In the palace of marriage, there are different ways of emotional communication and expression between men and women.
For women, men are often more expected to show deep and lasting love.
And a special kind of "fear" that men show in marriage is sometimes not weak, but a manifestation of their deep love for their wives.
1. I'm afraid you'll get hurt
In a marital relationship, a man who truly loves you will always be concerned about your safety and well-being.
He will care about your mood changes and is afraid that you will be hurt for any reason. This "fear" is not due to fear, but to a deep concern and love for you.
He will pay attention to your diet and daily life, and worry that you will neglect your health because you are busy with work.
He will remind you to eat on time, pay attention to rest, and even when you are sick, he will not hesitate to put down what he is doing and be by your side to take care of you. This kind of meticulous care is the embodiment of his deep love for you.
In addition, he will also care about your emotional needs. He is afraid that you will be troubled by the trivial things in your life and will try to solve your problems.
When you encounter setbacks and difficulties, he will be your strong backing, giving you support and encouragement. This kind of emotional support makes you feel that he cares deeply about and cherishes you.
The British writer Jane Austen wrote in Pride and Prejudice: "If a man loves you, then he will not let you be wronged at all." ”
This kind of mentality of "fearing" you getting hurt is a true portrayal of a man's deep love for his wife.
Second, I'm afraid that you will leave
In marriage, men sometimes show a sense of "fear" because they are worried that their wives will leave.
"Fear" is not out of distrust, but from deep dependence and cherishing on you. He is afraid of losing you, of a crack in your marriage.
Therefore, he will try to maintain your relationship and avoid anything that could lead to your conflicts.
He will respect your opinions and choices and give you plenty of freedom and space. At the same time, he will also strive to improve himself and make himself better in order to attract your attention and retain your heart.
In addition, he will also show his determination and dedication to you at critical moments.
When you are faced with a choice, he will not hesitate to be on your side and provide you with support and assistance. This firm attitude makes you feel his deep love and commitment to you.
The French writer Victor Hugo once said in "Les Miserables": "The first sign of true love is timidity in boys and boldness in girls." In marriage, a man's "fear" of you is actually a kind of awe and cherishment of love.
3. I'm afraid that you will be disappointed
A man who loves you will do his best to meet your expectations and needs because he is afraid of disappointing you. He understands how important your expectations and dreams are to you, so he will do his best to achieve them.
In his career, he will work hard to achieve better results and higher status in order to provide you with better living conditions and a more stable future.
In family life, he will be actively involved in housework and childcare, sharing your burden and stress. This sense of responsibility and commitment to the family makes you feel his deep commitment to you and your family.
In addition, he will also pay attention to his words and deeds to avoid causing you any unnecessary distress and harm. He will respect your feelings and needs, maintain communication and understanding with you.
When you make a request or suggestion to him, he listens carefully and tries to improve himself. This emphasis and respect for your opinion makes you feel that he cares deeply for you.
The American writer Mark Twain once said, "Love is sacred because it makes two of the most selfish people selfless." ”
In marriage, a man's "fear" of you is the embodiment of his selfless dedication, he is willing to give up his own interests and needs for you, and only hopes that you can live a happy life.
summary
In marriage, a man is "afraid of you" in these three things, which is actually a manifestation of deep love for his wife.
He is afraid that you will be hurt, afraid that you will leave, and afraid that you will be disappointed, all because he loves you deeply and wants to give you the best life.
This "fear" is not weakness or incompetence, but a manifestation of his deep love and commitment to you.
Therefore, when you find that your husband is "afraid of you" in these three things, cherish this love and return the same love and commitment to him.
Let's work together to manage this marriage well, so that the flower of love will bloom more brilliantly in the soil of marriage.