Let the daily happiness be a little more, let the happiness occupy more time in 24 hours, the pain will eat the soul like a demon, when the mask of pain accumulates, it will be difficult to return, the body is like a rotten wood full of pessimistic and painful insects, in and out of the soul, slowly lose happiness, like losing the taste of food, taste the same as chewing wax, delicacies from the mountains and seas, wild vegetables and coarse grains, all tasteless. Like a balcony that lacks sunlight, any plant planted will slowly wither.
It is not a good thing to recognize reality too clearly, to see it too seriously, to compare it too carefully. Comparison produces pain, people look at what they can't have and desperately desire, it's like feeding themselves poison every day, each poison is accumulating pain, like replacing happy cells, like adding more coffee powder to coffee, it will only become more and more unhappy and bitter, it will make one's soul become distorted in pessimism and extreme despair, and it will make life unworthy. The value of life is the value of everyone's deep self-identity, feeling that every minute of life is willing, or most of the time belongs to their own will, or that the happy weight of a small part of the time resists the unhappy weight of most of the time, and in the end, the weight of happiness exceeds the unhappiness, even if the time difference is a lot, because life may be unsatisfactory and unhappy most of the time, but there must be some happiness to overpower unhappiness.
How to resist the dark clouds that overflow in life in an unhappy and unsatisfactory life, wash away the unhappiness in the heavy rain, find the grasp of your own life, and the reason to persist in living a long life, or how you are willing to spend a longer life until the end of your life, that is a more worthy thing to consider.
Because of the bitterness of life, the unsatisfactory life, the heart in this era of injury and torture and even extreme pain, just like paper soaked in a water tank, it is difficult not to be affected, the gap between the rich and the poor, will lead to psychological imbalance, the gap in material life that cannot be jumped may make people despair, and may even be more difficult than imagined life like an unexpected storm to cover the way forward, the lost mist of despair of the heart is cold and unpredictable, maybe the soul has never thought of facing the world like this, Fate will give such a deck of cards to himself, and maybe even the cards are destined to not win when they reach their hands, is it to be a foil, to be a loser to the winner happy?
Maybe despite the result, if you think about it, if you are limited to winning and losing, holding cards that you can't win, and you can't shuffle and redistribute them, then the deck is destined to be unhappy, and the extreme desire for the result will make the play itself a very painful thing. For some people, playing cards may be a kind of entertainment, so try to think about the part of life that was originally felt in the process of engaging in similar card playing, and the happiness to experience, is not because of the result and become meaningless? It's hard to understand, because you only stare at the result, you just want to win or lose, you only see the loss, even if some things are really hard to say happy, you shouldn't force happiness from them, unhappy things can't be happy at all, but if you try your best and can't change, and you are trapped in the pain of winning and losing, chewing every day in the huge gap, maybe you shouldn't accept your fate, you shouldn't give in, but when everything is in the helplessness of no way, you have to torture yourself with sober pain and distort your soul? It may not be the most sober either, or perhaps it is sober to become confused at this time.
Maybe it's not really idealistic that you can change by changing, everyone wants to be a millionaire, everyone wants to live a prosperous and happy life, but obviously life and reality do not meet everyone's wishes, burn incense and worship Buddha, sharpen your head, roll your hair and fly, it is difficult to achieve change, you may have become a laggard halfway, in such a situation, do you have to do all your strength, but also bear to blame those who can't change the status quo, accuse them of not being able to change their fate, is it incompetent?
It shouldn't. When I realize that the gap wants to change, maybe the society has invisibly raised a lot of thresholds, and even my soul strength can not cheer up and then jump over that threshold, maybe someone will go to roll up the academic qualifications, I will learn if the academic qualifications are not good, and the competitiveness will not be able to strengthen the competitiveness, which is relatively good, when the individual can not adapt to the world, change himself to adapt to the world, to find the direction of the wind.
But there will still be people who fall under the threshold, people who are blocked from a certain life, a life that cannot be reached no matter how hard they try, and feel that life is unsatisfactory!
There will be times when this happens.
Feeling powerless in the soul. Embattled. None of the authorities can get out of the maze of the authorities.
As if in a gale that wants to tear apart the soul paper, many pieces of paper are rushing in the wind, and in the direction of the wind, they don't tear themselves apart, and there is also an irresistible wind that makes them dizzy and vomiting, in such a gale, how to keep themselves from being torn? No one wants to start with the idea of tearing themselves apart, right?
