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Back in November 2007, this special "Singles' Day", 37-year-old Xiao Dongpo was like a bright star, instantly becoming the focus of public attention! was originally just an unknown host in CCTV's "Township Covenant" column, but after being interviewed by the well-known interview program "Luyu Appointment" and the well-known journal "Bosom Friend", he was given the honor of "Golden Bachelor".
In an instant, Xiao Dongpo's environment seemed to have become a stage for marriage and rendezvous. Many marriage and love websites and enthusiastic friends have come to draw red lines and build bridges for him; The flight attendants on the flight also unabashedly offered him warm enthusiasm; There are even female fans who do not hesitate to spend 2,000 yuan to buy concert tickets, hoping to spend a good time with him.
In the face of this sudden "blind date craze", Xiao Dongpo's heart was full of helplessness and contradictions. Having experienced a failed marriage, he can no longer be swayed by short-lived passions as easily as he did in his youth, so he can make too rash life decisions.
He began to think deeply and set extremely strict criteria for himself in choosing a mate.
However, just when Xiao Dongpo was almost giving up the idea of finding true love, in the hot summer of 2013, he miraculously entered the sacred hall of marriage! And his bride is an ordinary-looking woman, which makes the outside world can't help but have a lot of doubts.
In the long journey of finding love, Xiao Dongpo has always maintained his awe of love. First of all, he is reluctant to choose an "ill-fated" partner again, and the kind of person who is prone to falling into pessimism is something he absolutely cannot accept.
According to him, 70% of husband and wife quarrels originate from trivial things in daily life, and these seemingly insignificant details are actually related to the happiness and harmony of a family.
Secondly, Xiao Dongpo hopes that his other half is not a poor person. In his eyes, a good wife should be diligent and able to bring prosperity to the family.
Her qualities are not only reflected in her hard work and dedication, but also in having a positive impact on her family.
Finally, Xiao Dongpo has another requirement that cannot be ignored, that is, the other party must care for his daughter like a biological mother. Although his daughter, who was only 9 years old at the time, followed his ex-wife to study in a different place, he resolutely did not allow the lack of family affection.
With the above three criteria, Xiao Dongpo embarked on a long blind date journey. He deliberately delayed his appointments and devised some unique questions in order to pick the most suitable person.
Among the women, those who expressed dissatisfaction, opposition or sought a compromise were excluded from consideration by the man, Xiao Dongpo.
Even in small hobbies that seem inconsequential in everyday life, such as trying to add soy sauce to tomatoes and eggs during the stir-frying process, Xiao Dongpo will carefully consider whether the other party can accept and tolerate the move.
As a result, for more than 6 years, Xiao Dongpo has never been able to find a partner who can match his heart. However, just when he had almost given up the idea of continuing to search, on June 2, 2012, a woman who was almost missed by him quietly came, she was Zhu Yanxia.
When they met for the first time, Zhu Yanxia did not leave a particularly deep impression on people, with an ordinary appearance and an introverted personality. Xiao Dongpo almost ignored her, and originally thought that this was just another blind date that ended in nothing.
However, Zhu Yanxia inadvertently walked into Xiao Dongpo's deep inner world.
Although the married life is not as passionate and romantic as when they were young, the little details in life together build a happy harbor for the couple.
The preparations for the wedding are mainly handled by Zhu Yanxia. As Xiao Dongpo, whose career is at a critical stage, he devoted himself to the reform of the "Township Covenant" program, while Zhu Yanxia was considerate and took the initiative to take on the complicated wedding preparations, which made her husband feel very pleased.
On the day of the wedding, Xiao Dongpo was still busy discussing matters related to the revision of the program, and the former "golden bachelor", after the completion of the program transformation, unexpectedly won the reputation of "CCTV's No. 1 Matchmaker".
Time is like an arrow, Zhu Yanxia was pregnant for ten months, bringing a lovely daughter weighing six pounds and eight taels to the newlyweds, and at the same time bringing them a lot of trouble. Due to the need to take care of the child, Zhu Yanxia often neglected the habit of massaging Xiao Dongpo's cervical spine, which made Xiao Dongpo quite dissatisfied.
One night, he woke up his sleeping wife, and the two of them carefully calculated that since the birth of their daughter, they could only enjoy the world of the two of them for a short 10 minutes every morning.
These precious 10 minutes have become their "happiness gas station". Since then, Zhu Yanxia has never neglected this small habit, and even her techniques have become more and more skillful and soft.
No matter how heavy the work, they will find time to carefully craft a precious photo album that treasures every detail of their ordinary life. Printed on the homepage is the scene where Zhu Yanxia drove her husband to work for the first time; Next, it was the first time they entered the chaotic new home, and Zhu Yanxia couldn't help but smile secretly when she stood in the center; Finally, there is the scene of them holding hoes and toiling in the courtyard of their home... These seemingly ordinary but warm moments are all deeply imprinted in this album, becoming the best testimony of their yearning and expectation for a better life.
