1. Under the glory of later years, an unforgettable epic of struggle
On the occasion of her 60th anniversary, Xu Di carried the precious trophy of the Magnolia Award for Best Supporting Actress, and the passionate emotions in her heart could not be concealed. This honor, which is full of achievements and recognition of her acting skills for many years, has imprinted her firm belief in her artistic dream for decades.
Looking back on the past, the struggle of that youth is still as clear as yesterday. Xu Di was born in an ordinary Beijing family, and her family was poor since she was a child, but deep down she burned a tenacious spirit that never gave in.
In high school, she was admitted to the Academy of Chinese Opera with excellent grades, but in the face of new basic skills training, Xu Di undoubtedly experienced countless hardships. Every time she practiced, she seemed to be enduring a harsh ordeal, but she did not flinch and won the praise of her teachers with her perseverance.
When I first entered the campus, the teachers did not have high expectations for this student who had a shallow foundation. However, when they saw Xu Di's tireless efforts, they quickly changed their views and firmly believed that she would shine.
Facts have proved that Xu Di has perfectly responded to the ardent expectations of the teachers with her hard work and continuous progress.
After graduation, Xu Di successfully joined the Beijing Quyi Troupe and officially embarked on her own acting career. In the early days, she only participated in small shows with the troupe, and sometimes toured the country with the troupe.
Despite her dull life, Xu Di was not discouraged by this, but devoted herself to stage performances and went all out to get on a bigger stage in the future.
2. Meeting Yu Jianwei, life ushered in the dawn
On that sunny day, Xu Di met Yu Jianwei for the first time, and although the start was not good, it became a key turning point in her life.
In high school, Xu Di and Yu Jianwei were classmates and friends. Yu Jianwei is not only excellent in academics and handsome in appearance, but also the class president, which can be called a talented and charismatic campus figure.
And Xu Di is a "hot-blooded girl" with a bold personality and outspokenness.
At a class reunion, Yu Jianwei inadvertently offended Xu Di, and was severely reprimanded by her. The beautiful and moving girl in front of him had such a "wild" side, which Yu Jianwei did not expect, he thought she was just a gentle and virtuous girl.
When Yu Jianwei looked at Xu Di's angry appearance, he couldn't help but feel an indescribable good feeling in his heart. It turned out that the beginning of this karmic meeting was so unexpected.
As the days passed, Yu Jianwei's feelings for Xu Di became deeper and deeper, and Xu Di was also deeply attracted by the elegant temperament of the class leader, however, the School of Drama has strict school rules, which clearly prohibit students from falling in love, and once discovered, they will be severely punished.
Therefore, they can only bury this affection in their hearts, but on the surface they have to pretend to ignore each other's enemies, so as not to attract the attention and suspicion of others. Whenever the students were present, they deliberately created conflicts and quarreled loudly to attract people to come and persuade them.
Who would have thought that this pair of "enemies" had already held hands in private, strolling through the streets and alleys, snuggling up to each other, and enjoying a sweet time.
After graduation, they were finally able to express their love openly and enter the palace of marriage. Seeing this personable and affectionate future son-in-law, both parents expressed their appreciation and applauded the beautiful marriage of the young couple.
3. Pay silently to witness the greatness of your husband
After getting married, Xu Di joined the Beijing Opera Troupe as she wished and began her acting career. At the same time, her husband Yu Jianwei also did not hesitate to take on her solid backing, taking care of the trivial life of the whole family.
As the pillar of the troupe, Xu Di often needs to go out to perform and follow the troupe around. Whenever his wife went to another country, Yu Jianwei turned into a "home cook", carefully prepared the luggage, and personally delivered it to the car.
When Xu Di returns, the home is always filled with the enticing aroma of food, creating a warm and comfortable haven for her.
As her career flourished, Xu Di's work became busier and busier, often requiring the crew to work overtime and return home late at night. And Yu Jianwei took the initiative to take on the affairs of the family, and became Xu Di's right-hand man and all-round nanny, whether it is cooking food, cleaning and hygiene, or taking care of children, he can do everything in an orderly manner.
Some people may question whether a manly man who does housework at home all day will feel aggrieved or lose his male dignity. However, Yu Jianwei only smiled indifferently at this. In his heart, the mental work is also extremely hard, and he is just doing his best to support his wife to pursue her dreams.
In fact, Mr. Yu Jianwei has never regarded housework as a lowly occupation, and everything he does is out of selfless love for his family, so as to create a stable and warm family rear for his wife.
Because of this, Ms. Hui Di is able to devote herself to her acting career without any worries and show her extraordinary acting talent.
Whenever Ms. Xu Di won warm applause and praise from the audience in her film and television works, Mr. Yu Jianwei would be sincerely ecstatic for her; When his wife received various honors, his pride and pride were even more indescribable.
Over the years, Mr. Yu Jianwei has consistently and silently supported his wife, and interpreted his deep and sincere love for her with practical actions.
Fourth, the road of film and television meets Bai Tang and opens a new chapter in life
In the years of stable work in the opera troupe, Ms. Xu Di has never had the luxury of stepping into a broader film and television field. However, fate brought her a turn of events at this time - a well-known director named Bai Tang, with a discerning eye, discovered the huge potential hidden in her, thus opening another door to her life.
