Is Shang Wenjie "cold and violent" or He Jie "low emotional intelligence"? The actress scolded the war for the smell of gunpowder too strong

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2024-06-04 18:30Published in Guangdong entertainment creators

In "Sister Lang", He Jie left angrily because she was dissatisfied with Shang Wenjie. #何洁生气#一度冲上热搜.

Both are supergirls, 38-year-old He Jie and 41-year-old Shang Wenjie met in the middle of their lives, and in my opinion, there will inevitably be contradictions.

Source| "Riding the Wind", the same below

Many people think that the difference between the two is E and I, but in fact, it is far more than that.

They were already given the exact opposite script of life:

He Jie, silly white sweet drama. Shang Wenjie, Gong Dou "The Legend of Zhen Huan".

There may be similarities when they debuted, but the background of their lives is different, which has long been destined for today's quarrel.

Let's start with the matter itself.

When "Sister Lang" was divided, He Jie suggested that the two sentences in the song that required the most emotion and skill should be completed by herself and Shang Wenjie.

In fact, it is quite reasonable, they are not only professional, but also bring a supergirl nostalgic topic.

But Shang Wenjie refused, thinking that it would be more appropriate to hand it over to Guo Biting, who had a light voice.

Shang Wenjie has never been a person with inertial thinking, she is good at "taking the sword to the front", and at the same time trying to give full play to everyone's advantages.

When she was captain, she had a good decision.

At that time, there was an opera singing segment, and even the judges took it for granted that Chen Lijun, who was born in a professional class, was the first choice, but Shang Wenjie proposed to let her French sister sing it, which truly implemented the theme of cultural exchange.

In the end, the effect was amazing, and the French sister was remembered by the audience.

Therefore, talking about this is only a difference of professional opinions, and does not involve personal grievances.

It's just that He Jie suddenly attacked, pointing out that Shang Wenjie was avoiding herself, and even disregarded the stage effect.

To be fair, He Jie's accusations are not nonsense.

The two had faced each other in the PK battle of the previous game, and He Jie's posture at that time was like "It's so easy to catch you", and I can't wait to fight with her.

And Shang Wenjie expressed in private that He Jie's excessive sense of energy made her unable to resist.

This time, they teamed up together, and the team members suggested that they live together to enhance their relationship, but Shang Wenjie pulled Guo Biting and refused.

Moreover, as we all know, although He Jie does not admit that she wants to become popular, as her sister who has been actively inviting Ying since the first season, she attaches great importance to this stage and personal performance.

But the problem is that she is too rushed, not like 38 years old, like 3 years old.

She kept forcing Gong Shangwenjie, and even had the anger to be truly disappointed.

After smelling the smell of gunpowder, the captain Sa Dingding continued to increase his emotional intelligence and handed He Jie steps.

But He Jie repeatedly interrupted the captain's speech, and finally left with his bag.

This workplace performance is not unjustly infamous for leaving a name.

As for what many people said, Shang Wenjie was too pretending, secretly poking and prodding to provoke He Jie, and Meimei became invisible.

To tell the cruel truth, she has the right to refuse people.

Besides, Shang Wenjie has tried her best to maintain the decency of adults.

There's an interesting detail.

After the conflict broke out, others looked at the camera intentionally or unintentionally, but only He Jie has been indulging in his emotions.

She doesn't seem to care about her own decency and that of others.

In the workplace, tearing your face for your own breath is really not good-looking.

It shows that He Jie made her debut as a 19-year-old supergirl and returned after 20 years, but her workplace personality has not yet grown up.

In the later interview, everyone attributed the contradiction to the personalities of the two, and He Jie even used magnet poles to describe each other.

But the wonderful thing is that these two people who seem to be unable to beat each other actually have a lot of similarities when they first enter the workplace.

For example, they all had "paranoia of victimization".

He Jie would immediately attribute it to the outside world when things didn't go well in her early years, feeling that others were unfair and mistreating herself.

Shang Wenjie is too, always suspecting that others don't really want to cooperate, but have other plans to use her.

Source| "Easy Time", the same below

Thrown into the complex entertainment industry at a young age, they are vigilant like hedgehogs for everything around them.