The encounter between Zhu Yanxia and Xiao Dongpo came from a chance coincidence. On a flight day in 2012, which was delayed for some reason, the two made a phone call to each other by mistake, which laid the foundation for their future acquaintance.
That night, Xiao Dongpo, who was very drunk, confided his deep pain and troubles on the other end of the phone, while Zhu Yanxia always maintained a patient listening attitude and let him tell in a disorderly manner.
Zhu Yanxia's unexpected listening ability brought a great surprise to Xiao Dongpo. At first, he was just attracted by Zhu Yanxia's gentle and calm personality, thinking that she was a very suitable friend to confide in.
However, as time went on, more remarkable traits were revealed in this woman.
Not only is she a good listener, but she also has a unique sense of humor. When it comes to the dish "scrambled eggs with tomatoes and soy sauce", Zhu Yanxia responded without hesitation: "You're right, I do look a little like a bun."
This kind of unexpected witty remark often makes Xiao Dongpo laugh and can't help himself.
What surprised Xiao Dongpo the most was that Zhu Yanxia had studied the professional field of financial management. For Xiao Dongpo, who has been troubled by financial problems for a long time, this is undoubtedly a precious gift from God.
On many occasions, he felt at a loss when using his bank or credit cards, and even asked his colleagues to record various passwords for him. And the appearance of Zhu Yanxia can just solve this headache.
This is where the magic of love lies, you originally thought she was just an ordinary person, but after in-depth contact, you found that there were countless surprises hidden in her. What can amaze the experienced Xiao Dongpo is by no means an idle person.
And Zhu Yanxia not only successfully captured Xiao Dongpo's heart, but what is even more rare is that she has won the love and respect of Xiao Dongpo's entire family with her unique charm.
At that time, when Zhu Yanxia's kind mother and two beautiful sisters were traveling in the capital, Xiao Dongpo personally went into the kitchen, carefully carved, fried and fried, and finally created his invincible "Dongpo Grilled Hoof" peerless delicacy!
This bright color, rich aroma and excellent taste of this delicacy has made Xiao Dongpo a legend who has captured countless taste buds. As expected, after the Zhu family tasted it that night, they were all amazed, and they were full of praise for Zhu Yanxia about to enter this orderly and warm family.
After this touching scene, Xiao Dongpo's family finally dispelled all doubts, and the two quickly entered the marriage hall after only 55 days. Since then, the flame of love has been burning in their hearts, and it is as hot as ever.
Today's Xiao Dongpo has gotten rid of the anxiety and confusion of his single years in the past, and has lived a colorful and happy life. As a first-line host of CCTV, his career is thriving, and with the help and selfless encouragement of Zhu Yanxia, his career has continued to expand and expand.
At the beginning of 2015, he won the title of "Most Socially Influential Column" for his outstanding hosting of the "Township Covenant" program, and won many honors such as "Gold Medal Producer" and "Excellent Host of China Radio and Television".
In the spacious, bright, clean and tidy residence of the Xiao family, there is vitality everywhere. Colourful tropical fish swim leisurely in the tank, and delicate flowers compete on the balcony.
This happy nest is not only equipped with cutting-edge technological equipment, but also full of warm and romantic atmosphere.
Just blow the whistle lightly and the speaker will automatically play a beautiful song; Step into the bathroom and the automatic toilet lid will slowly open. Undoubtedly, this is an ideal home that perfectly combines romance and practicality.
Whether at work or in life, Zhu Yanxia always takes care of her husband and always pays attention to her husband's needs. She is well aware of Xiao Dongpo's cervical spine discomfort caused by long-term and high-intensity work, so she will patiently and meticulously massage his neck every morning to help him clear his mind and accumulate energy.
Xiao Dongpo was deeply intoxicated by this warm time, and this short ten minutes was the "happy gas station" for their sincere love.
Zhu Yanxia sympathized with her husband's heavy work and never complained that he often came home late at night. Even if she is asleep or taking care of her young children, she is always happy and uncomplaining when she sees her husband return.
She knows that Xiao Dongpo is the pillar of the family and needs her full support.
Even in the midst of busy daily tasks, two partners who create quality times together still take time out of their lives to keep track of their lives. For example, the moment when driving a car to escort your husband to work; Or the chaotic and busy scene when you move into a brand new home; and in the courtyard of a warm family, the back of the hard work with both hands holding the hoe, etc.
All these ordinary and warm moments are cleverly frozen in their exquisite photo albums, as if they are a vivid life history, engraved with their endless yearning and persistent pursuit of a better life.
Xiao Dongpo confessed to us that perhaps their married life was not as romantic and exciting as when they were young, but the trivial things of life full of warm details have built a unique romance that belongs to them.
It is this deep romantic feeling that fills their hearts with love and gives them endless happiness power.