没法要求别人不离开你，就只能成为别人离不开的。
The real departure was silent and quiet, Huang Yimei quietly left Paris in the early morning, and she didn't even say hello.
Zhuang Guodong has a very long-term plan for his life, and decided to work in Paris for five years, and then apply for permanent residence, and Huang Yimei is not in any plan.
Huang Yimei decided to break up, very decisively, although she was still sad, but she didn't miss it again this time.
After the breakup, Huang Yimei wanted to use work to numb herself, in a public welfare project for autistic children, Huang Yimei found the value of her life again, she decided to quit her job and go to graduate school, specializing in child psychology.
Not only that, Huang Yimei also left Beijing and went to Shanghai, which will be the beginning of another relationship for her.
Here she met Fang Xiewen, a man who was willing to give up his future for her.
Fang Xiewen is Huang Yimei's senior and a graduate student, facing graduation, he received a good job in Shenzhen, but Fang Xiewen refused the job for Huang Yimei and decided to stay in Shanghai.
There is no harm if there is no comparison, compared to Zhuang Guodong's selfishness, Fang Xiewen belongs to the giving type, and he is willing to give up his future for the sake of love, which makes Huang Yimei feel a different love.
不要在饿着肚子的时候去超市，会买错东西，把不需要的东西放进购物车，不要在孤独的时候谈恋爱，会爱错人。
Huang Yimei decided to fall in love with Fang Xiewen, this time the love was not as vigorous as Zhuang Guodong, and Fang Xiewen gave Huang Yimei a sense of security.
So Huang Yimei decided to marry Fang Xiewen, she thought that such a plain and down-to-earth life was what she was pursuing.
But she was wrong, after marriage, it was boring, and the life that could be seen at a glance was the real abyss for Huang Yimei.
After Fang Xiewen got married, he stayed in a bank in Shanghai to work, which has nothing to do with his major, but his job is stable, 9 to 5, and he can take care of his family well.
After graduating, Huang Yimei focused on her career, and she was very busy every day, at this time, Huang Yimei, just like Zhuang Guodong back then, was getting farther and farther away from Fang Xiewen.
Fang Xiewen became the Huang Yimei of the year, and she became more and more insecure about marriage, the trivial things in life made the two quarrel endlessly, and after the child was born, it was even more firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, life was boring, and there was no longer the original romance.
A woman who desperately pursues freedom, she can't live such a life, so after ten years of marriage, Huang Yimei decided to divorce.
Huang Yimei may have loved Fang Xiewen, but this kind of love is not enough for her to stay, people will always encounter such and such problems in their lives, after problems, we should make brave choices, instead of consuming ourselves every day.
Huang Yimei's whole life has been living for herself, many people say that she is irresponsible to others, but I want to say that people are born with only themselves, everyone is the same, and we should all be responsible for our own lives.
From the time Fang Xiewen met Huang Yimei and fell in love with her, he chose the other half of his life, and giving up his career for love was also the life he chose, not because of Huang Yimei.
Zhuang Guodong chose to give up love for the sake of his career, that is also the life he chose, and it has nothing to do with Huang Yimei, many years later, they may regret their original choice, but that is also regret for themselves, and it has nothing to do with anyone.
We should not carry anyone's life, including our own children, because they also have their own path to follow, and all people should be born free and undefined.
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