And compared with He Jie's low emotional intelligence and straightforwardness that are criticized now, Shang Wenjie, who is now praised for her emotional stability, was actually better than that back then.

In an interview with Li Jing in her early years, Shang Wenjie said that she didn't make friends in the entertainment industry, and they were all working relationships.

After the competition, everyone went their separate ways, and the intersection with the insiders was too short, like an interview, how could it be possible to become friends with the host in 3 hours?

Although this is sincere, it is really not smart to say this in front of the host.

At that time, she had just terminated her contract with Tianyu, and she was burdened with "ungrateful" public opinion. Li Jing also wanted to guide her to talk about the kindness of her old club, but she also directly rejected it, saying that it was just a job change and did not need any emotion.

Source| Static distance, the same below

She even said that her supergirl champion was "fooled around" by a single thought.

This not only offended all her fans, opponents, judges, and the capital behind her, but also didn't even take her own efforts into account.

Maybe it's all her sincere thoughts, but it's not good.

But why was Shang Wenjie's EQ Dafa able to be successfully cultivated, but He Jie stood still?

Because the performance of these two is similar in the early stage, but there are essential differences.

Shang Wenjie's straightness is because reason comes first and she can't take into account emotions, and she also wanted to seek the truth in the workplace, but in a humane society, the truth often has its own sharpness.

And He Jie's straightness is more about emotions first, and there is no rational door when emotionally speaking.

20 years later, it's still babbling.

When interviewed, her emotions are wide open and close, and they are directly expressed through exaggerated expressions and body language.

Source| "Innocent Time", the same below

Yang Tianzhen asked her to draw a curve chart of her life course and feelings, and she did it in one go, with a wave of her arm, she lifted it to the sky and pulled out the paper.

To put it bluntly, Shang Wenjie's rationality may not be more noble than He Jie's sensibility.

But in the rivers and lakes, what people cultivate in the end is the balance between reason and emotion.

Obviously, the balance between these two people was not good when they first entered the society, and now Shang Wenjie is getting better, professional and emotionally stable at work, and can provide emotional value from time to time. But in life, I always inadvertently expose my cute and stupid side, such as being a master of the fried kitchen, and whimsically trying to feed pandas all day long.

In this year's "Sister Lang", she has made a lot of close friends, and the popularity of the audience has also soared.

From the very beginning, the trajectories of the two were destined to become farther and farther apart after a brief parallel.

Because the silly white sweet script He Jie received was too sweet, and the palace fight script that Shang Wenjie received was too bitter.

He Jie is lucky, like all silly white sweet plots, He Jie did not suffer the loss of character in her early years, but always tasted the sweetness by mistake, which made her life full of drama.

Mom discovered her singing talent early and took her around to compete since she was a child, so she was bold and daring to perform.

Supergirl audition is just one of her many competitions. On the same day, she slept in the dormitory, and was dragged to the scene by her classmates, and she didn't even prepare a registration photo, so she hurriedly tore off her name on the student ID photo with a steel seal.

Source| "The Venus Show", the same below

Her music teacher also told a little story.

Once the teacher took Xiao He Jie to watch a performance by an American theater troupe, but He Jie disappeared after the show. The teacher couldn't find her, so she could only go home nervously, and received a call from He Jie:

"Teacher, are you home? Guess where I just went? ”

She didn't realize how much she was bothering others, but was immersed in excitement.

It turned out that at a young age, she had a whim, ran backstage alone to communicate with the American theater company, and also performed a request for guidance, which not only won recognition, but also got a lot of chocolates.

But He Jie's heart is really not bad.

She told the frightened teacher to give the chocolate to the teacher, because without the teacher she would not be where she is today.

But when He Jie entered the workplace when she grew up, she still put her emotions first, plus she didn't experience many ups and downs, her mind was not strong, and she just wanted to escape and play tricks when she encountered difficulties.

The highlights of luck will collapse in an instant.

After breaking up with Shi Xiaolong, she expressed her requirements for the next term: be older, know how to take care of people, and a few words pushed Shi Xiaolong to the forefront of the scumbag.

When she got married, she revealed that Li Yuchun did not receive the message, and was accused of insinuating that her former friend forgot her righteousness for profit, which caused controversy.

