Author | Li Hui
Source | Hui Aijia Influence Education Service Account
Li Hui
About the Author
Hui Aijia Sensory Education Research Institute certified two-star sensory education instructor. The leader of the Probation Education Mutual Aid Association has been answering questions on the Zhihu platform for a long time. In 2015, he entered Huiaijia to study. Over the past 9 years, he has continued to apply the concept of sensitivity to the upbringing of his three children, and is a super capable practitioner of sensitivity. It has achieved fruitful results in family building, children's learning ability development, and personal growth. At the same time, he has influenced, led and supported the learning and growth of many parents around him.
How many weekly journals did you write in the 52 weeks of the year? What growth points have you recorded through the weekly diary? Make a list of them one by one and see where you're growing the fastest. Looking at your own growth points, what are your awareness, emotions and touches?
Wow! When I saw this week's check-in content, I was really excited and excited, and I was even more proud of myself. Because I did it again! He has created his own miracle. 52 articles! This is the first time in my life that I have been writing every week throughout the year to record the growth of myself and my family.
As of this week, a total of 52 articles have been completed, of which 5 growth diaries have been published on the official account of Hui Aijia.
1. "Who Moved My Electronic Screen" - May 23, 2023
2. 《爱的陪伴》——June 22, 2023
3. "What kind of story happened when an acute mother met a chronic daughter?" – January 12, 2023
4. "Conforming to the wishes of parents is the greatest filial piety" - February 24, 2023
5. "Parents let go slowly, children will really grow up" - April 30, 2023
In compiling these 52 weekly diaries, I found that it truly records my growth stories in 2023 in the three dimensions of emotion, communication and relationship under the guidance of the core theory of emotional education.
Regarding the growth part, I have summarized myself as follows:
1. The part of yourself that grows the fastest
In life, I've developed a growth mindset. Everything is premised on focusing on results, achieving goals and outcomes, and then thinking, what can I do specifically to achieve my goals? In the process of doing this, I will often review in time to see what parts can be adjusted and optimized. Finally, after everything is over, there must be a closed loop: what is my awareness and thinking in this matter? Dig deeper into the valuable parts of my life. Because of this mindset, I have always created one after another results in my life (happy husband and wife relationship, supporting children's growth, self-growth and breakthroughs), and it has also brought me a lot of surprises.
2. Focus on consciousness
Through weekly logging, I have effectively managed my sense of focus, learned how to manage my emotions, and observed my children attentively, to see the real needs behind their every behavior.
By recording so many emotional stories, I can't help but sigh in my heart: the children are really growing up day by day! I am becoming more and more independent, and I am more and more courageous to face the challenges of life!
3. The thing that touches me the most
Here I want to loudly confess the old teacher Zhang Fang who has been with us. To be honest, if I didn't have Mr. Zhang's company, empowerment and energy blessing every week, it is estimated that I would not have been able to insist on completing these 52 check-in diaries, and every time I was too busy and might want to give up punching in, she would always cheer for each of us in the group! And because you have her company, I did it!
Fourth, my awareness and thinking
1. I found that every published article has something in common: the authenticity of the story, the vivid description of the plot, the sense of picture, it is easy to bring people into the story situation, and each story will have a particularly valuable summary and reflection at the end. I think I can also share such a writing experience and story with my children, and I believe that they can also show wonderful and moving good essays.
2. In the process of growing up, children also especially need parents like Teacher Zhang Fang - cheerleaders: cheer for the children, never give up on you, always be with you, and give love and companionship, empowerment and support.
3. In this process, I will also find that I still have some parts, which are not good enough, and still need to be optimized and adjusted. For example, when it comes to supporting adolescent children to improve their learning ability, this part needs to be calmed down, and they need to persist and accompany them in a down-to-earth manner.
Finally, I want to give myself a thumbs up and cheers!
Keep working hard and continue to output, and I will definitely reap more fruitful results next year!
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