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The most enviable and admirable thing in "The Story of Rose" turned out to be this nearly sixty-year-old couple.
One dignified and elegant, the other suave and elegant, both erudite and courteous university professors, these two people are a match made in heaven.
The heroine cooks a good dish, and her children will naturally go home obediently when they are hungry for her food.
Wu Yufang, the actor of her mother, appeared on the cover of the world's most widely printed publication at the age of 21.
With the role of "Liu Qiaozhen" in "Life", she won the Best Actress of the Popular Hundred Flowers Award in one fell swoop.
Her mother image in the play is particularly real, an ordinary mother, for the sake of her children, broke her heart.
Although the children are successful in their studies, their marriages are not satisfactory. The son fell in love in his 30s, and the object was a strong woman with a very bad family background and was raped by her stepfather.
Su Su is a person from a small county town. As a professor at Tsinghua University in Beijing, she definitely doesn't look down on her, she prefers Bai Xiaohe, but she respects her son's choice.
Daughter Huang Yimei is very beautiful, and there are constant suitors, and she doesn't look down on her at all. At the beginning of the internship, she met the suave Zhuang Guodong, and soon devoted herself to it, and lost her body not long after she met, and then Zhuang Guodong was going to work in France, and the two broke up.
But this damn person can also think openly, and he doesn't intervene, and says that she will know if she suffers.
Such parents are really enlightened parents, perhaps only intellectuals can do it. Parents in ordinary families are in charge of everything, and they give their children the greatest freedom, and they can be with whoever they like.
After the breakup, her daughter went to Shanghai to study for graduate school in psychology, and her mother was also supportive and packed her bags for her.
But not long after, I met Fang Xiewen, a graduate student of Fudan University, who listened to her, thought about her everywhere, and cared about her carefully.
However, his father died very early, and it was not easy for his mother to support him, so he worked on his own since college and had to get a full scholarship.
His home is a small place in the northeast near South Korea, and his mother's main language is Korean. The two also went to their hometown to hold a wedding.
It stands to reason that they are also very incompatible, but her parents didn't say anything, just prepared some dowry and some daily things for their daughter, and didn't blame her, and they didn't look down on anyone.
Which one is more suitable for Huang Yimei?
If you want a good family background and look handsome, of course it is Zhuang Guodong. Zhuang Guodong is the marketing director of a large French company, he looks like a talent, and he also loves Huang Yimei deeply, his father is also from Beijing, and his mother opened a company in France and has certain assets.
However, it is a pity that Zhuang Guodong's parents did not get along, quarreled since childhood, and later divorced, and in his childhood, he did not get much fatherly and maternal love.
This is incomparable with Huang Yimei, who has been pampered since childhood. She has had her brother since she was a child, her parents love her, and she lives a carefree life, like a princess.
Zhuang Guodong's mother keeps changing boyfriends, and he keeps changing girlfriends, debauchery, only Huang Yimei can make him settle down.
Fang Xiewen is young and promising, a top student at Fudan University, who studied computer science, a popular major, but his family is poor, so he knows how to be self-reliant.
The children of the poor are in charge early, he understands the sophistication of human feelings, knows how to know people's hearts, he is like this, he tried his best to marry Huang Yimei step by step, he was cautious, he had low self-esteem, he felt that he was not worthy of Huang Yimei, so everything was based on her.
Although his family is poor and he does not have much financial foundation, he is sponsored by Huang Yimei to start his own company. But he is more realistic, self-motivated, delicate, low-key and introverted, and will always be good to Huang Yimei.
Although sometimes she may be more controlling, she lacks the passion of life, lacks the romance of life, and looks a little nesty on the outside, which makes her family always feel a little disdainful.
In fact, Fang Xiewen's pursuit of Huang Yimei can be said to be a well-planned scam.
Working in a café, adopting stray cats, and renting a house, every step is carefully designed, so that Huang Yimei falls into the trap step by step, and no matter what, he can't escape his control.
It's too ironic, Rose, who studies psychology, can't see through Fang Xiewen's calculations against her? If parents check it early, will the results be better?
So which one to choose also depends on what is needed.
If you were a mother-in-law, which would you let your daughter choose?