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What is shocking is never the opposition between men and women

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Someone asked me to talk about the topic of opposition between men and women, saying that the antagonism between men and women today is shocking.

What is the value of this kind of topic, just like you talk about the real estate market in general? Worthless.

80% of the deposits are in the hands of 2% of the people, and 20% of the deposits are in the hands of 98% of the people.

Any market that is particularly differentiated, you can only talk about it separately.

I've made an analogy many times, our income structure is pin-shaped, you earn 2300,000 yuan a year, and you don't feel like you're catching up with the average of a developed country like Japan.

Because you find that the CEO of your company earns tens of millions a year, and there is a boss above him, and there is a boss above his boss, and someone earns hundreds of small goals a year.

You can't even count the number of zeros behind it.

You think you're just moonlight, but you don't know that you're already standing on the pins of the pushpin, and there's a disc underneath that, and it's common to have a monthly salary of $3,000 on the disc.

So it's not a pyramid, it's just a pushpin, and it's ridiculous for you to say that men and women are against each other in front of a pushpin.

Who's against whom? Is there an opposition between the woman on the tip of the pushpin and the man on the pushpin disc? Is there an antagonism between the man on the tip of the thumbtackin and the woman on the thumbtackin disc?

Therefore, if you look at it in layers, it's just that people on the same layer are hurting each other, and once they cross the layer, there is no intersection.

Does the man and woman on the pushpin disc hurting each other really affect the tip of the needle?

Let me ask a more poignant question, is the woman on the tip of the needle really feel that she and the woman on the disc are family?

A 100 billion female leader, would she really think that she and the nightclub escort girl are good sisters?

One night 12 years ago, I understood this sentence very profoundly, or to put it simply, in a way that was almost pasted on my face by the world:

In fact, only personality is equal between people.

In other words, beyond the personality, you know.

What stimulated you that night? stayed up all night because the party giants had to receive important people.

One of the demonstrations is a product of a leading Party B Group. There's something wrong with this product, and I can't fix it.

One of the two presidents of the Party B Group has come to supervise the battle in person, and he was also a developer of the first generation of products.

He all went down in person, and more than a dozen related product line general managers, directors, and department managers had long been scolded by him, but the bottom employees were relatively relaxed, because the bosses were all there, and the sky had fallen and there was a high top.

As the architect of Party A, I came up with an idea to restart.

As long as you anticipate the timing of the demo and restart it five minutes early, it will last for 30 minutes without failure.

I've calculated, and the show is sufficient. I advise you to take a risk.

If there is a problem afterwards, I will carry it on Party A's side, and you will carry it in your group, and if there is no problem, everyone is happy.

Then the two of us agreed, he, the president of a large group, ten years older than me, although he was a part-time worker, but he was also a billionaire more than ten years ago, and he was also a big name in the industry, and he hid it in a black box, and he hid it himself.

Waiting for me to send a signal, he himself asked to restart it himself, and he didn't feel at ease when he handed it over to someone else.

I, dressed as a waiter serving water, blended in with the crowd of entourage, judged the timing, and sent a text message to inform him five minutes in advance.

Then I saw that in the crowd, his boss, their chairman, a man who had more than 11 figures back then, was not even qualified to enter the door, and was stopped by security outside the exhibition hall.

The boss of our Party A, the person who stomped on the industry and shook three times, their chairman, can only follow up with his bag on weekdays.

This man behaves like a waiter and a docent.

Party A's boss and the boss, who is also accompanied, did a very interesting thing, actually walking sideways.

Because he couldn't do it, he had to face the one he was going to receive with his own face, and in order to show respect, he had to turn sideways and walk like a crab.

Then I don't know what's wrong, maybe I stayed up all night and was confused, and I was in a bit of a trance, because I remembered the president, who was still hiding in the box at this moment.......

Life is not a historical record, and I don't have any idea that a big husband should be like this, no.

I just felt for a moment that I was living a pretty bad life in my life.

Of course, it was more than that, because after that incident, I transformed, I went from being a technology architect, to a marketing executive.

10 years ago, we went to bid, but I don't know why, people didn't even give a conference room, no stools and chairs.

Temporarily, something notified us to stamp after the modification, and I saw a few small bosses bidding with us, all of whom were worth more than 100 million yuan, and they were very close to 100 million people snatching toilet lids in the toilet.

Everyone has to find a place to stamping the company's seal and signing their names, and they can only snatch the few toilet seats to put the documents flat.

It's not the most interesting part, the most interesting thing is that everyone thinks it's good, it's very accustomed, and they don't complain, it seems to say, people like us, it's good to have a toilet lid lying on your stomach.

In fact, at that time, I thought, change the venue, and when the bidding is over, they go to the KTV, pick up cigars one by one, and pretend to be a big brother, which is another situation.

You see people squatting, you squatting, you think it's good to squat, is this the legendary three realms of life?

In "Let the Bullets Fly", Zhang Mazi asked the master, can you stand and return the money?

