A woman's heart is a needle, which means that a woman has something to say, and she always loves everything without saying it.
But seriously, it's the same with men.
Men are not as brave as you think, their hearts are made of flesh, and they are afraid of being hurt. In the process of dating, people who really like you may not dare to confess directly; is very good at ambiguity and may just be a scumbag's trick, so how to judge a man's heart? According to the male friends around him, if he hits these points, he will already be "hinting" that he likes you.
In addition to coaxing, it will also help you solve the problem
People say that when they encounter a problem, the first thought of a man is to "solve the problem", but at the same time, the man is also very lazy, and will only stick a knife in the ribs of three kinds of people: a family, two close friends, and three people who have a good feeling.
When you make a request that is within his means, if he is doing all kinds of analysis, proposing solutions, throwing a bunch of references, or even wanting to show up himself to help. If you're not a family member and you're not a close friend, even if you don't say it, trust me, he definitely likes you a little.
On the other hand, after you complain, if he just says, "Okay, wait, it's fine," or "Or do you ask if anyone else can help?" It sounds sweetly coaxing, but in fact it's just perfunctory, and it's not worth it for him to bother so much.
In addition to talking, he is also willing to ask you to help him solve the problem
"Not easily confiding in their hearts" is the stereotype that many people have of men, but for scumbags who are at ease, it's nothing to talk about their hearts, after all, they just enjoy the gentleness of women, and a few words can make each other's maternal love explode and die, why not?
But being willing to talk doesn't mean that you are willing to touch, most of them are just for you to listen to, there is no need to add in to stir up your own life circle, it's just pure dating, to avoid all complications.
If you find that in addition to talking to you, he will also ask you to participate or even take over the help, it is a hint that you are now the person he trusts the most, or even the most important person at the moment. For example, when you have a fight with a friend, you can help coordinate the two sides, and he will accept your advice, instead of disappearing all day and ending up silently saying "I had a fight with my friend."
In addition to wanting to have sex, if you want to do something else, you will also take the initiative to find you
Many people say that men take the initiative to find you because they like you, but this is still too short. Men are mostly creatures with small heads controlling big heads, and they are absolutely super active in finding someone to have sex with, and they are the most industrious when sperm worms are in the brain.
A man takes the initiative to look for you, depending on what he is looking for you to do.
In addition to the usual dating items (e.g. eating, watching movies...) If he wants to find you for everything, it means that he thinks of you all the time and wants to spend every minute with you. Like: Do you want to take his dog to the doctor together? The car needs to be sent for maintenance, do you want to take it for a ride? Do you want to accompany him to cut his hair?
There are a bunch of principles, but when you encounter them, you become a "double standard"
Men are actually human beings, and some things have nothing to do with men and women, as long as human beings are in this situation, it means that there must be love for you - "double standards".
When a person is in love, there are only two kinds of people left in the world, one is the person you like and the other is the passerby. Usually there are a lot of principles, if it is someone else, he must be angry, but when he meets you, he smiles and says forgive you, please put an asterisk with a red pen, he doesn't like you, who else will he like?
For example, he has a serious cleanliness habit and never touches the utensils and cups used by others, but if you drink his drink, he does not refuse and continues to drink; Or he has a very mature and stable appearance on the outside, but in private he is willing to imitate Pikachu's voice and play with you. This is simply a silent "I like you", you can rush, just confess.