That year, Director Bai Tang watched a wonderful performance of Ms. Xu Di's opera troupe, and was full of praise for the image and temperament of the young actor on the stage and his superb acting skills.
He firmly believed that Ms. Xu Di was the ideal candidate in his mind, so he did not hesitate to find her and sincerely invited her to join his film and television production team.
In the face of this sudden change, Ms. Xu Di's heart was full of doubts and uneasiness. However, her husband, Mr. Yu Jianwei, gave her unwavering support and encouragement: "You have spent a long time in the opera troupe, and now someone has finally seen your talent and provided you with new opportunities, you should be brave enough to try."
Her husband's words were like a warm current, injected into the depths of Ms. Xu Di's heart. She plucked up the courage and accepted the invitation of director Bai Tang, officially stepping into a new world of film and television art.
At first, she felt as if she was in a completely new world, at a loss for everything around her.
However, with years of accumulated stage experience and otherworldly focus, coupled with Mr. Yu Jianwei's meticulous care, she gradually adapted to the new environment and brought her role to life, winning high praise from the director and the audience.
In order to fully cooperate with his wife Xu Di's acting career, Yu Jianwei did not hesitate to choose to quietly join the film and television crew, becoming an important support for Xu Di's dedication to acting. Every time Xu Di felt a little tired after hard work, she saw her husband and son come to visit the class, and her bright eyes shone with happiness again.
It is thanks to Yu Jianwei's all-round care that Xu Di was able to devote herself to her busy filming life.
On the stage of the film and television industry, Xu Di ushered in her own glorious moment, and her acting career shone like a bright star. A series of popular masterpieces have left an indelible mark on her in the minds of the audience.
And behind all this brilliance is the full support and selfless protection of her husband Yu Jianwei.
In many works such as the TV series "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" and "The First Half of My Life", Xu Di successfully created various characters with distinct personalities, showing the inner world of the characters to the fullest, and won warm applause and high praise from the audience.
The audience was all overwhelmed by her superb acting skills and expressed their admiration for this "powerful" actor.
However, behind this remarkable achievement, how much hardship and sweat did Xu Di pay? Fortunately, she always has Yu Jianwei, a confidant partner, by her side, to solve problems for her and create a warm and stable family atmosphere.
In order to allow his wife to devote himself to work, Yu Jianwei resolutely took on the heavy responsibility and took on the family's affairs, including cooking food, tidying up the house, taking care of young children, and so on.
Some people can't help but wonder if a manly man who does housework at home all day will feel lost or embarrassed? However, Yu Jianwei always smiled in return, and his eyes were only focused on his wife's career development.
Whenever Xu Di receives rave reviews, he is full of joy; Whenever his wife wins an award, he is far more proud than others. In Yu Jianwei's view, being able to share the pressure on his wife is a great blessing in life, and housework does not mean low or humble.
It is precisely because of his full support that Xu Di can devote all her energy to her acting career without any worries.
Over the years, Yu Jianwei has expressed his deep love for his wife in a unique way. Although he also encountered rumors during this period, some people even questioned that he was "adopted by his wife" or "oppressed by his wife".
However, he made the most powerful response with practical actions.
Their love story is like a moving music, which continues to play in the long river of years. They support each other, grow together, go through ups and downs hand in hand, and witness each other's glory and glory together.
Now, time flies, Xu Di and Yu Jianwei, who have entered the age of antiquity, have gone through more than 40 springs, summers, autumns and winters hand in hand, this marriage process is like a magnificent epic of burning passion, the relationship between the two is like a continuous long stream, consistently loving each other, and the deep love between each other is moving.
Whenever she thinks back to the past, Xu Di always says with emotion that marrying Yu Jianwei, an "ordinary and great" husband, is undoubtedly the wisest and most correct choice she has made in her life.
Back then, the "Xueba class president" who was severely criticized by her has now become the closest confidant and friend in her life. With his practical actions, Yu Jianwei perfectly interprets the true meaning of "dearest and beloved".
No matter when Xu Di's career was just starting, he gave his full support; Or when she became famous, he silently guarded the deep affection, and he wholeheartedly played an important role in helping the virtuous.
Those seemingly ordinary daily trivialities, such as opening his mouth for food and stretching out his hands for clothes, actually contain Yu Jianwei's deep affection for his wife. Whenever someone gave a strange look at their "unique" couple, Yu Jianwei always smiled indifferently and never took these gossips to heart.
Because he knows that everything he has done is nothing more than the best reward for his wife's selfless dedication to the family over the years
It is true that Xu Di, who enjoys a high reputation in the entertainment industry, once had a grand dream of becoming a film and television industry. Now, this dream has become a reality, in addition to her own unremitting efforts, it is inseparable from the support of her husband Yu Jianwei.
It is precisely because of Yu Jianwei's full dedication that Xu Di was able to devote herself to artistic creation without any worries.
Time is like an arrow, time is like a shuttle, and the love between the two has become deeper and deeper over time. In the entertainment industry, Xu Di has won countless honors and applause; However, at home, she can still feel her husband's most sincere care and love.
When she looks back on the past, the warmest praise that emerges in her heart is undoubtedly the "ordinary and great" husband in front of her.
Some people may not be able to understand the way of their marriage, but for this old couple who are still in love, they have already understood the true meaning of love. That is, to love with your heart, to cherish with affection, and to support each other with actions until the last moment of your life.