In traditional culture, "kinship" has always been seen as a special social bond.
Two families who were originally strangers became a family because their children got married, and they got along with each other, and some words inadvertently caused unnecessary misunderstandings and contradictions! The following three sentences, you must not say, it is very cheap!
Family affairs, as the name suggests, are a matter within a family.
Every family has its own living habits and ways of doing things, as in-laws, we must clarify our own position, respect each other's family, and do not interfere and judge too much.
Some grandmothers and grandfathers can't get used to the way grandpa and grandma take care of their children, so they tend to mix in and give their own opinions!
These opinions will not be listened to by the other party, and they have invisibly increased the contradictions between each other!
Even if you don't look down on your in-laws' style of acting, you won't interfere with each other to avoid causing dissatisfaction with each other. Therefore, when dealing with in-laws, it is best not to say things that interfere in the other party's family affairs.
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Gossip between in-laws often refers to those trivial things, don't say it!
For example, my best friend's mother-in-law looks down on her in-laws, and often tells outsiders that her in-laws have no money and their family conditions are not good, and they always feel that her son is wronged by marrying someone's daughter-in-law.
In fact, the conditions of her best friend's in-laws are not as good as her best friend's family, and out of jealousy, her mother-in-law always preaches how poor her in-laws are.
After a long time, there is no impermeable wall, which hurts the self-esteem of the in-laws, and naturally the two families will break up! For so many years, I haven't been in contact!
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Children are the link between in-laws, and they are also the most likely places for conflicts to arise between in-laws.
As parents, we always want our children to be treated in the best possible way.
But sometimes, it is often disgruntled because of certain behaviors of the child.
Therefore, when dealing with our in-laws, we should avoid complaining about each other's children. Don't talk about it, show how good your children are!
The speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentional, which will hurt the child's self-esteem.
Especially on the issue of education, don't meddle in the affairs of the little couple with children, on the issue of educating children, the in-laws have no right to speak, so they are avoided, pretending not to see, not to hear, and to ignore it!
The relationship between in-laws and families needs to be based on mutual respect and mutual understanding!
When you interact with your in-laws, do not interfere in each other's family affairs, talk less about each other's gossip, and complain about each other's children.
Only in this way can we maintain the relationship between our in-laws and families, and create a harmonious family environment for the children's married life. #头条创作挑战赛#
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