The master was surprised, he didn't think about this possibility, how could he make money while standing? You have to kneel to earn it.

Many people see this paragraph, and their understanding is that it is a discipline.

The master has no discipline, Zhang Mazi has pursuits, and they all understand it this way.

In fact, according to the hierarchical structure of the pushpin, most people, as far as the master's little thing, can't think about it, and Zhang Mazi's little thing can't be your turn.

In the final analysis, it is not who is more noble than whom, but the cards in Zhang Mazi's hand are bigger than the master, so he can stand, and the master can only kneel.

Kneeling is not ridiculous, kneeling also requires qualifications.

For example, if I work as a coder after graduation, then as an architect, and then as a manager, how much money can I earn if I have been working like this?

The annual salary of one million is only a few hundred thousand after tax, and it is 20 million less to buy a slightly okay four-bedroom apartment, without eating or drinking, more than 20 years, a lifetime has passed.

To put it mildly, let alone standing, even if you kneel, you can't take your turn, right?

Sima Qian said that at the most glorious moment of Xiang Yu, the princes kneeled forward, that is, kneeling and squeezing forward.

Is the point on knee-walking? No, the point is on the princes.

If at this moment, he is just a military chief, and if he wants to stand like Zhang Mazi, he is afraid that he has no strength, and if he wants to kneel like his master, he is only afraid that he is not qualified.

That's life.

Two days ago, I said that the female executive of Baidu, she was clearly going to flash, and then the move was tantamount to letting the whole network help her on the horse and give her a ride.

In the past two days, a reader told me, how can you guess so accurately, she really left in seconds, was approved in seconds, and the more important detail is that people have registered the company as early as last month.

It's not a guess, it's a heart-to-heart.

When you sit in an executive like her, and when you see a lot of things that you shouldn't have seen in your life, many of your preconceived notions will be shaken.

You will also slowly become a person you didn't know in the past.

People, a lot of things are realized little by little.

You said that when you took the college entrance examination, you picked one out of 10,000 miles, how to learn to be a tyrant, and when you arrived at the conscription office, it turned out that there were two words on it: literacy.

You are not convinced, saying that my ability is not only literacy, but I know the eight ways to write fennel beans.

The man from the enlistment office smiled and said, go, look at the sweeper, he can write in nine ways.

At this time, you see a rickety body in front of you, put down the broom, with that weather-beaten face, look up and smile at you, you suddenly find that this is not the legendary handsome elder brother?

The senior brother was a star on campus back then, and the great god in the minds of the younger brothers and sisters, it turned out that he was just sweeping the floor here.

Then I worked very hard and mixed hard, like Ip Man all day long, patting my chest, I could beat ten, I could beat twenty.

If I hadn't fought a lot of great battles, I wouldn't have been able to fight with the president who was ten years older than me at a very young age.

He was in charge of squatting in the black box, and I was in charge of staring at the soles of people's feet outside.......

When I was a child, I always thought that I had learned Olympiad mathematics for so many years, and it was used to calculate the trajectory of missiles in the future, and later I learned that it was originally used to calculate the number of steps taken by big people.......

Actually, it's nothing, I'm not wronged, after all, Hawking has to stand up and toast when he comes, compared with him, I'm very content.

So many years later, my wife asked me, was it a pity for you to give up and invest full-time as a student with a very good career prospect? Do we really need money that much?

In other words, I thought you were Zhang Mazi stepping on colorful auspicious clouds, but I didn't expect you to be inferior to your master.

To my wife, I answered very honestly: Our family really needs it.

You don't know that firewood, rice, oil and salt are expensive, and a person with an annual salary of one million for a lifetime is very good in our country.

Actually, what is this money for?

To put it bluntly, the difference between the rate of return on capital and the rate of return on labor is incredible.

Whether you admit it or not, this absurd fact is a fact.

Besides, do you want our children to repeat my old ways? Is it possible to calculate the level at which the trajectory of a ballistic missile can be calculated in mathematics, just to count the number of steps?

At the end of the day, don't say I like it, even if I don't like the capital market, I'll devote myself to research.

Money is not everything, but no matter what you do, you can't do without money in the end.

All your labor accumulation is inseparable from the topic of money rolling money in the end, otherwise it will be all accumulation in vain.

Do you really think that only fat cats will be deceived by fishing girls? No, it's everyone.

All of us have worked hard all our lives, and in the end, aren't we all "fishing girls" in quotation marks who take our money? It's nothing more than in what form, it's real estate, it's P2P, it's inflation, or.

So do I really have a choice? Can I really not know how to invest? Madam, if I don't understand, you have to understand, and our children have to understand.

The master also wants to be like Zhang Mazi, but the master does not have Zhang Mazi's strength.

The master doesn't want to kneel, but if the master doesn't kneel, will he let his daughter-in-law kneel? Do you want your child to kneel?

Wake up, we don't have a choice.

I just found out early on that I really didn't have a choice in my life.

Pay attention to the official account and the compass in the world to read the text "How to become an investor step by step"

What is shocking is never the opposition between men and women