#头条创作挑战赛#
When you reach old age, you will find that some habits that people have imperceptibly developed in their lives in this life will not be easily changed.
This is true for both good and bad habits.
But in old age, in order to ensure our health, good habits must of course continue to be carried forward, and bad habits must be forcibly changed, but often some elderly people just can't get rid of these bad habits:
Too much to worry about
Some elderly people may like to worry about their children's learning from a young age, and then worry about their children's marriage when they grow up, and then worry about their children's small family and grandchildren.
In fact, when you get old, you will find that this habit will have to be broken, because when you get old, you only have to worry about your body.
Don't worry about it, worry about it indiscriminately, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, even if the current child chooses not to marry temporarily, don't urge marriage all day long, that will lead to the relationship between the old man and the child gradually drifting apart.
When people are old and older, there is still a generation gap with young people, and sometimes children do not understand the good intentions of the elderly.
In that case, don't worry about it, because worrying about your lungs and lungs can only increase your own troubles in the end, and the child still moves forward according to his own way of doing things.
Therefore, when people are old, they must get rid of the bad habit of worrying about it, just worry about ourselves, live our lives well, and don't care about the next life.
As for the education of grandchildren, children in our era grew up naturally, which is like today's children, even if they start to sign up for dance classes, swimming classes, painting classes, etc. at the age of three or two, people's views are that children cannot lose at the starting line.
In fact, in the eyes of our old people, at such a young age, it is useless to learn these things.
But the young people don't listen to us, so that's it, just let them go.
If we have good conditions and can help us if we have money, we can help us, and if we are unable to protect ourselves, then choose to shut up and take care of ourselves.
Therefore, this bad habit must be broken, just don't worry about it.
Too frugal
Because the elderly of our era came from difficult times, and their lives were diligent and thrifty.
When you are old, you should remember not to be too frugal, and eat and drink whatever is good for your health.
If you spend money on ourselves, it is called money, and if you don't spend it, it will be a piece of waste paper.
After living hard for most of your life, it's time to enjoy life when you're old, and don't just think about saving money for your children.
Good boy, if you don't save a penny for him, he can live well.
As for the disobedient child, maybe if you save him a mountain of gold and silver, he will also lose it for you in minutes.
Therefore, when you are old, you should abandon the bad habit of being too thrifty, and don't eat leftovers, buy some fresh vegetables and fruits to eat, so as to be conducive to your health.
Look at what young people eat and drink now, what else do you want to be too frugal? When people see that the food is not palatable, they immediately take out the food, and the express delivery is soft, and they borrow Huabei to borrow it, and the credit card is swiped casually, and they spend money in advance and enjoy life in advance, as if the money is borrowed and will not have to be repaid in the future.
But in any case, young people live happily, so don't be frugal when you're old, get rid of this bad habit, and enjoy your old age.
No hygiene
When people are old, we are just old, and we are not stupid, we must pay attention to hygiene, and get rid of the bad habit of not paying attention to hygiene.
Don't wear slippers, go out if you are sloppy, we must clean up ourselves, including the hygiene of the home, don't make the home like a garbage dump all day long, pay attention to hygiene and less disease, this is natural, so we must get rid of this bad habit.
Leaning on the old and selling the old
When people are old, age is not valuable, and they have no right to speak, so don't rely on the old and sell the old.
Don't talk about how we were in that era all day long, you must know that today's young people have not experienced our difficult era, they cannot empathize.
Therefore, let's not put on an old posture, no matter how beautiful it once was, it has become a thing of the past, and when you retire, you will become a passer-by when you are old.
Choose a lifestyle that suits you to enjoy your old age, choose to shut up, keep up with the trend of the times, and enjoy the convenience brought to us by the new era.
Stick to the old ways
People are old, we must keep pace with the times, can not stick to the rules, our era has become a thing of the past, the current society is developing rapidly, since we have caught up, then we have to keep up with the pace of the times, we also come to scan the code to pay, but also all day long swiping Douyin, swiping videos, watching the news to understand national events, so that our own old life is colorful.
In short, it is not terrible for people to be old, what is terrible is that these bad habits cannot be changed, we should not worry about it, don't be too thrifty, don't pay attention to hygiene, don't rely on the old and sell the old, don't stick to the old rules, be the old man of the new era, enjoy the convenience of life brought to us by the new era, and enjoy the old age happily.