She also promised to return as soon as she gave birth, but she hugged the two for three years and did it casually, which chilled the team and fans.

After that, he fell into a scandal with his ex-husband tearing each other apart.

She cried in the show and said that she didn't want to get married again, and the artists present looked at each other and tactfully advised her to be cautious.

However, before the entanglement with her ex-husband ended, her relationship with Diao Lei was exposed, and she was also involved in a scandal of cheating in marriage.

And soon, she gave birth again.

She was once again open-mouthed during the live broadcast, saying that she gave birth to a baby because she "got pregnant when she touched it", and she has been ridiculed for being irresponsible and brainless as pride.

He Jie is emotional, and he doesn't even care about his own decency, how can he care about others?

In addition, she was also deeply involved in the hype controversy of falling twice on the red carpet and being injured in variety shows, which can be said to have made up for all the losses she didn't suffer when she was young.

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Besides, Shang Wenjie, she has been holding a palace fighting script since she was a child, so she has been moving forward all the way for dignity and decency.

Before she went to school, her parents divorced, and the neighbor said in front of her that this child was evil.

Coupled with her introverted and unlikable personality, the only way she can build her self-esteem is to become an honorable student.

is different from He Jie's confusion and signing up for "Supergirl", which can also go smoothly to the end.

Shang Wenjie tossed three times before being selected, and during the competition, she was isolated in various ways, and was stabbed in the back by the players in the same area.

She was repeatedly pushed onto the PK stage by the so-called good sisters, and it was like walking a tightrope all the way.

Fortunately, even with a black face and a sneer, he stumbled to win the championship.

Many years later, the so-called sisters suddenly appeared, and they were surprised on the surface, but they actually diss Shang Wenjie like He Jie diss Li Yuchun:

Why do you ignore sisterhood after winning the championship? If you don't come to the party, you won't reply to private messages.

Sisterhood? There was nothing in the first place, Shang Wenjie was stunned and was not annoyed, and politely ended the Hongmen banquet.

It is precisely because of Shang Wenjie's bitterness and He Jietian in the early years that they have a completely different perspective when looking at themselves.

Looking back, they coincidentally used the same metaphor: "kicking".

Shang said that at that time, it was like being kicked by life several times.

She was forced to walk by a harsh environment all the way, so she was used to examining herself, even to the point of being harsh.

She had suffered from severe anxiety and bipolar disorder, and due to the departure of her team members in "Sister Lang", she over-introspected and almost relapsed.

But it is also because of this self-reflection ability that she has grown rapidly.

When she realized that her lack of smiling would make her team work hard, she consciously changed herself. When I first took the initiative to talk to someone, my clothes were half wet.

He also saw that his value was not enough, which made it difficult for the team to "sell", so he never knew how to read music and became a singer-songwriter.

She slowly understands the difficulties of the people around her like solving geometry problems, so she can keep the decency of others from the heart as if she were reserving decency for herself.

Tan Weiwei once wrote a song to mock her, saying that Shang Wenjie was not as good as her, but she won the championship.

And Shang Wenjie even covered this song later, saying that she was "reviewing the old and learning the new", which made Yi Lijing, who has always been cold-faced, laugh.

And what he said about kicking is "I really want to kick myself at that time".

With remorse in hindsight.

She said that Supergirl flew to work the day after the race, thinking that she was still a willful child, but she didn't expect that the gears of fate had already begun to run.

It's a pity that after suffering so many losses, she still can't really change.

In idol dramas, she can be a silly white sweet who is more and more frustrated, but in reality, she is full of emotions and is afraid that she will be disappointed.

In that interview, Li Jing asked Shang Wenjie a meaningful question.

The literal translation is, if you don't want to be so much, will it be easier to be a stupid white sweet?

Shang Wenjie said that she would rather be awake and in pain.

There is no right or wrong way to live.

But you can't transform from the losses you have suffered, and if you can't handle the relationship between emotion and reason, you can't handle the relationship between yourself and the outside world.

Sometimes learning to balance the inside and outside is not to become the person you once hated, but to push yourself and others to let go of yourself and others.

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