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The fat cat incident was reversed, and on May 19, Chongqing officials issued a detailed notice, and at present, all of the fat cat's sister's social platform accounts have been banned.
Rumor-mongering, compilation, and montage-style narration, the two sisters of the fat cat were all about to ruin Tan Zhu's reputation from the beginning.
It's been more than a month, and it's finally been the final chapter.
The official notice issued by Chongqing this time is detailed and well-organized. Once love involves money, there are always endless lawsuits and unclear accounts, which are completely clear now, and as for why the fat cat jumped into the river, he also has eyebrows.
The fat cat sister's confession is not flawed
Since the man surnamed Liu (the screen name "fat cat", hereinafter referred to as a fat cat) jumped into the Yangtze River Bridge on April 11, things have been fermenting, first a fat cat sister Liu reported that his girlfriend Tan Zhu defrauded money, and then Tan Zhu reported that Liu violated his privacy.
Who is right and who is wrong in the two cases?
Combined with Chongqing's official report, let's start over and start over, why this incident has attracted so much attention, when the incident was first exposed, Liu fabricated a key point, "fishing for women".
On April 13, two days after the fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu and the fat cat's family signed a money return agreement, and the fat cat's father said at that time, "I will not pursue the previous consumption, but only return the money and the last investment in the store." ”
According to the report, Tan Zhu and Fat Cat have met their parents and elders in love, and have made their relationship public in their personal social circles, so the two parties can contact and solve the problem of money return as soon as possible.
But after the two sides negotiated the money, Liu was not satisfied, thinking that "the money was spent on Tan Zhu, and she should be saddened." ”
Then Liu and his sister conspired to "expose Tan Zhu on the Internet", and flipped through the fat cat's mobile phone, and intercepted the information they wanted in the love chat records of the two for several years, that is, to create screenshots and takeaway orders for the character of "Tan Mou Fishing Girl".
After that, Liu found a copywriter to promote public opinion, invited relatives and friends to comment and drain traffic, and then dug out Tan's address, personal information and other privacy.
Liu's purpose in guiding public opinion is very simple, to pinch Tan into a "fishing girl", and to build his younger brother Fat Cat into an innocent boy who loves to be an ATM and is PUA.
Sure enough, everyone's wind direction was as Liu expected, and the montage-style screenshots made many men and women have a deep sense of identity, which led to a series of events such as riverside burger takeaway empty buns and flower memorials.
As the incident became bigger and bigger, many people criticized the matter around two points, one is "in love", and the other is "money in love".
So is Tan Zhu a "fishing girl"? How did the official reply to Liu's complaint that "Tan Zhu defrauded on the grounds of love"?
The notice proves that Tan Zhu is neither a fishing girl, nor has he defrauded the fat cat of money. This is not empty words, but is based on all the facts of the two from the beginning to the end.
In November 2021, Fat Cat and Tan Zhu got acquainted because of the game, and confirmed their relationship after a month of online chat, and after 4 months of online dating, the two parties appeared in Changsha, among which Fat Cat's sister and boyfriend accompanied the whole process, and the four of them played together in Changsha.
From January 2022, that is, three months after online dating, the two parties have opened a "small purse", which is a couple's money-saving account on the payment platform.
According to the notice, as of April 8, 2024, Tan has deposited more than 236,000 in this account, Fat Cat has deposited more than 173,000, and in terms of withdrawing money, Tan has withdrawn more than 165,000 and Fat Cat has withdrawn more than 248,000.
Who's right and who's wrong?
In 2023, the two parties often quarrel and break up because they can't see each other in online dating, and in October, the two parties agreed to live in Chongqing, and the fat cat went to Tan Zhu's house many times for dates after renting a house in Chongqing.
And after the two parties ended their long-distance relationship, Tan Zhu made their relationship public in the social circle, and it was also at this time that the two parties discussed opening a flower shop.
One person pays and one person contributes to run this flower shop, and the fat cat is the one who pays the money, totaling more than 70,000 yuan.
After the relationship between the two parties gradually stabilizes, on February 7, 2024, that is, before the Spring Festival, they can choose this time to take their boyfriend home, which shows that the relationship between the two parties is deep. At that time, the fat cat met with the woman's parents, relatives and friends at the family banquet.
To be able to get to the step of meeting parents, relatives and friends is basically half a foot in the door of marriage. At the beginning of April, Tan Zhu and Fat Cat broke out again into a continuous quarrel, and they mentioned breaking up when they were in a hurry.
So under such pressure, Tan Zhu first proposed to "calm down with each other for a while." ”
But the fat cat did not calm down from this quarrel, on April 10, that is, the day before jumping into the river, the fat cat said that he wanted to transfer the money in the "small purse" to Tan Zhu, but the other party said, "You are still young... The game can't be played for long... Plan for your future. ”
In the early morning, the fat cat transferred the last money and said that he would let Tan Zhu run his own flower shop, and jumped into the river after remarks such as "we are over".
Why did a fat cat jump into the river? Is it because you saw through Tan Zhu's "PUA"?
Not necessarily, judging from the fat cat's family situation, he belongs to a single family, with an older sister and a younger sister, and a single family member.
Looking at the family education that the fat cat received, the fat cat is 21 years old this year, that is to say, he met Tan Zhu and fell in love when he was 18 years old.
At this time, the fat cat's sister is also in love, that is to say, his sister belongs to underage love, from which it can be seen that the fat cat's father is more lenient about the child's love and learning for reasons such as "can't manage" or "don't want to manage".
Taking care of three children by one person does have inconsiderate places.
Secondly, from the behavior of Liu's sister and sister after the death of the fat cat, exposing other people's privacy and online human flesh are all illegal and criminal acts, and it can be seen here that the fat cat's father is not only unable to restrain the child's behavior, but also indulges in ideological education.
Let's look at it again, Tan Zhu, although she can't say that she is completely wrong, but at least she can't take all the blame on her. To be honest, when Tan Zhu knew that the fat cat's income was obtained by playing games, she knew that the money was not easy to come by.
From online dating to running to meeting parents and discussing future life, these processes are all justified, PUA is not necessarily, and "fishing for girls" may not be, is it possible that a person who is bent on wealth will spend a few years of youth to spend a few years with an ordinary boy who may cut off his source of income at any time?
It's true that you're in love, and it's true that you want to get married, but from the perspective of money, the two sides have different concepts about money, at least judging from the existing screenshots, although Tan Zhu loves to spend money, he also saves money together.
And she was going to go down with the fat cat, but the two quarreled too much, so they couldn't go to the end in the end. Here dare to speculate, maybe the fat cat will go to the extreme, there are also some family reasons, "lack of love" boys, especially when they are more ignorant of feelings, it is the time when parents and friends need enlightenment.
However, the fat cat didn't seem to have many friends from beginning to end, and the fat cat didn't go to his father and sisters for guidance when he was psychologically confused, so it can be seen that his relationship may not be as close as netizens imagined.
Fat cat sister
At the time of "lack of love", it was difficult to recover the feelings and money that he had paid to Tan Zhu for many years, which caused him to be unable to think about it for a while, which is really regrettable.
The accounts and trolls that followed the hype at the beginning were all held accountable, and Liu was also banned from all social accounts for violating Tan Zhu's privacy, and he may continue to be held accountable in the future.
As of May 19, 2024, this matter has also come to an end with the official announcement.
References:
Red Star News "Chongqing Police Report on the Investigation Details of the "Fat Cat" Incident: Tan Does Not Constitute a Fraud Crime"
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