Dictation: Yao Yuqun
On the day of the wedding, my wedding car stopped half a mile outside the village and did not go forward, and the bride-to-be made an unexpected condition, to keep her or my sister?
I couldn't make a choice, I just refused angrily, and then everything changed.
I remember that it was a hot day, the loess road in the south of the village was full of dust, and the breeze blew, and the white shirt of the kiss turned yellow.
In order to celebrate my wedding, the eldest and second uncles almost covered the whole village with red cloth, the green trees in front of the house were tied with red flowers, the small willow trees on the village road also wore red armbands, and even the cats and dogs were dressed up happily that day.
It was decorated with joy
Guangxi Candy and the second uncle have sent most of the village.
Everyone knows I'm getting married.
It's not easy!
I'm a bad ingredient, the landlord's little cub, I can get married before the age of thirty, and the other party is still working in the town's meat factory, a regular worker, good looks, and the two brothers spoil this only baby sister.
No matter how you look at it, my marriage is a success.
Dad and three brothers, the eldest uncle and the second uncle have never been married, the composition is not good, even the brothers are talented, but no one dares to marry!
My mother is a foreigner, and it took a lot of effort for my father to cheat her, otherwise my grandfather's family would have cut off the incense, and the three sons would not be able to fight singles together!
So after having me, the two uncles were ecstatic!
I am not only my father's son, I carry the hope of several generations of the old Yao family, but also the heir of my uncle and his brothers.
When I graduated from junior high school at the age of 16, my uncles helped me build the only small blue brick building in the village, and spent a lot of money to ask a matchmaker to introduce me to a favorite person.
Old courtyard of green bricks
Rural people are more particular.
As long as the man and woman are engaged, they are considered a family, and the difference is a formality, just wait for the older to pass the ceremony, and then marry and enter the door.
In order to be insured, the eldest uncle and the second uncle helped me get engaged early, and the festival gift was given to the woman for six or seven years.
Twice a year, the winter and summer gifts are unbearable for the average family in the countryside.
But our family did not make mistakes, and did our best to send as much as the whole family could, and held the daughter-in-law who had not passed the door in the palm of her hand.
Since she got engaged, she doesn't have to worry about new clothes all year round.
Every time the seasons change, our family personally takes her to the street to pick fabrics, tailor them, and do what is popular.
In the past few years, she has become an old friend with the tailor shop in the town, and everyone praises her for her good life, this old Yao family can really be open-minded in order to marry a daughter-in-law!
There's no way, the eldest uncle and the second uncle are afraid of being single, and I'm afraid that they will repeat the same mistakes when they come to me!
The family has carefully cared for this marriage for several years, and finally reached the marriageable age, and it was time for the wedding, but I never expected that the new daughter-in-law would be a moth on the day of the wedding banquet, and put forward a very excessive condition.
She wanted my eldest sister to leave, saying that if there was her in the family, there would be no eldest sister, and if there was an eldest sister, there would be no her.
The eldest sister is the daughter adopted by the second uncle, so what does it have to do with her being a younger sibling?
When I heard this condition, I couldn't even laugh.
My uncle was frail and sickly, and he was unmarried and childless all his life.
But the second uncle is different, the second uncle is not only handsome, but also educated, and has a charter in case of trouble.
So when he reached middle age, my father planned to help him adopt a child, and when he was old, he would finally have more relatives around him.
The girl adopted by the second uncle is from a neighboring village, only one year older than me, and my name is eldest sister.
The eldest sister had a bad life, she was given away by her biological parents just after she was born, and she finally grew up to the age of marriage, and the second uncle married her off in a beautiful way.
But less than a year after getting married, my eldest sister had a skin disease, the whole body was itchy and ulcerated, and the more I scratched, the more serious it was, my father had taken her to see many doctors, but there was no good treatment.
After a long time, the man's side became disgusted and found an excuse to send the eldest sister back to her parents' house.
By the time I got married, she had been living at home for more than three months.
Mother is kind-hearted, distressed that the eldest sister is a motherless child, she takes care of the eldest sister three times a day, washes and washes, and sleeps in the same room at night, for fear that the eldest sister's body is a little lost.
Although she is not her own child, my eldest sister has been in our family since she was born, and like me, she was also raised by my mother with a handful of and urine!
On the surface, she called the third aunt, but in fact she was the same as my mother's daughter.
What parent doesn't feel sorry for their child?
So on the day of my wedding, when the new daughter-in-law proposed to let the eldest sister move out, my mother hid behind the door and quietly cried.
Except for our family, the eldest sister no longer has any relatives, where do you want her to go to live when she is seriously ill?
I had no choice but to beg my daughter-in-law and explain.
