Once at a dinner party with friends, I pushed the cup and changed the lamp, and unknowingly drank them all down! I was very sober and helped them contact their family to come and pick them up.
The next day they called me and said that I don't usually drink much, and last night I wasn't drunk, but they were drunk!
I replied to them, not that I don't know how to drink, but that I don't want to drink, and drinking depends on the occasion and mood.
They all said I was a tough person.
In this complex and changeable social circle, it is not impossible to be a difficult person.
Sometimes being a difficult person will bring many benefits to yourself.
After so many years of crawling, I found that these are the people who are difficult to handle.
One is a person who obeys orders, has no assertiveness, revolves around others all day long, is always led by others, and is a "good person" in the eyes of others.
The other is a more arrogant and domineering person, although he doesn't seem to be very fierce, but as soon as he speaks, his tone is quite tough, which makes people feel afraid.
The difference between these two kinds of people is great, the first type of person revolves around others, and the second type of person revolves around him.
Relatively speaking, although the first type of person has a good temper and personality in all aspects, he will not easily offend people, but he is easy to be bullied and suppressed.
And the second type of person, although not very popular, but his tough momentum makes many people a little afraid.
It will bring benefits to his own life, and no one dares to bully him casually.
Being a difficult person is not the whole of life, but you must be a difficult person in life, and only in this way can you survive in life.
No wonder my friends laugh at me, I'm a difficult person.
However, I am indeed a difficult person, but I am very principled, I never bully others, and if others want to bully me, I will fight them to the end.
My personality is like this, I resolutely don't agree with things I don't like, and I express my opinions very directly.
Never eat other people's sets, and will not accept anyone's restraints.
With my personality, I do it in life! No one dares to do anything bad to me.
In the end, I hope everyone will be a difficult person, this is for the sake of survival.
But the premise is not to bully others, to do things in a measured way, reasonably, and the biggest limit is to protect yourself and your family.
Thank you for reading.