sorry for his family, the children are half a year old, I estimate that he has not been at home for half a month, the sister-in-law is really a very good person, she is a patient performance artist, only the sister-in-law can tolerate him, accommodate him, change others have already fought with him eight times a day, hate can not see the eyeballs have to be cut out"
Over the years, Yu Qian has slowed down his work, those dispensable socialization he can push on, more often he leaves time for his family, sometimes he can not get away with the program invitation he will communicate with the program team, with his wife Bai Huiming to participate together.
Today, Yu Qian knows better how to be a good husband and a good father, and Bai Huiming's only requirement for him is: Be sure to take care of my body, because I am 10 years younger than you, I am afraid that you will walk in front of me, and what should I do without you.
Yu Qian has a good fortune, he married such an almost perfect wife, when Yu Qian's career encountered a bottleneck, she did not abandon him, has been silently supporting him behind his back, encouraging him, comforting him, and after Yu Qian became famous, she was willing to be a green leaf, sacrificed her career and ideals for the family, and taught her husband and children at home without complaint. This is the small story of Yu Qian and Bai Huiming, who are both ordinary and great.