"The man who is a confidant dies, and the woman is the one who pleases himself." This sentence actually says that there are two kinds of factors at the level of interpersonal interactions, one is the first sense of appearance, the so-called first impression, often from the appearance of the cut, beautiful and handsome people are more favored in interpersonal relationships; The other is the inner thing of the spirit, the so-called long-term seeing people's hearts, often need time to test, before they can understand each other's true hearts.
The face is easy to age, and the human heart is unpredictable, but the former is a visible "attribute" at a glance compared to the latter, so the term "appearance association" is derived. The author feels that he should not belong to the category of judging people by their appearance, but I have to admit that I was fascinated by my wife's appearance at the beginning, so the impression that looks give others is still very important.
Travel self-media people are also divided into high and low appearances, for example, the handsome guy Tao Sanfeng is sought after by many people of the opposite sex, and most of them belong to ordinary people with mediocre appearance like us. Like Liu Weiyuan's white hair, he often dyes his hair when he has time, and he also has the embarrassment of being recognized as an "uncle" by children in his thirties; Xu Yun's eyes are also flawed, which is even more obvious during the live broadcast, and he even does not hesitate to correct it with surgery; And some have become stalks, that is, the "hat" of "Dream Chaser Zhang Dafei", because Zhang Dafei almost always wears a cap in his videos, many netizens feel strange, and many people speculate whether there is a special reason?
Now Zhang Dafei from Shandong is from Zhejiang, and Brother Ku and Chenyang Brothers from Zhejiang rent a car travel media Xinjiang, the author mistakenly thought it was just an ordinary team, but I, who are also from Zhejiang, obviously underestimated the thinking of the fellow countrymen. Under the matchmaking of cool brother Chenguang, Zhang Dafei, who feels honest, started the live broadcast of his self-media career, and the product is the honey of the local bees, and what is even more surprising is that I saw Zhang Dafei take off his hat for the first time in front of the screen.
It's not too surprising, Zhang Dafei is indeed a bald head, judging from the remnants of his hair, the top of his head should be bald, and the lack of hair at this age may be hereditary or the cause, but there is no need to delve into these. And in the work, Chenguang also made Da Fei shave his head, and his younger brother Chenyang saw that he was "dead and alive" and did not want to be "the same" with them. According to Chenguang's lively and cheerful personality, the author guesses that it is very likely that he "mobilized" Zhang Dafei to take off his hat, otherwise it is difficult to explain why he accepted Zhang Dafei to shave his head, after all, he was originally a handsome blogger, and his behavior was more like sharing the attention and embarrassment after taking off his hat for Zhang Dafei.
Judging from the "three brothers" busy packing and courier, maybe this attempt is a small test, the "sunshine" brothers have economic acumen, and Zhang Dafei has traffic heat, everyone is a strong combination, and the future should not be underestimated. However, after Zhang Dafei revealed his full picture, the whole person was also a lot more cheerful, buying and cutting cakes on the streets of Xinjiang, teasing and ridiculing camel hairstyles on the highway, and playing together with two "bald heads" on the grassland. It's a lot better than his slightly dull, veneer style in the past!
It can be said that this "cooperation" has allowed Zhang Dafei to break through himself, whether it is in the travel media career or personal psychology, he has taken a very positive step! There is no perfect person in the world, so the more you want to cover the "place", it is precisely the weakest position in your heart. Just like Zhang Dafei's hat, no matter how tightly he wears it, he can't stop the curious eyes of others, but instead he takes it off, and not many people feel surprised and surprised (riding Dashen Lake is not also a bright brain), and at the same time, for Zhang Dafei, the weight of the hat in the past may be much heavier than now, and now he should be able to easily take it off at any time, but there is a lot less anxiety, as for the stalk of "Zhang Dafei's hat", will it still be necessary to exist in the minds of netizens?