I beg her to tie the knot first, and then discuss the matter of the eldest sister, if it really feels unlucky, we can build a small house for her, to ensure that it will not affect our married life, and will not let my sister appear in front of the new daughter-in-law.
But she would be so stubborn and ruthless, she didn't want to wait for a quarter of an hour, and immediately, she immediately asked us to move the eldest sister out, otherwise Xiche would definitely not enter the village.
The eldest uncle and the second uncle sighed deeply, for the sake of the old Yao family's affairs, they could only swallow their anger and prepare to find someone to move the seriously ill eldest sister out first.
Standing at the door, I was dressed in a wedding dress with a big red flower on my chest.
My sister waved at me from afar on the hospital bed, smiling, and shouting at me with a red handkerchief in her hand: "Little brother, stay away, don't come to me!" Today is your day of great joy, and you can't go to the patient. ”
Tears welled up in my eyes.
It doesn't matter if you don't get married!
When I was a child, my sister cooked for me and played with me.
She went to take the high school entrance examination, and her family gave her ten yuan of pocket money, but she was only willing to spend one piece, and the remaining nine yuan bought bean flour for her uncle and second uncle, bought clothes for her parents, and bought me a pair of sandals.
Sandals that my sister bought
All the money my sister earned was handed over to the family.
She provided for me to study, funded me to build a new house, and even the wedding dress I wore was bought for me by my sister with the money she earned from her part-time job!
I told my uncle and second uncle that the marriage would not be concluded, and my sister had to stay at home.
If she really wants to get married, she won't embarrass us at a critical time, and if she is sincere, you can't even throw the eldest sister away.
The car was parked just outside the village.
The house was full of friends.
Just when the family was anxious and in a mess, my hair came to me, she was the daughter of my father's good friend, she was not good-looking, she was dark and thin, and everyone said that she was the ugliest girl in the village.
Fa Xiao is not only my friend, but also my sister's best friend, and the three of us grew up together.
She is not only ugly, but also has a more bold personality, and she is righteous and righteous.
After learning the truth, she patted her chest and promised: No matter what the situation is today, I will support you, if you get married, then take my sister to our house.
If you really don't want to get married, I won't let you be cold, you can pretend to be a bride to help you top.
After knowing her for so many years, I suddenly thought she was quite cute, and she even had two small dimples when she smiled, and with her dark skin, she looked more and more cute.
Maybe this is the arrangement of fate!
Obviously, the bride's wedding car was just outside the village, and my wedding was within reach, but no matter how much her relatives and friends persuaded her, she ignored it, and I even suspected that she was deliberately finding a reason to regret the marriage.
In desperation.
I was also impulsive, and while their wedding car had not left, I beat gongs and drums and held a grand wedding ceremony with Fa Xiao.
Angry, the angry bride had to hide her face and leave.
After calming down, I also blamed myself for my impulsiveness, and I really didn't know whether it was right or wrong when I encountered such a situation.
Since the raw rice has been cooked into mature rice.
Naturally, she became my bride.
She is warm, generous, considerate to me, and filial and kind to her elders.
Although the days after marriage are as plain as water, the family is stable and harmonious, and as a man, I still feel content.
Three years after I got married, my daughter-in-law gave birth to two sons.
However, by the fourth year, our fortunes had changed dramatically.
The daughter-in-law's aunt returned.
Her grandfather was a Kuomintang officer at the time, and later went to the other side with the army, leaving her father and grandmother at home.
When Grandpa got there, there was no news, and there was no more information, so I thought he had an accident and was no longer alive.
In the early 90s, due to the opening up of the policy, many people on the other side of the strait went back to the mainland to find their roots and ask their ancestors, and at this time, the daughter-in-law's aunt was found, she was the child born by the grandfather who remarried after he went to the other side.
My aunt owns two companies in Guangdong.
So I borrowed the light of my daughter-in-law's mother's family, and later followed my aunt to the south to develop, with the help of my aunt and grandfather, I opened my own toy factory, and my daughter-in-law also set up a small company.
My sister remained unmarried, and my daughter-in-law and I supported her until she died of a serious illness.
When I passed away, I broke the banner as my own son, and my daughter-in-law and parents-in-law became the biggest spiritual pillar in my life.
I really didn't expect that the happiness you want is actually by your side!
I think that at the beginning, if there was no marriage change, Fa Xiao and I would definitely be the bridge to the bridge and the road to the road.
I was an old farmer in the countryside, and she was her young lady in the south, so I couldn't have the opportunity and strength to support my elders and take care of my sister.
So, the things of this world!
Everything is not up to people, everything is fate.
It's yours, and you can't hide from it.
It shouldn't be yours, and you can't ask for it.
Live the present, cherish the relatives around you, live every day with love and heart, and God will not disappoint every kind heart.