Despite all the unsatisfactory things in the world, despite the unspeakable pain, although I don't want anyone to blame my pain, even though I can't change it, I can't bear it, I can't spit out the yellow lotus, it may be difficult to turn around here, but I still want to say, please let that life is a little more happy, if there is no happiness, try not to inflict more pain on the soul, try to heal your soul, because the soul reaches a certain level, quantitative change will lead to qualitative change, it will be like a food lover losing his sense of taste, Losing the perception of the joy of life will lead to a cycle of painful nightmares that you can't convince yourself and others can't wake you up.
When it is difficult to change the happiness of your soul, it is really difficult to become happy by your own grooming.
You might as well be confused, don't pay too much attention to the difference between winning and losing, when you can't avoid it, try to channel yourself, don't put too much pressure on your heart, do your best in everything, don't blame yourself for not working hard enough, or try not to resign, even if resentment always has a foothold, but that is not the foothold of precious life, cherish time, don't give up because of hopelessness, and don't give up because of winning or losing cards or fall into endless pain, throw yourself into hell on earth in the horns of cranky thoughts, There are always some things that can be changed not because of your own efforts, you can make changes and mistakes, you can respond immediately, even heavy rain has to take time to accumulate rain, balance happiness and pain, if you are not happy, try not to inflict pain.
When you are in pain, you might as well jump out of the painful game and do something that you can be happy about, something that can relieve your pain, something that can make you happy for a long time, exercise, walking, as long as the rhythm is slightly adjusted, just like a bow and arrow that has been pulled to the extreme can restore its elasticity and regain its strength. Life needs the rhythm of happiness and unhappiness, the rhythm of combining work and rest, the rhythm of fast and slow, the need to constantly adapt to the new rhythm, and the fish and struggle in the new rhythm, touching the fish is for the relief of breath and the source of struggle. There is always a little bit of strength to be accumulated.
There is always a way to resist unhappiness, when life is full of arrows, play an invulnerable card, and when the dagger of unsatisfactory grief stabs, you must use your own way to block it. Like when I'm unhappy, I read novels and focus my soul on another world, you don't like to read books can catch up on dramas, I know that there is a child who is unhappy and likes to run, running seems to be a very painful thing for me, it seems that I have never experienced the value of running from this perspective, I am unhappy, I am happy after running, not for others, but I am happy after running, how good, I turn unhappiness into happiness, and at the same time invisibly exercise my body.
For example, my myopia is gradually deepening, writing and reading and calligraphy are all ways for me to become unhappy and happy, although writing sometimes because I want a lot of readers, I want to publish a book, and when I write, I want to write a good hand, I can be hung on the wall to give people a happy look when they are unhappy, and I will fall into winning or losing, I will inevitably want to write for so many years and be useless, and there is nothing in the success of the world, I always see other authors publishing books, no matter whether they sell well or not, I always see other people's calligraphy praised and bought. Instead of being like me, it seems as if I've been standing still, with a huge investment and very little return, if I think like this, keep thinking about it, I'm afraid it's hard for me to be happy anymore, let alone writing, but I try to find the joy of writing itself, to resist that unhappiness, in fact, as long as I write, put my hand on the keyboard, my pain about winning or losing writing is dissolved.
Otherwise, how did I persist for so many years. Think about it, there are many empty things in this world, and there is not much more than yourself. Most importantly, I don't care so much about winning or losing this thing anymore. Jokes are jokes, and it's okay if you don't get recognized. I'm happy when I write. Like that kid, I get happy when I run.
Live happily, don't hold grudges, don't feel sorry for the world that has brought you pain, only for your soul. If you are grateful to the world, it doesn't matter if you are not grateful, you don't have to force yourself, people have different experiences, and you can't say the same mood if you don't stand in the same experience. It's just that when you hate the world, your soul is also becoming resentful, so just for yourself.
When you come to this world, you should be happy and shout at the sky and the river. Don't be full of happiness, don't have strong expectations and hopes, don't travel the world, don't face the sea in the spring, don't light your world too brightly, just be happy. The clouds stood lightly on the hillside, looking into the distance, and there was a breeze in my heart. No longer think about how far you have gone, surpass others, stop thinking, go your own way, walk the road of happiness, do not show off to the world, and do not show your happiness to people who are suffering.
Scorpio, relax yourself, fight but don't fight, win or lose, let it be, it is inevitable that it will not be satisfactory, the authorities should not be confused, can not hold on, do not force, suffer and jump, and the heart does not fall.